Is a person's life more and more painful?

A person's life is an increasingly painful process.

First, the child is suffering.

Children know in their hearts that adults will be happy as long as they behave "well". Adults will like themselves and praise themselves as "sensible" as long as they listen to their words and look at their faces. Parents want their children to listen to their own words and live according to their own wishes. Those obedient and clever children will always be praised by their families and teachers. Naughty, rebellious and rebellious children will always be punished and criticized.

In order to get the love and praise of adults, in order to be less punished and scolded, children gradually learn to suppress their true feelings to one side, and strive to make that kind of "good" appearance and make themselves likable. Children are actually painful.

Second, middle-aged people are miserable.

Middle-aged people are the most difficult group of all ages. Their career has reached the ceiling, their marriage is trivial, and there is no chance to breathe. Your time and energy are given to work and family, and the burden of life falls on your shoulders. You are exhausted and more lonely.

If the husband and wife are harmonious and have someone to share with you, you won't be so lonely. If the husband and wife are at odds, you should taste all the ups and downs yourself. When people reach middle age, many things are powerless to change, and more are helplessness and death.

Third, old age is also very painful.

To outsiders, the old man may really be the type who has everything. They have a house, a pension and medical insurance. On the surface, they look stable, rich and support themselves for a long time. In fact, their quality of life is extremely poor and they have no dignity. They just linger in the turbulent years.

Although they have a lot of pensions, they have no ability to spend them at all, and it is even difficult to get some money with a bank card. Although they have medical insurance, they don't have to worry about hospitalization expenses, but they are most afraid of hospitalization, because there is no one to take care of them, no one to help them, no taxis, no take-out orders, and everything needs to be taken care of by themselves. Even if they hired a nurse, they didn't know how to ask, where to ask and who to look for.

Everyone has worked hard for most of his life. When I was young, I was too tired to worry about food and clothing, serving my parents and raising my children. When he is old, he can only live this life of not wanting to die but waiting for death, which is even more painful.