What happens to those who marry their high school classmates?

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I remember when I was in college, I heard this saying: If you haven’t found your partner after leaving campus, there is a great possibility that you will in the future. , in the future your significant other will be your former classmates, especially high school classmates.

Some people ask why they are high school classmates?

First, because of geographical issues, many people go to other provinces for college, but generally not for high school, so most of my high school classmates and myself are from the same city; second, it is a time issue, primary school or junior high school classmates If we haven’t contacted each other for a long time, the relationship will naturally become a lot stranger. In comparison, the time spent as classmates in high school has shortened a lot, and the relationship will naturally become much closer. The third is the friendship between old classmates. We have been classmates for three years in high school, and we have known each other since youth. They were young and knew each other fairly well. Regardless of their personalities and tempers, it was naturally easy for them to get together.

Actually, although some people analyzed it a lot at the time, everyone just took it as a joke and no one took it seriously. Many people even laughed and said: "Then I have to go quickly. Contact my high school classmates to see if there are any good singles out there."

Who knows it turned out to be true.

Many years after graduating from college, by chance, I chatted with people in the dormitory, and then I learned that two of the eight people in the dormitory at that time returned to their hometown to work after graduation. After many blind dates with no results, , met a high school classmate by chance, and had a very happy conversation. In the end, both of them married their high school classmate.

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After getting to know each other more, I realized that there are quite a few people around me who have married high school classmates. Thinking about it this way, I feel that the jokes I made back then were based on the experiences of many "seniors" , it makes sense to say this.

I really want to know what happened to those who married their high school classmates? So I interviewed five women who had experienced this.

Zhang Yueyue: We are living a good life, much better than imagined

He and I are a little different from what you said. Although he and I met in high school, We are also classmates, but we have been dating since college. It was probably my sophomore year at that time. We were together and had a long-distance relationship for two years. After graduation, we both returned to our hometown.

When I was in high school, I thought he was quite unreliable, talked a lot, and had average grades. I actually didn’t like him like this. Then somehow, the two of them got together, and now they are together. We're all used to it.

My life has been very good since I got married, much better than I imagined. I often tell him, if you dare to treat me badly, your reputation among most of your classmates will be ruined. After all, our circles of friends mostly overlap.

Xiaoxi: He chased me when I was in high school, but I rejected him. I didn’t expect to meet and get married again after graduating from college.

He chased me when I was a freshman in high school, but I I didn't agree to him at that time because I thought he was too short. At that time, he was the shortest among the boys in the class. Unexpectedly, he has grown a lot taller now.

After graduating from college, we met again at a high school reunion, and he came to pursue me again. At that time, my family was urging us to get married. It was troublesome, so I agreed to it.

I got married later, and he has always been very kind to me. It doesn’t mean that we changed from school uniforms to wedding dresses, but we are still quite happy.

Lian Meng: I met him on a blind date. I didn’t want to go, but then I found out he was a classmate, so we started chatting, and we had a good chat

What a coincidence One thing, a sister at work wanted to introduce me to a date. I really didn’t want to go. During that time, I saw so many blind dates that I felt numb.

In the end, the sister actually said that the other person was very nice and asked me to go there, so I went to meet him. When I met him for the first time, I felt familiar. He even called me by my name right away. I found out that we were old classmates, and we became much closer. We started chatting, and we happened to have a good conversation.

I think he is a good match, and we got together later. We had very few quarrels until we were married for two years. He was also very good to me. Last year, we went to see a high school movie together. head teacher.

Qiaoer: I am very happy. I said the other day that if I had known earlier, I would have chased him in high school. It would have been great

I am living a very happy life now. , I feel like he understands me better. In fact, when we were in high school, we worked together for a period of time. At that time, I discovered that the books he liked to read were very similar to what I liked, and we could also chat with each other.

But I didn’t like him at that time, mainly because I didn’t really like artistic boys before. I preferred the typical men in science and engineering. Later, after graduating from college, I met him again when I was 29 years old. When talking about interesting things from high school, he actually said that he had a crush on me at that time, so I joked: "We are single now anyway, why don't we just make do with each other?" ”

After I got married, I felt that he was the other half I had always wanted to find. Unfortunately, we met when we were 16 and only really got together when we were 29.

Xiaoyu: I found that it is really easy to get together as high school classmates. But I don’t regret it, he is very good to me

He and I met after graduating from college. We were both on a blind date, but we never found the right one. It must have been a strange coincidence later. We added friends on WeChat but never talked. One day I commented to a high school classmate, and he also said something below, and then we started chatting.

I found that it was really easy to get together as high school classmates, because we talked a lot with each other, so we later got married. But I don't regret it either. He is very good to me and I love him too.

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After listening to the stories of these five women, I was a little surprised, because their stories were completely opposite to what I usually heard about the mess after marriage. We came to the fact that those women who married their high school classmates lived very well after marriage.

Of course, this is just an example around me and certainly does not represent everything.

But if I think about it more carefully, I actually feel that I can understand this emotion: when we met again many years later, we had seen everything before, and when we were thinking about getting married and settling down, we met someone who had witnessed People who have lived through their high school years can tell the stories of those years, do they also feel like those years were rushed?

To be together again like this makes people sigh at their fate, and naturally they cherish it a little more.

I accidentally mentioned my conclusion to another college roommate. She was still unmarried. After listening to it, she found it very interesting. She actually looked through her address book seriously and said that she wanted to check herself out. Are any of my high school classmates still single?

In this case, I can only wish her all her wishes come true.