Difficulties of parents-in-law

Ahem, the people who are most aggrieved by this matter are your parents-in-law, and then your husband. You said that you don’t interact with them often, so why do you think so much about it? That’s not your son, nor you. elder brother.

It can be seen that you are a filial and sensible girl, which is why you look down on this uncle and sister-in-law. But after all, this is their family matter, and you don’t have much contact with each other. That means walking around once during the Chinese New Year. What do you think of this kind of person? You see, he treats his own parents like this, how can he still be reasonable with you?

However, with such a big brother and such a big sister-in-law, in the final analysis, you care about them for the sake of your husband’s face. In fact, I think that having such a brother-in-law and sister-in-law will bring a lot of benefits to your relationship with your parents-in-law, because everyone needs to compare. If you don’t have the best, no matter how good you do, they might not appreciate it. There is a reference point. They must not have made things difficult for you, right? From this point of view, you don’t need to care too much about their attitude. You go back to celebrate the New Year for your parents-in-law, not for them. You don’t care about their attitude, and you didn’t go back for them in the first place. Giving new year’s money to your children is a way to make money. For your husband's sake, as for how uneducated the child is, it's not your child anyway, but if you meet him once a year, you don't just need the two dollars to say thank you.