What should I do if my wife and brother don’t get along?

This thing is so normal. I don’t know if you have read such books as "The New Marriage Era" and "Chinese-Style Divorce". When you read them, you often get the idea.

In fact, everyone stood in their own positions, and it can be said that they are not wrong.

From your brother’s point of view, he may think that your wife is inherently selfish as a woman, which he can’t stand. He may also think that your wife is not good enough to your parents, etc. I think this is true. It has nothing to do with academic qualifications, maybe the more you study, the more you think;

From your wife’s point of view, he may think that she has really done her best to your brother and your parents, but your brother still has Not satisfied at all. Also, your brother may not agree with the way he speaks, etc. Also, your parents don’t help her when they see your brother speaking like this, and even protect their own son, so your wife also feels aggrieved;

From your parents' point of view, you may not have much to do with them, but after all, everyone has the mentality of protecting the calf. You may not be happy to see your wife being so powerful and unforgiving, and so on. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is easy to intensify, so they are not happy with it;

And from your perspective, you are even more depressed. This whole thing is none of my business, but in the end it is the most confusing. But it’s me, I can’t help it, who makes you have a relationship with all three parties? You are their bridge, you are like the guarantor of a bank loan, you can’t escape the relationship;

Well, since You are the bridge. Now that there are problems on both sides, there is no doubt that you should stand up, because it is impossible for either of them to really think about what they have done wrong.

I think the easiest person to break through is your father, followed by your mother, and finally your brother.

Of course, if your wife doesn’t want to go home, the best way is to communicate on the phone. You can persuade your wife to call your father and mother, or you can persuade your father to call your wife first. , finish the work of the second elder first;

Then do your brother’s work through your parents, so the chance of success will be much greater. You can also talk to your brother, after all, brothers Making it easier to speak also increases the likelihood of success.

In this way, even if your brother fails to do a good job in the end, at least the relationship with your parents can be eased, and I think this must be what you want most.

Hope it is of some help to you, haha.