Getting married requires a car, but my father-in-law refuses to admit it after marriage. Daughter-in-law: You should miss your face.

This sentence tells us that if you tell it, you should be responsible for your own words, and don't make promises easily when you can't do it. When you tell a lie, you have to make it up in 1 sentences, and most importantly, it will hurt each other's affection.

Li Jianguo and Wang Ying are an old couple. They have raised two sons under their knees. The eldest son is Li Pengcheng and the youngest son is Li Wan Li. In 218, mother Wang Ying put forward the idea of adding a car to the family, which was strongly supported by the two sons.

After some discussion, the mother and son decided to put the car in the name of mother Wang Ying, and everyone could drive it. The two sons also said that they would work hard to help the family repay the loan to relieve the pressure. So on March 28th, the family happily brought a new car.

It's strange to say, since they bought this car, both brothers found their daughter-in-law and got married soon. At this time, the contradictions among the three families came out. Instead of being solved, they became more and more fierce.

Hua Qiuping, the eldest daughter-in-law, is very aggrieved. My husband and I both graduated from graduate school. We both work in a well-known company in Zhengzhou, and we will go back to see our parents and grandparents on weekends. But just six months ago, the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law led to conflicts between my husband and me. Every time my husband communicated with her mother-in-law, she would sever the mother-in-law relationship with my husband. Our home is now like a backyard, and her mother-in-law is not allowed to enter every time she comes back.

Hua Qiu shed tears. She went on to say that I bought clothes for my mother-in-law before I got married, and I gave money to my mother-in-law after I got married, but all this felt right in her eyes, and I didn't know how to be grateful. My husband and I were both highly educated, thinking that the old man should respect her no matter what, but her mother-in-law trampled on our bottom line without a bottom line, almost stepping on our dignity.

Li Pengcheng also said that my mother's behavior really chilled me, threatening me by cutting off the mother-child relationship, and my mother also said that I would return all the money that gave birth to me and raised me, and I was at a loss at that time.

It's a bit unbelievable to say. Since daughter-in-law Hua Qiuping is so reasonable and tries every means to please her mother-in-law, why did her mother-in-law do such an irrational thing?

Then Li Pengcheng came home with his wife, trying to resolve the conflict with his mother. Only when Wang Ying saw her son coming back, it was quite repulsive. She locked herself in the house directly, refused to open the door for her son, and growled, I have nothing to say to my son, even if he died later, it has nothing to do with him.

If there is a contradiction, it is necessary to solve it. I always insist on when it will be the end. After patient persuasion, Wang Yingcai changed her attitude and expressed her willingness to have a good talk with her son. She said that my son called six months ago and said he wanted to use the car, but I didn't say I wouldn't let him use it, so I just said to open it. But I don't know why my son got angry. Instead of driving, she asked me to repay the loan of more than 3 thousand yuan for the car.

my son pengcheng explained: at that time, we were decorating the house in Zhengzhou, and we really didn't have any money in our hands, so we thought about the problem of the car at home. What I said in my original words was that since I was not allowed to drive this car, I didn't want to touch it. Just give me my car loan money, that is, let me fill in the decoration money at home first, and as a result, my mother would disown me unreasonably.

Hearing her son's remarks, Wang Ying was even more angry. She took out her mobile phone and dug out her son's chat record. It said, did you treat me as a mother? Who knows who caused the contradiction? You give me all the money from my pregnancy to your marriage in October, and I will pay you back the car loan money. We can hire a lawyer and break the mother-child relationship.

It seems that Wang Ying took out this record with something in her heart, and then she accused her son and daughter-in-law: Do you treat me like a mother? I didn't come back for half a year, didn't contact me, and didn't go home for the New Year. After I came back, I met my daughter-in-law at his grandparents' house and asked her: Did you have a holiday? As a result, my daughter-in-law said yes without looking up.

Wang Ying became more and more angry, and then she vented her inner dissatisfaction. Before her son got married, our family was happy, and my son often gave us money. What I didn't expect was that my son asked me for the car loan money just after he got married.

This money was given to me by my son before marriage. When he got married, we paid him 4, to 5, yuan, so it was right for him to give us some money. But he insisted that this money was car loan money. Why did he insist on asking me for money in this way? My son can say that we are decorating now. Mom, can you lend me some? Doesn't this statement make people feel comfortable?

