Why are boys so hard to woo nowadays?

1. No money, too much financial pressure

No money is probably the same answer of many male compatriots. Because now the requirements for marriage are becoming more and more demanding for men. Usually, men have to pay for dating, eating, watching movies, buying bags, giving gifts, etc. This is fine. The key is that getting married now requires buying a house and a car. This is the source of everyone's anxiety. For a person who has been working for several years, the pressure to buy a house is huge when housing prices are so high. It is very difficult to buy a house on your own without the help of family members. I used to think it was shameful to gnaw on old age, but now you have to gnaw on old age.

2. I am still a child

Nowadays, many children are only children and have been spoiled since childhood. They may be older, but they may still be underage mentally. In addition, many of them are in school and have little contact with society. They are simply children who have not grown up.

I have seen people in their 30s who can’t even wash their own clothes. How can a person who has not grown up think about marriage or have the courage to take on the responsibilities of a family? Many people say she is still young, but she is really still young.

Compared to our parents who started making money and shouldering the burden of a family when they were teenagers, today’s children have not been allowed to do this or learn that since they were young, and have long since lost the space for self-growth. As a parent, you scold your children for being useless, but at the same time, you take care of everything and don't allow your children to learn and grow. The result of doting on your children is that they develop an imbecile who is industrious and indifferent to grains.

To tell you a real joke from my life, in the first-class scholarship application form for a former top student in my college class, there was a comment from a roommate that read, "I can't take care of myself." For many parents, academic performance is more important than anything else, but children's growth is not just about academic performance.

3. Personality issues

Many people are inherently introverted and rarely take the initiative to communicate with others. The school will not teach you how to communicate with others, but will only look at your academic performance. As long as you have good academic performance, your teachers will be happy and your parents will be happy. As for the cultivation of emotional intelligence, financial intelligence, etc., they are not as important as academic performance rankings.

Nowadays, universities have become common. If you study for a doctorate, you will be 30 years old after graduation, and you will be older before you have a job. Moreover, it is easy to become a nerd if you read too much. In terms of academic qualifications, all of them are very good, and there are a lot of single young people in 985 and 211. But most of their lives, apart from reading books, they rarely have contact with the opposite sex, and they don't even know how to get along with others or how to chat with others. For them, finding a partner is really much harder than taking an exam.

There are many classmates like this around me. Now that they are older, if you introduce someone to them, you also need to teach them how to fall in love, how to actively pursue girls, how to date, and what to give during the New Year and holidays. Maybe You should also teach him how to make a bridal chamber. Otherwise, they are too stupid to know that they should fall in love.

4. Busy work, small circle

Nowadays, work and life are stressful, and it is normal to work overtime 996 hours. There are a lot of people who are busy until after 11 o'clock in the evening. Come back