Chasing a girl, what can you talk about by SMS?

Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded. \\

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do you have a cell phone? Attack with text messages first. But remember, whatever you talk about, you must send it to her at a fixed time every day (or every other day or two). The word "fixed time" is very important. You should form a habit for her first. After a long time, she will get used to watching her mobile phone at that time every day, waiting for your news.

After listening to her preferences during the chat, you can choose to give her something on some special days, which doesn't need to be expensive, but let her like it. The most important thing is the process of giving gifts. If it's not a holiday, you can pretend to give it to her casually, saying that it's not careful is quite suitable for her. If it is a holiday, take Christmas as an example, you can hide the gifts in one place in advance (such as the bag cabinet in the school library). ), and then send her a message (humorous, for example,' Santa decided to give you a special gift, as long as you say * * * three times before you go to # #, you can send it to her to get the gift').

While doing this, we should pay more attention to her, not only physically, but also mentally. Everyone can understand the physical concerns. When I am sick, I want someone around me the most. Once you find out that she has any headache and brain fever, you should be attentive to her immediately. At ordinary times, you should also say something like' It's always raining recently, so be careful not to catch cold'. It's hard to observe the spirit. It depends on the landlord. When she is depressed, don't keep asking' what's wrong with you?' Just stay with her and tell some stories at the right time (don't tell any philosophical stories or jokes, the jokes at this time only make people cry. You can talk about your childhood, or what legendary things you have heard, or where a beautiful place is. Pay attention to your tone of voice, don't be too deliberate and weak, just like usual.

In short, we should start from the little things around us and gradually walk into her life. Some changes may not be discovered by herself. We should cultivate all kinds of new habits for her, so that she can get used to your existence and your company. If once she suddenly discovers your existence, she can't live without you, then the landlord will succeed.

But don't let the landlord get used to you and find out that she doesn't like her. This can't be done.