Wang Ying believes that before her son got married, the relationship between mother and son was very harmonious, and her son gave her money willingly. However, since the eldest daughter-in-law married into this house, the family relationship has completely changed. Now, the eldest daughter-in-law must have stirred up the quarrel with her son over money.

She said that the eldest daughter-in-law has been staring at this car every day since she got married, and there have been conflicts over this car for three days. This is my car. I said anyone can drive it, but I didn't say she wouldn't be allowed to drive it, but she was always angry about the car.

At this time, Hua Qiuping, the eldest daughter-in-law, explained the reason for the contradiction. She said that at that time, my best friend had a quarrel with her family, so she came to my house to hide. The next day, when we were going back to work, I asked my mother-in-law for the car keys, thinking that I would drive my best friend back to Zhengzhou's home and take her mother-in-law to help take care of the children for two days. After all, my best friend had a quarrel with her family, so I definitely wanted to send her back.

but my mother-in-law couldn't find the car keys after searching all over, so I asked her to look again, but my mother-in-law was very reluctant. Although she also looked, she couldn't find them in the end. My husband said that he wouldn't drive if he couldn't find it, and asked my mother-in-law not to go to Zhengzhou, and asked my best friend to help with the children at our home.

my idea is to take my mother-in-law to take care of the children for two days, because the time of my best friend is uncertain, and why should people take care of our children? My husband just said that there is any uncertainty about the time, so just tell her in advance.

I was very angry when my mother-in-law didn't find the key. My husband not only didn't comfort me, but also said such a thing. I asked my husband why he was so lenient with your family and so hard on me. Because of this, we both quarreled.

When my mother-in-law heard this, she came in and quarreled with me. She yelled at me loudly: Did I say that you are not allowed to drive? I said you didn't say you wouldn't let me drive, but your actions just didn't want me to use the car, and then I was very wronged. I paid my car loan and I can't use the car now.

However, Wang Ying didn't approve of her daughter-in-law's remarks. She berated her daughter-in-law. Did you pay back the car loan? You weren't in this house at that time. Originally, you young couple quarreled. As an old man, I didn't want to intervene. I just heard you tell my son that I wouldn't let you drive. How can I bear it? When will I not let you drive this car? You haven't driven it before.

My father-in-law Li Jianguo also spoke. He said that his daughter-in-law had left her children for two or three months with us because of this incident. I called her to pick up the children, but she was divorcing my son. Later, she called her son's uncle to drive the children there. Later, when the young couple came back, they wouldn't come into our house. Just going to his grandmother's yard, Wang Ying's character was stubborn. If her daughter-in-law didn't come to this hospital, she would.

In the final analysis, Wang Ying did not say that her daughter-in-law Hua Qiu would not be allowed to drive this car. All this was just Hua Qiuping's guess based on her own feelings. At this time, Hua Qiuping talked about her mother-in-law's partiality, and always treated her younger brother Li Wanli's family better.

Wang Ying was very angry when she heard this. She said that the palms of her hands were covered with meat. I spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on your marriage. How can it be eccentric? You don't trust people at all.

Perhaps Hua Qiuping realized that what she said was not quite right, and immediately apologized to her mother-in-law: OK, Mom, I was wrong just now. I was wrong, Mom. I'm sorry.

It's just that Wang Ying ignored her daughter-in-law's apology. Instead, she suddenly sat down on the ground and rolled around and cried, screaming that she was wronged. After a long time of persuasion, Wang Yingcai's mood eased a lot.

After restoring calm, Li Pengcheng asked his parents. One thing he wanted to find out was whether the money was for his son's living expenses or for the car loan, because the money that his mother implied was for her, not for the car loan.

Li Jianguo, as a father, said that at that time, the three of them bought a car under the name of his wife Wang Ying, and the two children paid back the loan. The car they bought on March 28th began to pay back the car loan on April 28th, and the eldest son also paid money, and the younger son sometimes gave some money. As for how much, I don't know. In November, when there was this contradiction, they didn't pay it back, mostly because of me.

Li Pengcheng quickly explained that he had paid back the car loan of 33, yuan in six or seven months, because he had a special bank card to pay back the car loan, which would be automatically cancelled when the time came.

