Really smart people will "pretend to be poor" in the circle of friends.

Text: Guardian of Emotion

With the simplest words, write about the warmth and coldness of the world and heal the lonely soul.

In this world, most people don't want you to live a good life and surpass his life.

No matter who you get along with, what kind of relationship you have, and how deep your feelings seem, you should "save one hand" instead of leaving no reservation, so that he can get to know you thoroughly.

if you don't understand other people's ideas, you can't trust them completely, treat them as your own, and treat them as strangers.

you should remember that some people only do it for you, but everything they actually do is for their own development, to really beat you, and to make your life go downhill.

You can't be sure where you are in other people's hearts, and you don't know what other people have planned. You should disguise yourself properly when you get along, and don't reveal too much real information about yourself.

What you want to do, what you are trying to get, how much you earn annually, how much you save, and your consumption records are all secrets, so you can't tell them easily.

even if someone asks you these questions, you can't answer them directly. There is nothing to hide.

This is because once you say something, you can't take it back, which is likely to make others hate you and become a stumbling block in your life.

Friends circle belongs to the public platform, and a message you send may be forwarded by screenshot. This means that a few words you didn't mean to say may cause many people to think.

you should know: the more people know that you are doing well, the worse it is.

In life, you should have higher emotional intelligence and think more when you encounter something. A really smart person will "pretend to be poor" in the circle of friends and show his weaknesses appropriately.

The more people know that you have higher income, you must save, and spend more time, the more vulnerable you are.

knowing that you are living a good life is the life you want, which may make others dissatisfied with you, and try to calculate you, which will make you lose a lot.

As the saying goes, "Make a lot of money by holding your breath."

Smart people understand this truth, and they don't show off their income. They all seem to earn enough money to make ends meet, or they need to borrow money to make ends meet.

People's hearts are hard to see through. Don't think that everyone will treat you sincerely.

Therefore, no matter how rich you are, you must be sober, make your emotional intelligence higher and higher, be good at thinking, and don't do so many stupid things.

it's not a bad thing to get along with others and be moderately weak.

For example, you always make others think that you have money. You have never been short of money. You are generous in money, so they may find a reason to borrow it from you.

They do this because they know you have extra money and you won't refuse.

Besides, he is not really short of money, and he has never thought of paying you back. He probably thinks so in his heart: you are not short of money anyway, and it makes no difference who you give flowers to.

on the contrary, you seldom talk about money, so almost no one will take care of you to borrow money, and your money will not go to waste.

to tell the truth, life is not for others to see, just know it in your heart, don't always prove it to others, and don't let everyone think that you have money and strength.

When you are in a circle of friends or chatting with people, you can only talk about your daily life briefly, and you can't mention money or make promises easily.

In fact, many people around you want you to fall down and are waiting to see your jokes.

Keep this in mind. Just because someone says something you like, you can't think that he doesn't care what kind of life you live, and he won't make a trip.

There are people who face each other and behind each other. You should think that you may meet such people.

in addition, you should disguise yourself properly so as not to let others see through you easily. That is to say, you should know how to hide, and don't let others know you too well.

There are many things you should keep in your heart, and you can't just say them.

Few people can really understand you, and not many people are jealous of you, so your life will not be affected, and it will always develop in a good direction.

Conclusion:

People with low EQ are easy to make mistakes and offend people.

No matter what you say or do, you don't think in many ways, but you are impulsive, which may be bad for yourself, the road is getting narrower and narrower, and life is getting worse.

This means that EQ is very important, so you must learn to improve your EQ.

If you know how to get along with others and don't do things that are not good for you, you won't have so many enemies, think about solutions every day and waste your time.

The smarter you are, the more you can handle things properly, the more things you have, and happiness and happiness will always be around.

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Author: a senior tutor who keeps company with books, takes writing as fun, works as a freelance writer and helps countless people out of their emotional difficulties.