Why do Liu Bei, Sun Quan and Cao Pi all love to marry little widows?

He not only helped Liu Bei conquer the country, but also saw that there were no women around his master. Fa Zheng became a matchmaker again and planned to find another wife for Liu Bei. Do you think Liu Canbei doesn't like such messengers?

Liu Bei's wife can be found in four history books: Mrs. Gan, Mrs. Mi, Mrs. Sun and Mrs. Wu. Liu Bei may have other wives, such as "The History of the Three Kingdoms", "My first wife, Queen Gan, was Pei. When the Lord first came to Yuzhou and lived in Xiaopei, he thought it was a mistake. First, the main funeral room often takes photos of internal affairs. " But for historical reasons, I don't know his last name.

Liu Bei is an out-and-out realism and utilitarianism to women. Naomi's family came to get Mi Zhu's support; Taking Sun Shi away is a good reason for Sun Quan. Wu was chosen to gain the support of the local aristocratic families, or because Wu has a high reputation. So it is difficult to conclude that Liu Bei has true love.

I married Mrs. Gump first.

She got married when Liu Bei lived in Xiaopei, and later she followed Liu Bei to Jingzhou. During her stay in Jingzhou, she gave birth to a son named Adou. When Cao Bing chased Changbanpo, Liu Bei had no choice but to abandon Mrs. Gan. Thanks to the arrival of Zhao Yun, we can avoid difficulties. When Liu Bei entered Sichuan, this Mrs. Gan was not mentioned in the book. I think she died in Jingzhou.

The second wife is Mrs. Mi.

She is Mi Zhu's sister. After Lu Bu captured Pi, Mrs. Gan was captured and Liu Bei moved to another place. Mi Zhu introduced her to Liu Bei, who married her.

Mizhuzu went to sea to do business and had a rich family business. He started his career in Tao Qian. After Tao Qian's death, Mi Zhu greeted Liu Bei as a shepherd in Xuzhou. In the first year of Jian 'an, Lu Bu attacked Liu Bei and captured Liu Bei's family. Mi Zhu married his sister to Liu Bei and sent two thousand servants and gold and silver goods to support the army, which enabled Liu Bei to make a comeback.

In history, Mrs. Meade was called Madame at that time. Prior to this, Mrs. Gan was married before Mrs. Mi, but she was a concubine during the Three Kingdoms period. Mrs. Gan is a concubine and Mrs. Mi is a wife. It is clearly written in history that Mrs. Gan married before and Mrs. Mi married after. The ancients paid great attention to the birthright of wives and concubines. Perhaps Liu Bei thanked Mrs. Mi for her help and gave her a higher position.

The third is Mrs. Sun.

She is Sun Quan's younger sister, who once married Liu Bei politically.

This story is called "Lost Wife and Soldier". After Battle of Red Cliffs, Zhou Yu wanted to recover Jingzhou, and Zhou Yu proposed "fake marriage and hostage taking". After seeing through it, Zhuge Liang arranged for Zhao Yun to accompany him and met Zhou Yu's father-in-law Qiao Xuan first. Qiao Xuan persuaded Wu Guotai to meet in He Lv, and Wu Guotai really married his daughter to Liu Bei. Sun Quan and Zhou Yu were ridiculed as "Zhou Lang's plan to secure the world, losing his wife and losing his soldiers".

What is the relationship between Mrs. Sun and Liu Bei after their marriage? There may have been a honeymoon, but it didn't take long.

According to analysis, when they got married, Liu Bei was 49 years old, while Mrs. Sun's age would not exceed 27 years old. Because the difference between them is 20 years old, this is an obvious combination of an old man and a young wife.

Because this marriage is full of political color, it may change qualitatively with the change of political climate. Coupled with Mrs. Sun's character, Liu Bei was very uneasy. Besides, Mrs. Sun is just fast and fierce, and she has the demeanor of a brother. There are more than 100 maids standing with knives. Every time Liu Bei enters the room, he is scared. Later, Zhao Yun took charge of his backyard.

This battle-hardened general was actually sent by Liu Bei to guard against a woman. You can imagine how wary Liu Bei is of Mrs. Sun. Zhuge Liang also said that Liu Bei was henpecked by Mrs. Sun: "The master is in public security, but he is afraid of Cao Gong's power in the north and Sun Quan's hegemony in the east, and he is afraid that Mrs. Sun will be born under his elbow;" It's time to go in and go out. "

That is to say, Liu Bei is most afraid of three enemies: Cao Cao, Sun Quan and Mrs Sun.

Think about it, can the relationship between husband and wife last long? Liu Bei can't sleep well. If Lady Sun draws her sword and beheads her, who will argue with her?

The honeymoon seems to be over soon. Before Liu Bei entered Yizhou, the relationship between husband and wife had already appeared cracks and had begun to separate.

