On the wedding day, the bride toasted her parents-in-law with online jokes, and her father-in-law was very angry. What do you think of this?

Nowadays, in this era of information explosion, short online videos are popular, and many people are used to getting information and looking for happiness in just a few tens of seconds of videos.

In this process, we experienced the benefits brought by short videos, such as seeing the beautiful scenery all over the country without leaving home, and seeing countless funny jokes with our fingers. However, we also see many disadvantages. For example, the information we receive has not been filtered, and people who are not very discerning will accept it all.

Many times, the person you like doesn't necessarily like it. What you think is good may be worthless to others, so if you want to impose what you think is good on others, it will be counterproductive.

So, I want to tell you, don't be too addicted to online jokes, feel extremely wonderful, and then follow suit in life. The consequences may surprise you.

Just like Miss Lin, the protagonist of today's article, used an online joke to offer tea to her in-laws when she got married. She thought she could get the same effect as in the video, but unexpectedly she embarrassed herself and put her marriage in a dilemma.

Miss Lin said that she regretted it, but she couldn't figure out why she just wanted to make a joke, but her in-laws couldn't afford it. In fact, I want to say that a joke must make both sides feel funny. If only one of you is willing and the other can't accept it, it's no joke. In-laws, after all, are not parents, and they should be measured in getting along. Sometimes, plain is true, don't think about being unconventional, and the result may be counterproductive.

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Miss Lin is 26 years old, which is the best age for a girl. She has a good face value, good family conditions and a good job. In this way, she is the ideal goal and pursuit object of many men.

Mr. Zhou, 29, is Miss Lin's fiance. They met on a blind date, but they fell in love at first sight and thought each other was the most suitable partner for them.

How long two people have been in love for a year, it has always been very sweet, and there are not too many quarrels. Miss Lin is fashionable and avant-garde. Although she is a bit headstrong, she is still reasonable. Mr. Zhou is steady and modest. Although he is not romantic enough, he is sincere to Teacher Lin.

Seeing that the two children have a good relationship, the parents of both sides put the marriage on the agenda, and Miss Lin and Mr. Zhou also readily accepted it.

When it comes to marriage, both families are very accommodating. Miss Lin's family said that the bride price is one thing, whatever it is, as long as her daughter is happy in the future.

Seeing that the in-laws are so good, Mr. Zhou's family also generously bought a house, decorated it well and returned it to 88 thousand. Miss Lin's family bought the couple a car of hundreds of thousands without saying anything when they got the money. Both sides are happy to come and go.

My friend said that he must have saved the galaxy in his last life, otherwise how could it be so smooth sailing? Miss Lin also feels very happy to meet a husband who does this to herself.

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The wedding preparation process is tense with a hint of sweetness. Miss Lin does it herself, cares about every detail, and strives to make her wedding perfect. The wedding day is getting closer and closer, and she thinks about which link can be improved every day. One day, I was looking at my mobile phone and suddenly found a video.

That video is a popular joke recently. When the bride made a toast to her future in-laws, she said loudly, "Mom, please have tea and help me take care of the children when you are free. Dad, please drink and help the economy. " Everyone burst into laughter and applauded warmly, and the atmosphere was very warm.

Miss Lin felt her eyes lit up. If her wedding is only perfect in every detail, it may not be remembered by everyone, so there must be a little bright spot, and this is the best way.

In order to achieve the effect in the video, Miss Lin decided not to tell Mr. Zhou's family about it in advance and give them a surprise.

On the wedding day, there were many people and the atmosphere was very lively. Mr. Zhou worked very hard to marry Miss Lin home, and everyone was happy all the way.

When I arrived at my parents' home, the ceremony began. Miss Lin picked up the tea brought by the best man and shouted this to her parents-in-law. As she expected, everyone laughed. She looked at her parents-in-law happily, waiting for their response. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law was embarrassed, and my father-in-law was angry and annoyed: "It's a mess, our family doesn't want these."

