It turns out that once people are down and out, even "blood relatives" will bully you.

Suffering is like a magnet, which not only affects your personal magnetic field, but even makes you suffer more misfortune.

Many people think that although life will go wrong in nine cases out of ten, they will eventually believe that God will save them.

In fact, we never know whether God will save us. Why? Because there are too many people suffering in this world, even if God wants to save them, he can't save them.

Besides, things in this world, this is not just a disaster. As long as you are unlucky at some point, then you will really feel what the real world and people are like.

Just like a person who fails to start a business, all the partners around him will leave him, and even his family will laugh at him for being incompetent and a loser.

Like a person down and out, relatives and friends will laugh at him. When he asks for help, no one will help him, but he will only hit a person when he is down.

On earth, it looks beautiful. In the final analysis, it is just a hell covered by curtains, behind which there is only endless pain.

Some people will think that this is not too negative. In fact, whether it is negative or not, this is reality. No matter how you treat it, you can't escape.

02

There is such a story.

There is a family in the village. There are two children in it. In fact, they are old enough to study. However, there is still no money for children to study at home.

Last year, there was a drought in this village, and all the food in the village was not harvested. What about the members of this family? We can only starve and tighten our belts.

Therefore, in order to change the reality that the whole family is hungry and the children have no books to read, the father of this family is going to go to the county to find a job next year in order to let the whole family live a better life.

However, on the day of leaving the village, the family's father slipped and fell off the cliff. Fortunately, others found it in time, otherwise it would have caused great disaster.

Finally, he lost a leg, not only his desire to work in the county was dashed, but also his ability to do farm work in the village was lost.

He thinks he helps his relatives and gives them some food every year. In this way, when he is down and out, I believe his relatives will also give him some help.

However, he was wrong. Not only did his relatives not visit him, but even his family had a food crisis, and no one came to send them some broken rice, let alone repay them.

One night, he looked at the hungry and emaciated children at the dinner table and said only one sentence to them: "Your father's incompetence made you suffer so much."

A few days later, my father committed suicide by drinking pesticides. Before committing suicide, he wrote the following sentence: "Instead of increasing the burden on the family because of my existence, it is better to make the family easier with my departure."

This family, later, also broke up and became a mess. ......

03

Every story is a portrayal of every scene in life.

The father of this family is actually a tragedy, and his children are the ones involved in the tragedy. And tragedy is the normal state of life.

In this world, there is beauty, but it is rare. And when there is beauty, God will ruthlessly break it, and then let the tragic fragments flow to the world.

In this way, a tragedy happened in the world. Where are we? They all went further and further on the road of tragedy until they lost themselves.

Many people think that as long as we are willing to work hard and struggle, I believe there will be no tragedy in this world, and everyone in this world will love themselves.

However, there is a reality that we have to understand, that is, after the struggle, it is hard to say that there will be gains. Sometimes, what you have worked so hard to plant may be just a bitter fruit.

People can't always be blindly confident and optimistic. Sometimes, more important than blind optimism, you have an inner heart that can see through the world and the essence of life.

04

We might as well ask ourselves, are we one of the few people with destiny in this world?

In fact, no one knows. And we, if we just wait for heaven to take care of us, then we will eventually become fish on the chopping block in this world.

And what should we do?

We don't rely on heaven, but we should match our actions with heaven, so as to conform to the rules of heaven and earth and the provisions of society. So that we can find our own blessings by ourselves.

You know, if people don't save themselves, no one will save us.

The world is like a bottomless sea, as wide as the sky, and we are like a boat. This boat, after all, can't wait for others to push it. It can only push itself and become a ferryman.

We don't know if God will give us the best arrangement, and we don't know if God will care for kind people, but we know that only we can be kind to ourselves.

Everything else is just indifference and hypocrisy.

Text/There are deer in Shushan