How to communicate with parents?

To have a child's attitude, we must respect our parents. When we communicate with our parents, we should first let them feel respect and filial piety, so that the topic can be easily launched.

Even if you find that their views are wrong in the conversation, don't publicly refute them, but express your views in a gentle and euphemistic way, so that you can get respect and psychological satisfaction and calmly state your views, and your views will be accepted happily.

2. Listen more. Parents give us advice or guidance for our own good, without any malice. Perhaps it is not in line with your own views, or it is not in line with your own pursuit, so that you don't want to listen to those suggestions or advice.

But you don't have to argue with them face to face, just say what you think and let them hear what you think. If they don't agree, they will give reasons. And we should write down their reasons and think about them. After all, this is the accumulation of more than 20 years of experience.

3. Wrap up the ideas you want to express. If you want to communicate with your parents, you have to make them willing to communicate with you. And all you need to do is wrap up what you want to say and let your parents listen to you.

An easier way is to praise your parents first, for example, your rich life experience has helped me a lot, and then tell them.

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"The only fly in the ointment is that

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"Say what you really think.

Learn to communicate with parents equally. Don't let your parents treat you like a child. No one wants to communicate with young people who are twenty or thirty years younger than themselves. Unless you convince your parents in some way that you are an adult and have your own correct and independent ideas.

This requires more efforts in daily life, talking to parents about their concerns, expounding their own views, showing them your own achievements as much as possible, and making them feel confident and proud of you.