My husband refused to give up smoking. Is it worth getting a divorce?

Because my husband doesn't quit smoking, I don't think it's worth getting a divorce. It's just a little thing in life. If you can't communicate and get through it and get divorced in a fit of pique, then as a woman, you are an immature wife who is not responsible for the marriage.

First of all, you don't like your husband smoking, because smoking is harmful to your health, not only to him, but also to your family. The original intention of letting him quit smoking stems from his love for her husband and his sense of family responsibility. It is right to ask him to quit smoking, but if he quarrels and divorces because he refuses to quit smoking, the original intention of love becomes complaining and indignation, and love affects the relationship between husband and wife. I don't think it's necessary. For example, if you like makeup, your husband doesn't like it, because he thinks it hurts your skin and he feels insecure. Do you think it's worth it?

I have always thought that marriage is not easy, and it makes sense to cherish it. It is not easy to fall in love and make it right. Many people choose to forgive and make up for their extramarital affairs. Smoking is just a small thing in life. If you divorce for this, it will be a joke. We can communicate and solve it. I didn't like my boyfriend smoking before. I talked to him about it. I asked him if he loved me. He answered yes. I said that if you love me and want to spend your life with me, you should quit smoking, because I don't want you to get lung disease when you are old, and the whole family will be unhappy, leaving me alone to die. It is with this concept that men who smoke will gradually quit smoking, and I often send pictures of particularly cute babies to my boyfriend. I say these babies are cute because their parents don't smoke or drink, so they have high IQ. You should use your love and actions to influence your husband to quit smoking. This is what a smart woman should do.

In fact, I think sometimes men also want to smoke, just like my dad sometimes says that quitting smoking is always inevitable, because many friends and business contacts are always accompanied by alcohol and tobacco. This is the way of human feelings. If someone gives you a cigarette, you will lose face, and I think men need to bear more pressure, so sometimes they need to smoke to solve the problem. As a wife as a family member, it is more important to understand and love. Don't let smoking be the only way for him to solve the problem, not to mention that smoking is the only way for two people to break up their marriage.