What about the girls who are working hard in big cities now?

Jia in Hunting Field represents this type of girl. Under the usual background, stand firm in big cities by your own efforts. Some people say that they are "material lunatics". They have their own difficulties and are not confident because they have done their best. Compared with the Roy people, there are nobles everywhere to help. Compared with Xiong Qing's own capital, Jia is nothing. Although such girls are unhappy, they live very clearly and always know what they want. They work hard to make progress. On the one hand, she chose the right company. Part of it is luck, but it is more important to rely on your own efforts.

He didn't tell Jia beforehand, but at the company dinner, he proposed that Jia be the acting chairman. Although Jia was a little surprised, when talking about her vision for the company's development, everyone praised her and thought that these opinions were targeted and forward-looking. When Hui Chenggong suggested that she go to Vipshop, she specifically mentioned that Vipshop could learn English for free. Don't you want to improve your English? Because of this, Jia broke her heart. When Jia talked to his sister, he also said that he had to work hard enough, and then looked back to see what he had. In her journey, only she knows the hardships. A well-paid job is in front of her. How can she not be tempted? Isn't she working hard to gradually realize the life she wants?

She feels unsafe in this city. On the one hand, she is very dependent on Qiudong Zheng, but on the other hand, she remains independent. She is afraid of losing her feelings and everything. Unlike Roy, she can come back at any time. For her, the loss is beyond her capacity. She deserves admiration, a girl who works hard in a big city by herself. Only by continuous efforts can they gain a foothold here. If they hold their breath, they may be at a loss. She epitomizes the hard work of each of us in big cities. We can live the life we want as long as we work hard for one day. We believe this day will come. They tried their best to train many people in the camp to seduce Jia, thinking that she was too capable. However, no matter how hard she tries, she will not trample on her bottom line. At that time, Qiudong Zheng was still single, and she was still hurt emotionally. It's really a good time to take advantage of the blank. She deliberately created opportunities, tried temptation, and finally succeeded in tricking Qiudong Zheng into her own hands. Whether she really loves Qiudong Zheng or for money is unknown.

I think there are both. Please consider the reality. If your boss is single, middle-aged, has a car and a house, has a good income, is handsome and self-motivated, you can consider dating even if your feelings are not deep. Jia's persistent desire is understandable, but it is only a way for them to integrate into the big city. Because they always want to get married, so because they want to get married, they'd better find someone with a good financial situation. Why not do it? Many girls around me have made this choice. Cars and houses are the first conditions for choosing objects. The older you get, the more you realize that "satisfied love" is unrealistic. It is wrong to have no bottom line. Just like Mina, in order to work, he will not hesitate to sell his body and destroy other people's marriages. This is the wrong way. Jia has discouraged Mina many times, which also shows that she has at least three correct views and can stick to her bottom line. A happy marriage is a skill. In big cities, a good marriage can save us from decades of struggle.

Just like Fan in Ode to Joy, doesn't she always want to marry a rich man? Unfortunately, the world is always fair. Unequal marriage and love with a little inferiority complex are unhappy. Jia left because she found herself unable to control this relationship. Why don't those girls who work hard in big cities want to keep close relationships? But everyone only saw their tricks, but they didn't see the harm they suffered. They pay attention to material things rather than feelings. But, have you thought about it? Qiudong Zheng's listing in the company is just an absurd joke to them. It is necessary for Qiudong Zheng to introduce talents like Limby, give them shares and make them major shareholders. Such consequences can only be caused by more and more people. They can get married. But Qiudong Zheng said he married her? In Jia's mind, only what is in his hand is the most real thing.

If you don't fight for it, if one day Qiudong Zheng breaks up with you, what do you have? We emphasize the independence of women. Not only ideological independence, but also economic independence. Independence can make us have courage in love and confidence in marriage. Roy is right. Jia lacks confidence in this relationship. This feeling will not be happy. Jia is the kind of girl who likes being a "big sister". With her personality, she can't help bowing her head to make love. She is the kind of girl who is proud in her bones. She needs pride in love. If she didn't want to stay in a big city, she wouldn't choose Qiudong Zheng. A well-paid job is in front of her, and the opportunity to become the queen of love is in front of her. She was destined to leave. Those girls who care about material things finally stand firm in big cities by their own strength. And those who pay attention to emotions may still be struggling on the edge of pain. Those girls who worked hard in big cities finally got the glory they deserved with their own efforts.