Have you met anyone who is life-threatening?

In fact, these opinions, summed up, are nothing more than these reasons, and many years ago, when I was working in a mountainous area, I learned these answers from an old lady who had been widowed for 37 years. Many years ago, I worked in a mountainous area. Where we work, there is a log cabin. In the wooden house, there lived an old woman with white hair. Someone told me that this old woman lost her husband and children a long time ago and has been a widow for 37 years.

Once I came home late from work, passing by an old woman's house full of wild roses by the bright moonlight. Suddenly I heard "囎囎囎囎囎囎囎囎囎囎𶐎𶐎囎囎囎𶐎2222222222;22222222222;222222222222 A person has been silent for 37 years, how heavy loneliness she has to endure. How lonely and miserable it is to walk alone in a desolate spiritual world. I can't help but let out a long sigh at the thought of this. The next day, my colleagues and I bought some grain and oil to visit the old woman. In the intermittent communication with the old woman and the introduction of colleagues, I know the reason why the old man doesn't like to talk.

The first reason: unlucky people are often kind-hearted, so they don't like to talk.

Suffering people, because they have experienced many vicissitudes of life, often have good personalities. And a kind person, they prefer to bury their heads in things and bow their heads to be human. In dealing with people, they are kind-hearted and low-key, and they don't like to disturb others, let alone ask for help. Such people tend to be quiet and silent, and the sad stories they have had make them feel that it is useless to talk a lot. So they chose silence and low profile, and they became reticent.

The second reason: unlucky people are hard to be felt by others, so just don't say it.

The old woman is a person who has suffered a lot. As the saying goes, a person who has suffered a lot is speechless. A person who has suffered a lot, the inner pain is hard for others to feel. It's hard for a person to say it, but people around him don't agree. Gradually, these people who have suffered a lot feel that it is useless to say more, and even bring disgust to others. So these unlucky people, especially those who have suffered a lot like old women, naturally close their hearts and stop telling others about their inner pain, which is also helpless.

The third reason: people who suffer often feel humble at the bottom, and the more silent they are.

Around us, we often see some unlucky people who are cautious in their words and deeds, and some even seem a little cautious. Such people have often experienced many difficulties and blows, and their self-awareness has become somewhat lacking in confidence, and they even feel that they are somewhat humble and lowly. In this state of mind, they often don't like contact with people around them and are afraid of being hurt again. Keeping silence around them is an external form of their resistance to external pressure, and silence is a prominent feature of them.

The fourth reason: unlucky people often see through the world of mortals, so their hearts are quiet.

Friends say that unlucky people have experienced many vicissitudes and suffered a lot in the world of mortals. Such people are often hit emotionally, and in their spiritual world, a lot of pain has been put down; The story that has been experienced has been annihilated; When I think of someone I once loved deeply, I no longer stir up waves in my heart. As a result, they become quiet hearts who see through the world of mortals, thus walking in the inner world in a silent way.

Have these miserable people become as quiet as old women? Yes, unlucky people often have such a remarkable feature: they don't like to talk! And only those who have experienced it will understand. In fact, everyone will experience all kinds of hardships in the world, but as long as we know how to solve them with the right attitude, we will definitely get out of our inner imprisonment and return to a normal life.