What are the campus rumors?

The news that women have been hurt in recent years is really irritating! The topic of female injury constantly appears in the intercepted article fragments and news;

Reflections on the incident of yellow ballads

1 If the Internet can remember, similar incidents have emerged one after another in recent years, so that many scammers now use this as a threat to engage in fraud (inducing you to click on the link/download the app to get your photo album permission/address book permission, and then posting P's head on porn, threatening to send it to your family, colleagues and friends, so that you can make money. Of course, this is a bottomless pit. If this happens, please call the police decisively;

2 Everyone should pay attention to protecting their privacy, don't link/download unknown apps at will, but also have the courage to protect themselves and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests, and everything will eventually pass.

If you don't have such a strong heart, please believe in your beauty, don't be overwhelmed by the noise of the outside world, and strive to make yourself strong, because only the weak dare to smear and trap behind your back, especially for the waves that move with the wind.

For the society, I hope everyone can think about why things are like this. What is the real reason behind it?

Why is this boy's psychology like this?

What are the factors such as family, education and society?

How can we kill more of the same ideas in the cradle? How to prevent them from having the same idea? etc

Just like every policeman honks his horn every time he goes out to the police, he is not afraid that the bad guys will run away. Considering the deterrent effect of the alarm on criminals, one more person can be saved.

Only by understanding the logic behind the incident can we know how to guide in advance, nip in the bud and avoid more similar tragedies.

What should I do if I encounter campus rumors?

Are there any rumors circulating in school?

Are you victims, bystanders or rumourers?

1. According to the dictionary definition, rumors refer to news without factual basis.

Several common rumors on middle school campuses are as follows:

. Strange story: It is rumored that someone hanged himself in a teaching building, and students fell from the building, which is full of strange atmosphere.

Violent incident: It is rumored that a student joined a social evil group with a complicated background.

Second, why do some people like to spread rumors?

0 1 emotional outlet: jealousy;

One of the reasons for rumors comes from the negative emotions of the other party, and jealousy is one of the more common emotions. Seeing that students' grades have improved, they have become more beautiful, they have more friends, and the gap between them is big. If they are psychologically dissatisfied, they will make rumors.

Confirm deviation: only see what you want to see;

Simply put: just watch what you want to see and listen to what you want to hear.

03 get attention: inadvertently "rumor";

To put it bluntly, those "makers" of rumors sometimes do not deliberately spread rumors and have no clear goals. They just get attention or a lot of pressure. Rumors are just a form of getting attention and relieving stress.

Third, why do rumors always spread quickly!

0 1 rumor content is often more exciting;

Do keywords such as "fear", "ambiguity" and "violence" occupy a large proportion?

Because this kind of topic can bring deeper sensory stimulation.

Rumors are somewhat "emotional";

The content of those rumors spread on campus is striking, and with the polishing of word of mouth, communicators often feel strong emotions such as excitement and anger in the process of sharing. These rumors with strong feelings are more likely to spread quickly in a short time.

Whether it is correct or not is not that important;

It is easy for people to accept the correct information, but people need to think carefully about the wrong information. If you want to think carefully about every piece of information and look for loopholes, it must be very tiring.

Fourth, what should I do if I am rumored?

Exaggerated reduction to absurdity

For rumors that are not serious, we can try to resolve them with high emotional intelligence, actively communicate and remain rational.

Don't be alarmed if you are unfortunately rumoured. Calm down and think about it first. Why do they say that?

If it's just a misunderstanding, then face-to-face explanation is the best way. Don't be embarrassed, call those "rumors" and "rumors" together, speak them out and explain them clearly.

Ask others to clarify

If the rumor involves other people, in the absence of the parties, it is really a hundred schools of thought.

neglect

Some things don't need to be explained to everyone, just as we can't make everyone like ourselves.

Explain clearly to people who think it is important. As for the gossip of "outsiders" defined by myself, it is not important for people with strong hearts.

ask the teacher for help

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If it doesn't work in the world, it is often an uncontrollable precursor. At this time, other more authoritative ways are needed.

Little people are afraid of chaos in the world, and rumors are their most commonly used means.

Usually, the company's gossip comes from their mouths, and the secrets of leaders and the privacy of colleagues have become their weapons for rumors, which young people take pleasure in;

But their purpose is for their own benefit.

It has become normal to belittle colleagues with rumors, set themselves off with rumors, approach leaders with rumors, and distort facts out of thin air.

The above are all manifestations of rumors, which are out of thin air and black and white.

Dealing with this kind of person is actually relatively simple, and there are the following five ways.

~ decisively stop;

Don't believe that rumors stop at the words of wise men. Rumors are self-defeating and are likely to prolong the grave.

Therefore, as long as you hear rumors about yourself, you must stop them immediately. You can choose face-to-face communication, or you can choose to beat about the bush.

The best way is to give such a villain a fatal blow and tell everyone the truth when there are many people.

~ no mercy

Some people may be soft-hearted, thinking that maybe the other person didn't mean it. You are wrong to think so. The other party deliberately uses your soft-hearted weakness to slander you and get back at you.

Now that we know that he started the rumor, we can't give such a person face any more, otherwise he will be a big man with no bones.

You must be rude to those who spread rumors.

& lure the enemy deep

Since they want to spread rumors, they must think they have something on you and then use it to catch shadows.

Then, don't miss this good opportunity. What you need to do is to keep out the wind and deliberately leave a flaw to make them think they know the truth.

When they spread rumors, the truth is another matter. As a result, no one in the company believed what he said.

& Have a deep hatred for the enemy

For example, luring the enemy deeper like this, you can't do it alone. You need to find your workplace allies and ask them to help you with it.

In this way, you not only have an alliance in the workplace, but also can directly kill the troublemakers.

& find a backer

Young people always watch people eat vegetables and bully honest people in the workplace.

You should find people who dare not offend or approach, and find such people to be your backer, partner and ally.

The villain is a paper tiger. You are soft, he is hard. You are hard, he is soft! Write at the end, don't believe in rumors, don't spread rumors.