My girlfriend is not good at talking, how should I open up the conversation during a date?

Everyone has their own personality. Some girls are very talkative, but some girls are more introverted and shy. There are girls around me who are not good at talking and are introverted and shy. I have tried to open up a conversation with them, but always failed in the end. Because talking is not something you can do alone. Two people must participate together to keep the conversation going. Because the other party has a relatively dull personality, I talk to him alone every time, while she mostly plays the role of listener.

So later I felt that when I was with this kind of girl, I didn’t need to open up a special conversation box, as long as I communicated normally. Because it is difficult for a girl with this kind of personality to open up a conversation, which is determined by her personality. I think when you are dating together, just keep your most normal attitude. The more normal you are, the more relaxed she may feel. On the contrary, if you keep creating topics, she may feel tired.

If your girlfriend feels bored, she may take the initiative to find a topic to chat with you. At this time, it is not too late for you to open up your chat box. As long as she is not aware of this problem in her heart, I think it will be a waste of time if you try to open up the conversation again.

If it were me, I would briefly talk to her about what happened around me, such as something funny happened to a colleague in the company, or something interesting happened to someone in my family. These little things happening around us are relatively close to people's lives, so people who are generally not good at talking should also have some interest.

Never talk to girls about military, politics, geography and other topics that only boys are interested in just to open up a conversation. If you really feel embarrassed, you can talk to her about gossip. Girls generally like news about celebrity gossip.

Alternatively, you can go to watch a movie. There is no need to chat during the movie. After watching the movie, you can chat with her about the plot of the movie while the movie is still warm.