How to understand the attitude of "knowing the world well, being good at self-mockery and not mocking others"?

"Knowing the world without being worldly" means knowing the truth of the world, but don't try to please both sides. As I grew older and saw people and things, I learned a lot about the world. For example, we know how to solve this problem, but maybe this method will damage something, so we don't want to do it. In fact, many times, we will find a delicate balance between knowing the world and not knowing the world.

When dealing with people, it is very important to be measured and sincere. Keep a proper distance, don't communicate with people deeply, and don't hide anything, so that people can keep a corresponding distance from you after knowing your choice. Knowing the world and being unsophisticated is a mature performance of treating people with things, which not only embodies the principle of dealing with people, but also treats people with kindness. The two are combined in life.

"Being good at self-mockery without mocking others" is a circuitous and moderate attitude towards life. In communication with people, in speech, retreat for progress, circuitous way to alleviate their difficulties. Sometimes a simple sentence can get you out of the embarrassing situation in communication and surprise you instantly. People who laugh at themselves are generally in a pre-emptive state, which is easy to save face and let the embarrassing atmosphere flow again.

People who often laugh at themselves are very confident people. Imagine how people who are not confident dare to exaggerate their shortcomings and tell them as jokes. Only those who are confident have such courage. And people who laugh at themselves are generally extremely kind. They are kind not only to themselves but also to others. These two sentences have taught people more ways to get along and be a man, and they are extremely wise ways to get along.