How to be a good wife after marriage

A wife is the sun in the family.

A writer said: A wife is the sun in the family.

Indeed, the wife holds the fire of family life. It can be the warming of the relationship between husband and wife.

Because of the wife's important position in the family, the warmth that a good wife brings to the family is immeasurable. How to be a good wife? How can I get my husband's praise?

1, leave some personal living space for my husband.

Women have a dependence and like to be with others; Married women, this dependence will be strengthened, and they always hope that their husbands can stay with them.

And men have a game mentality. After marriage, I also hope to associate with my past friends and keep my past hobbies.

Some wives lose their temper when their husbands go out, causing small family conflicts.

In addition, due to the limitation of the current cultural environment, work and career are still important links in men's sexual life. Even if career is a means to make a living, it is also an important way to establish personal social image and reflect personal value.

In order to gain this value, husbands often spend some spare time to arrange their own work. This is also easy for the wife to have a cold feeling.

A good wife should be considerate of her husband's psychological characteristics and not lock him up. But leave each other a little free space.

Women sometimes coquetry around their husbands to make them narrow-minded and relax themselves.

Men are interested in playing chess, playing cards and taking pictures.

If you don't leave your husband the necessary living space, asking him to stay with you all day will make him lose his distinctive personality and rich life color;

The incompetence of the husband's career is also the misfortune of the wife.

Therefore, only intimate and independent husband and wife life can be harmonious and perfect.

Don't remould your husband all day.

What a husband can't stand most is that his wife is always finding fault with herself.

What stubborn temper, laziness, clumsy mouth and tongue ... This endless criticism and transformation has become the fuse of many small families' quarrels.

Many husbands had no choice but to avoid it with silence, but it soon broke out in silence.

Just as a husband hates his wife's wordiness, a wife hates her husband's silence the most.

As a result, this kind of family is always shrouded in a dull and tense atmosphere. There are few sweet and relaxed laughter.

Psychologists tell us that it is not so easy to transform people's character and temperament. Even the reform depends mainly on the initiative of one's own will and the encouragement of others.

Talking about responsibilities will only hurt each other's self-esteem and produce disgust and disgust.

If two kinds of husband and wife life are in front of you:

1), every minute is spent in ineffective curses and reform victories all day;

2) Know that no one can transform anyone and seek happiness in life at the same point.

Which one do you choose?

Don't humiliate your husband in public

Even omnipotent political leaders sometimes find it difficult to understand their family life.

American President Lincoln is a man who has read this bitter book all his life.

Mrs Lincoln has a bad temper. One morning, they had dinner in a restaurant. Somehow, she violated her allergic nerves. He threw a cup of hot coffee in her husband's face in public.

The frustrating relationship between husband and wife made Lincoln spend a long time in his single apartment.

Biography critics said: Lincoln was killed by a murderer's bullet, but this did not leave Lincoln any trouble, but in 23 years, he was always hit by the embarrassing situation created by his wife.

A wife is the spiritual pillar in her husband's life, and a good wife knows how to safeguard her husband's personal dignity in various ways.

The humiliation of others can be understood as a reflection of the sense of competition in life. The public humiliation of his wife will make his personality and dignity explode and collapse in the spiritual core, leading to a double rift between family and personality.

4. Don't doubt it.

Doubt is a distrust attitude caused by fear of being hurt. If you are worried that your situation is unsafe, you will be suspicious and worried.

A sense of security depends on two conditions, one is self-confidence and the other is trust.

After marriage, for the needs of family, women tend to shrink their lives, focus on love, and are skeptical about their husbands' behind-the-scenes activities.

For example, you heard that the woman in your husband's office is a bit like him. One day, you finally see them walking home from work together, looking very affectionate.

What will you do at this time?

There are three possible options:

1) spread gossip about them to ease my hatred.

2) It is ugly for them to go over and criticize in public.

3) Don't doubt your beloved easily, pay more attention to your husband in your life and strengthen emotional communication with each other.

......& gt& gt

Question 2: What should a married woman do to become a qualified wife and the sun in the family?

A writer said: A wife is the sun in the family.

Indeed, the wife holds the fire of family life. It can be the warming of the relationship between husband and wife.

Because of the wife's important position in the family, the warmth that a good wife brings to the family is immeasurable. How to be a good wife? How can I get my husband's praise?

1, leave some personal living space for my husband.

Women have a dependence and like to be with others; Married women, this dependence will be strengthened, and they always hope that their husbands can stay with them.

And men have a game mentality. After marriage, I also hope to associate with my past friends and keep my past hobbies.

Some wives lose their temper when their husbands go out, causing small family conflicts.

In addition, due to the limitation of the current cultural environment, work and career are still important links in men's sexual life. Even if career is a means to make a living, it is also an important way to establish personal social image and reflect personal value.