At this moment, Yangyang, the second daughter-in-law, also rushed over when she heard the news. She also wanted to find out the ownership of this car. Yangyang said that when she got married, her parents-in-law promised to give me this car. Without this car as the premise, I wouldn't agree to this marriage. The car was in her mother-in-law's name, and I never asked her to change it to my name. But in the past two years, I have been driving the car. Unexpectedly, my eldest brother was married.

But my father-in-law Li Jianguo said that the second daughter-in-law got married one year after buying this car, and the marriage broke down because of this car. Halfway through, Yangyang asked my father-in-law impatiently, did you say this car was mine last time, did you admit it?

Li Jianguo said, I didn't say it last time. Seeing her father-in-law's denial, Yangyang was angry. She angrily denounced her father-in-law: How can you not admit it? The point is not in the face.

My father-in-law was also puzzled by my daughter-in-law's sudden words, and it took three seconds to argue. How did your parents educate you and talk to your elders like this? Yangyang is not to be outdone. My parents taught me that there was nothing wrong with me. Who told you to find another job?

At this time, Yangyang's mother also came, and her daughter was wronged. Her family would not let her go, so she immediately quarreled with her in-laws, and soon her father-in-law was defeated. As a mother-in-law, Wang Ying sat by and never said a word again.

After the two groups were separated, everyone's mood eased down. In order to find out whether the parents-in-law promised Yangyang to give her the car at the beginning, they also dialed the telephone of the matchmaker at that time to verify it. The matchmaker said that when the marriage was said, the two families were together, and this car was indeed a prerequisite for Yangyang's marriage and was promised to Yangyang.

hearing this, my father-in-law Li Jianguo said, I didn't promise at that time, maybe the matchmaker promised. No matter whether the matchmaker promised or not, as long as the matchmaker said it, I will admit it now. I also told my second son, Li Wanli, that you can drive this car, and your brother still has money. Your brother has never driven it, so he will lose money.

The second son also said that my brother suffered a lot, so he will work hard in the future and give him some compensation in the future. I also called my eldest son later, and said the same thing. Both my sons are my pride, and I also want to make a bowl of water even, but now that I am old, I have no more ability to help my two sons. Now that things have come to this point, I am very helpless.

In the end, the eldest son understood his father's words very well. He told his father his heart: From today on, the previous things will be forgotten. My truest feeling is to take care of my big family, which is also a humility as my brother. Even if this matter is solved, as for the car loan money, just admit it. Don't let me pay for it.

Just because of one car, two marriages have been achieved, and it has also brought contradictions among three families, which is even more ridiculous. Fortunately, after the talk, everyone is relieved, and the family gets along with each other because of communication, rather than using one lie to round up another.

Nowadays, many girls don't want to marry a family with two brothers. To put it bluntly, they are afraid that their parents will be partial to one child, and the relationship between mother-in-law and sister-in-law will greatly increase the probability of conflicts. Therefore, parents should understand that even two sons, after they get married, should not regard them as a big family, but should turn this big family into three small families.

For Li Jianguo and Wang Ying, they just regard their children as a big family, and always feel that their sons will still think about this family as they did before they got married, but they already have two daughters-in-law. They also want a bowl of water to be flat, but it is easier said than done, and there will be some deviations more or less.

When they learned that their eldest son, Li Chengpeng, had suffered a little more than their younger son, Li Wanli, it was only when they tried to make up for it that they remembered that they were too old to make up for it.

Their mistake is that they didn't make it clear to their eldest son, Li Pengcheng, when they gave the car to their second daughter-in-law, which led the Li Pengcheng family to feel that they had repaid the car loan and it was natural to use the car, while the Li Wan Li family felt that the car was mine, so it was their duty to give it to you as a favor, and it was their duty not to give it to you, which led to psychological imbalance between the sisters-in-law, and finally put the contradictions on their in-laws.

After marriage, children will have their own small families and interests. As parents, they should separate these interests and make it clear when the interests are involved. I believe that if parents made it clear to their sons about the car at that time, their sons would understand their parents' good intentions, and eventually their parents would not make it difficult.

Finally, as children, don't take parents' efforts for granted, but also be grateful for their efforts, and never scold their parents.

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