Everyone was suddenly embarrassed. Teacher Lin didn't expect this, and tears "swished". She didn't expect that she just wanted to set off the atmosphere, and her in-laws would have such an attitude. At that moment, she felt embarrassed and wanted to make a dash for the door.

Seeing this, my husband quickly walked over with tea and said, "Mom and Dad, please have tea." Everyone also reacted and coaxed the couple to worship.

Miss Lin completed the wedding ceremony like a marionette, unable to feel what happened afterwards, and her mind was full of embarrassing scenes during the previous toast.

In this way, the wedding ended and everyone broke up in discord.

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In the new house, Miss Lin has been crying. Mr. Zhou sat next to her and advised, "Don't cry. My parents are too square. If you had told me earlier, I would have stopped you. I didn't expect this. Don't worry about it. "

Hearing this, Miss Lin remembered today's embarrassment. She stood up and was about to leave. Mr. Zhou caught her. She cried and said, "I have never been wronged like this since I was a child. I mean no harm." Even if your parents don't like it, can you tell me privately that you must embarrass me in front of everyone? Today is the most important day in my life. They played a joke on me. I don't know how to get along with your family in the future. "

Mr. Zhou was a little unhappy when he heard Miss Lin say this about his parents: "My parents may be wrong, but are you right?" Are you a little too headstrong? Water under the bridge. Why don't we take a step back? Otherwise, you can feel free. "

In this way, Mr. Zhou slammed the door and left, and Miss Lin cried her eyes out in the room. She doesn't know what to do next. Let's divorce. I always feel unwilling. We don't want a divorce. How to get along in the future? Anyway, Miss Lin knows that her happiness in this life is gone.

After listening to teacher Lin's story, I believe everyone must have different views. Many people may think that Mr. Zhou's parents are a little wonderful and make a mountain out of a molehill. Miss Lin just imitated the online jokes to make everyone happy, so as not to get angry and embarrass the bride in public. Some people will think that Mr. Zhou's parents have done nothing wrong, because they just can't accept such a ceremony. The daughter-in-law is such a girl, so it will be difficult to face it.

Of course, many people will think that Miss Lin is too headstrong. Without communicating with her husband in advance, she will make her own decisions and finally refuse to admit her mistake. Some people will think that teacher Lin is too wronged. Meeting such a family, she is so disrespectful and intolerant. Better leave early.

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Seriously, I think both sides are at fault in this matter. Mr. Zhou's parents, as elders, don't like this trendy thing very much, so they should be tolerant and put it up euphemistically after the wedding, so that Miss Lin may be more acceptable and there will be no such ending.

And Mr. Zhou, he is really the most difficult thing in this matter. He was sandwiched between his parents and his wife. At first, he handled it well and tried to make peace, but in the end, he left the malicious words "It's up to you" and slammed the door, which was really not a good way.

Of course, Miss Lin was also at fault in this incident. It's okay for her to make the wedding more interesting, but she shouldn't do things wishful thinking. It's that she should communicate with each other in advance. After all, marriage is not a one-man show, and the wedding is not your own. Many times, we should consider each other's feelings, not just how happy we are.

In short, in this case, everyone's original intention may be right, but the way to deal with the problem is problematic. If we can think more, be considerate, accommodate and tolerate more, this embarrassing scene for both sides will not appear.

Through this incident, we also understand a truth. Some jokes really need to be divided into different occasions. If you think it's funny and others don't, then it's not a joke, but an injury. Of course, we also understand that people with different views really don't want to be strong, otherwise, in getting along, it can only be endless pain.

Home is not a reasonable place, and there is no way to talk about who is right or wrong. However, marriage needs fate, communication and understanding. There are no natural people, only people who keep trying to integrate. There may be many problems between you, but as long as you can think from each other's point of view, you will be more peaceful and rational.

Finally, I still want to remind everyone that many online jokes should not be imitated. After all, those are only deductive and may not be suitable for you and me in ordinary life. Just take a look at the picture and you will be happy. Don't let such a joke become a killer who hurts you.