In order to gain this value, husbands often spend some spare time to arrange their own work. This is also easy for the wife to have a cold feeling.

A good wife should be considerate of her husband's psychological characteristics and not lock him up. But leave each other a little free space.

Women sometimes coquetry around their husbands to make them narrow-minded and relax themselves.

Men are interested in playing chess, playing cards and taking pictures.

If you don't leave your husband the necessary living space, asking him to stay with you all day will make him lose his distinctive personality and rich life color;

The incompetence of the husband's career is also the misfortune of the wife.

Therefore, only intimate and independent husband and wife life can be harmonious and perfect.

Don't remould your husband all day.

What a husband can't stand most is that his wife is always finding fault with herself.

What stubborn temper, laziness, clumsy mouth and tongue ... This endless criticism and transformation has become the fuse of many small families' quarrels.

Many husbands had no choice but to avoid it with silence, but it soon broke out in silence.

Just as a husband hates his wife's wordiness, a wife hates her husband's silence the most.

As a result, this kind of family is always shrouded in a dull and tense atmosphere. There are few sweet and relaxed laughter.

Psychologists tell us that it is not so easy to transform people's character and temperament. Even the reform depends mainly on the initiative of one's own will and the encouragement of others.

Talking about responsibilities will only hurt each other's self-esteem and produce disgust and disgust.

If two kinds of husband and wife life are in front of you:

1), every minute is spent in ineffective curses and reform victories all day;

2) Know that no one can transform anyone and seek happiness in life at the same point.

Which one do you choose?

Don't humiliate your husband in public

Even omnipotent political leaders sometimes find it difficult to understand their family life.

American President Lincoln is a man who has read this bitter book all his life.

Mrs Lincoln has a bad temper. One morning, they had dinner in a restaurant. Somehow, she violated her allergic nerves. He threw a cup of hot coffee in her husband's face in public.

The frustrating relationship between husband and wife made Lincoln spend a long time in his single apartment.

Biography critics said: Lincoln was killed by a murderer's bullet, but this did not leave Lincoln any trouble, but in 23 years, he was always hit by the embarrassing situation created by his wife.

A wife is the spiritual pillar in her husband's life, and a good wife knows how to safeguard her husband's personal dignity in various ways.

The humiliation of others can be understood as a reflection of the sense of competition in life. The public humiliation of his wife will make his personality and dignity explode and collapse in the spiritual core, leading to a double rift between family and personality.

4. Don't doubt it.

Doubt is a distrust attitude caused by fear of being hurt. If you are worried that your situation is unsafe, you will be suspicious and worried.

A sense of security depends on two conditions, one is self-confidence and the other is trust.

After marriage, for the needs of family, women tend to shrink their lives, focus on love, and are skeptical about their husbands' behind-the-scenes activities.

For example, you heard that the woman in your husband's office is a bit like him. One day, you finally see them walking home from work together, looking very affectionate. ...& gt& gt

Question 3: How to be a good wife after marriage? Honor the elderly, live in harmony with the neighbors, and be a wife that my husband loves very much. You should know how to dress up. There is a joke that says well, * * * chooses well, and my husband goes home to find it. Why don't you come to me and find some treasures to honor your husband? Ha ha.

Question 4: How to be a good wife after marriage? Does every woman want to be a "good wife" after marriage? I read an article "Ten Taboos of a Good Husband" that day. Although I am not married, I also summed up a "Top Ten Taboos for a Good Wife" after seeing my friends in marriage, for reference only.

A taboo: unchanged

Some women will think: now that you are married, do you still have to worry about everything? As long as you cook at home, clean the house and have another child, your mission will be completed. So when I used to go to work, I used to wash my face and make up. Now I am unkempt all day, and cooking is the same. Such a fixed marriage is dangerous.

Two bogeys: leave no room.

To think that you are capable is not only to look down on all men, but also to put your husband in the eye. To the extreme, no one will leave a little face for her husband. You know, men have a good face.

Three bogeys: Make your own decisions.

From furniture and sheets to work companies, you can change them if you want, without consulting others. Throw away what you think is useless. My husband's game CDs, martial arts novels, weapons magazines and so on are useless as long as you don't read them.

Four bogeys: chasing the trend

What people wear, what people buy, whether it is suitable or not, whether the economy can bear it. Although it is a woman's nature to pursue fashion, if it is developed well, it will be pleasing to the eye and colorful. If you don't develop well, you will ruin yourself and scare your husband.

Five bogeys: favoring one thing over the other

Nothing can fit in the closet, and my husband doesn't know if his socks are all broken. Your family can do whatever they want, and once your in-laws have any requirements, there is no way out. It's okay to go out for beauty by yourself, but it's not okay for my husband to invite friends to drink.

Six bogeys: blindly compare.

