How to understand schadenfreude when seeing others suffer

What is the mentality of gloating, mocking, sarcastic and attacking others?

Why do I hate people who take pleasure in others’ misfortunes? What is their psychology?

You can be a spectator, listen and think, after all, it is okay and allowed to hang up if the matter has nothing to do with you. But as a friend or colleague under certain circumstances, your schadenfreude is really annoying and can even make people doubt their own situation and future.

By hitting others to prove "I am better than you", and then gain the self-deceptive "sense of superiority"; by hitting others to make the other party give up in spite of difficulties, and make the other party give up halfway, thus preventing others from becoming stronger.

This kind of person's mentality is that if he doesn't work hard, he hopes that others will be worse, so what he/she often does is to spare no effort to attack others.

When people see others suffering, there are two common reactions: sympathy and/or happiness (schadenfreude). Some people's reaction is mainly sympathy, and some people's reaction is mainly schadenfreude.

How to understand the schadenfreude when you see others suffering?

At this time, there must be a psychological need to be satisfied, and this psychological need is the narcissistic need (that is, one is good, excellent, lucky, and specially favored). After all, those who are not suffering are temporarily in a superior position compared to those who are suffering. Of course, this kind of satisfaction alone is not enough. It must also be coupled with the person's lack of compassion, which will manifest as schadenfreude.

It’s amazing when I think about it. She is very good and outstanding. I have no feelings for her. I just feel like a weakling. I will not gloat about that incident and the bad things it caused to her. I will sympathize with her experience and try my best to comfort and help.

Maybe, sometimes. I will take pleasure in others' misfortunes, but most of the time I take pleasure in and despise such low-level mistakes, and the pleasure of being punished by evildoers.

Maybe, to a certain extent, I am more of a schadenfreude. He is also a person who hates schadenfreude.

Everyone has schadenfreude, but some people don’t show it very obviously, or they just hide it.

So. When I encounter personally important matters or major difficulties, I generally don’t tell my friends, especially my colleagues. First, it won’t solve the problem, second, it will only increase annoyance, and third, it will benefit those who are used to gloating over misfortune. Spectators.