What did your parents do that made you feel terrible?

Different people may have different views and definitions on what is cheating. In addition, family relationships and personal experiences will also have an impact on opinions.

Generally speaking, however, some people may think that the following behavior is one of the things that parents may do to deceive people:

1. Financial problems: Some parents may not give enough financial support, or give opaque information on financial issues, so that their children feel cheated.

2. Education and career choice: Some parents may interfere with their children's education and career choice too much, without giving them enough freedom and respecting their personal wishes.

3. Marriage: Some parents may have strong opinions on their children's marriage and partner choice, and try to interfere or control their children's marriage decision.

4. Prejudice and discrimination: Parents may hold prejudice or discriminatory attitudes towards their children because of gender, race, religion or other personal characteristics, which may make their children feel hurt or left out.

5. Health and personal development: Some parents may excessively interfere with their children's life and personal development, deprive their children of their autonomy and personal space, and make them feel limited and disrespected.

It should be noted that the above are just some behaviors that may be considered deceptive, and the specific situation will vary from person to person. Family relations are complex, and parents' behavior may also be out of concern and intention. When solving family problems, communication and understanding are the key, and try to find a balanced and compromised way.