Watching the master sleepless all night, Fa Zheng began to pimp Liu Bei. "This is unknown, wu also. At this time, she has entered the palace of Liu Xie's wife Wu to welcome the guests on board. Mrs. Shi has read several philosophies. It was the twentieth year of Jian 'an, the second year of Jian 'an, and the day of attacking Changsha Border League. It is conceivable that Master Shu and his wife have been in prison for seven years. "

Since both Liu Bei and Mrs. Sun can't live any longer, simply, the old one won't go and the new one won't come. Fa Zheng took Mrs. Wu to the palace by boat and cooked the raw rice first.

Liu Bei said nothing, but his heart was absolutely beautiful. Although Mrs. Wu is a widow, her charm still exists and she is also a great beauty in the local area. Ada wanted to take her over, but she was his friend's daughter after all, so she was rewarded to Liu Xie as his wife.

Can Mrs. Sun not know? I am the first lady of Sun Wu, but I don't rub sand in my eyes. To put it simply, I won't wait on you. Go back to my mother's house! With Mrs. Sun's impatience and estrangement from Liu Bei, she finally went home alone regardless of her eldest brother's long-term plan.

Emperors of the Three Kingdoms love widows! Especially the three founding emperors of Wei, Shu and Wu, Cao Pi, Liu Bei and Sun Quan, all took widows as their spouses.

Besides Liu Bei, let's focus on Cao Pi and Sun Quan.

After Cao Cao defeated Yuan Shao, Xelloss entered Yuan Shaofu and took a fancy to Zhen Shi, the second daughter-in-law of Yuan Shaofu, as his concubine. Zhen Yinshi was favored by Cao Pi and gave birth to his son Cao Suo. However, after Cao Pi proclaimed himself emperor, Zhen Yinshi was left out in the cold, said something he shouldn't have said and put him to death. Later, after his son became emperor, he gave her the title of queen.

Cao Pi married Zhen Fei, presumably because of her "peerless appearance". However, when Cao Pi married Zhen Fei, her husband Yuan did not die, and of course he would not divorce. So strictly speaking, Cao Pi stole someone else's beautiful wife. Soon, Zhen Shi became a real widow.

Sun Quan's wife, Xu Xian, married Lu Shang. After Lu Shang died, Sun Quan became a princess. Sun Quan thought she was jealous and refused to answer her for more than ten years. After Sun Quan became emperor, ministers suggested that she should be queen. It can be seen that her status is more important among Sun Quan's several wives, but Sun Quan does not agree. Sun Deng, the first prince of Sun Quan, was raised by Mrs. Xu, and Sun Deng was also raised by Mrs. Xu.

Therefore, during the Three Kingdoms period, the emperors thought it was normal for widows to remarry, which was quite in line with human nature. In the Five Dynasties, an emperor named Zhou Taizu Guo Wei married four wives, all of whom were widows. It can be seen that China ancient women's views on marriage have a loose side. It was in the Ming Dynasty and after that, it was considered very bad and serious for a real widow to remarry.

Although Liu Bei coveted Mrs. Wu's beauty, she always felt guilty.

At this time, Fazheng stood up again. After quoting the classics, Liu Bei beamed and his worries were dispelled.

Fa is saying, "What is the relationship with Jin and Zi?" -On blood relationship, who can compare with Jin Wengong, Zhong Er and Duke Huai of Jin?

What does this allusion mean?

Zhong Er and Zi Kui are uncles, sons of the monarch of the State of Jin. He is a hostage of the state of Qin. In order to seize the throne of the State of Jin, he abandoned his wife in the State of Qin and fled back to China to join Duke Huai of Jin.

Later, the State of Qin took in Zhong Er, the exiled son of the State of Jin, and his wife left her son in the State of Qin and married Zhong Er. This is Jin Wengong, one of the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period.

Marrying Zhong Er's nephew's wife is actually a clear political attitude, that is, telling the nobles and scholars in the State of Jin that Zhong Er will come back to seize the monarch's position. What should you do?

I'm afraid the real meaning of this statement is that you can't look back and forth, mother-in-law

Liu Bei endured the stigma of this nondescript love, not only because of his lust for the beauty of the little widow, but also because this widow is not only the wife of the core figure of the former Yizhou Group, but also the sister of Wu Yi and Wu Ban brothers.

In fact, the Wu brothers who followed Ada into Shu in their early years were highly respected and armed. They married a woman from such a family, which not only won the hearts of Shu people, but also made Wu B.

In the event of Liu Bei's marriage, Fa Zheng not only forced Mrs. Sun away, but also asked the boss to find another beautiful wife, and helped to make amends with his own good words. Through this marriage, Liu Bei's regime was further strengthened.

Pimps spare no effort to become famous pimps.

Think about it, if you give these things to Zhuge Liang with a feather fan, a black scarf and a clean shirt, can he do it? I'm afraid it's hard to imagine what kind of scene this is.

However, this is life. On the one hand, we need to promote the main theme, on the other hand, we need some low-level tastes. Grasp with both hands, and both hands should be hard.