Wives always compare: whose house is bigger, whose car is superior, whose husband makes more money and whose children get good grades. Once you find yourself inferior to others, you will lose your temper and complain. Not only do you feel uncomfortable, but you also make your family feel uncomfortable.

Seven taboos: laziness

I don't cook, do housework or even wash dishes. I prefer surfing the Internet, playing cards and shopping all day long. My husband came back from a busy day and couldn't even drink saliva. Now that you are married, you should learn how to live.

Eight taboos: half-hearted.

Although the proportion of men cheating is high, both men and women may meet more desirable objects outside marriage. The key is how to choose. If you are deceived by a temporary temptation, it will hurt not only a person but also a family.

Nine taboos: don't understand customs.

Some women are too thrifty or dull after marriage. On Valentine's Day, my husband thought it was extravagant to send roses, so he went out for a candlelight dinner, which was a waste. I always refuse my husband's idea of intimacy, making him whisper all day: What did I do wrong?

Ten bogeys: do not understand management.

As a wife, whether it is finance, family diet, or activity arrangement, we must be in good order. Keep an account of your monthly income and expenditure. Don't spend all your money before the end of the month, just don't know how to spend it. The clothes my husband wears help to match. Who doesn't envy him for having a good wife when he is away from home?

I wish all couples a happy and beautiful life!

Question 5: How can a woman be a good wife? A good woman is a school.

A wife is the sun in the family.

A writer said: A wife is the sun in the family.

Indeed, the wife holds the fire of family life. It can be the warming of the relationship between husband and wife.

Because of the wife's important position in the family, the warmth that a good wife brings to the family is immeasurable. How to be a good wife? How can I get my husband's praise?

1, leave some personal living space for my husband.

Women have a dependence and like to be with others; Married women, this dependence will be strengthened, and they always hope that their husbands can stay with them.

And men have a game mentality. After marriage, I also hope to associate with my past friends and keep my past hobbies.

Some wives lose their temper when their husbands go out, causing small family conflicts.

In addition, due to the limitation of the current cultural environment, work and career are still important links in men's sexual life. Even if career is a means to make a living, it is also an important way to establish personal social image and reflect personal value.

In order to gain this value, husbands often spend some spare time to arrange their own work. This is also easy for the wife to have a cold feeling.

A good wife should be considerate of her husband's psychological characteristics and not lock him up. But leave each other a little free space.

Women sometimes coquetry around their husbands to make them narrow-minded and relax themselves.

Men are interested in playing chess, playing cards and taking pictures.

If you don't leave your husband the necessary living space, asking him to stay with you all day will make him lose his distinctive personality and rich life color;

The incompetence of the husband's career is also the misfortune of the wife.

Therefore, only intimate and independent husband and wife life can be harmonious and perfect.

Don't remould your husband all day.

What a husband can't stand most is that his wife is always finding fault with herself.

What stubborn temper, laziness, clumsy mouth and tongue ... This endless criticism and transformation has become the fuse of many small families' quarrels.

Many husbands had no choice but to avoid it with silence, but it soon broke out in silence.

Just as a husband hates his wife's wordiness, a wife hates her husband's silence the most.

As a result, this kind of family is always shrouded in a dull and tense atmosphere. There are few sweet and relaxed laughter.

Psychologists tell us that it is not so easy to transform people's character and temperament. Even the reform depends mainly on the initiative of one's own will and the encouragement of others.

Talking about responsibilities will only hurt each other's self-esteem and produce disgust and disgust.

If two kinds of husband and wife life are in front of you:

1), every minute is spent in ineffective curses and reform victories all day;

2) Know that no one can transform anyone and seek happiness in life at the same point.

Which one do you choose?

Don't humiliate your husband in public

Even omnipotent political leaders sometimes find it difficult to understand their family life.

American President Lincoln is a man who has read this bitter book all his life.

Mrs Lincoln has a bad temper. One morning, they had dinner in a restaurant. Somehow, she violated her allergic nerves. He threw a cup of hot coffee in her husband's face in public.

The frustrating relationship between husband and wife made Lincoln spend a long time in his single apartment.

Biography critics said: Lincoln was killed by a murderer's bullet, but this did not leave Lincoln any trouble, but in 23 years, he was always hit by the embarrassing situation created by his wife.

A wife is the spiritual pillar in her husband's life, and a good wife knows how to safeguard her husband's personal dignity in various ways.

The humiliation of others can be understood as a reflection of the sense of competition in life. The public humiliation of his wife will make his personality and dignity explode and collapse in the spiritual core, leading to a double rift between family and personality.

4. Don't doubt it.

Doubt is a distrust attitude caused by fear of being hurt. If you are worried that your situation is unsafe, you will be suspicious and worried.

A sense of security depends on two conditions, one is self-confidence and the other is trust.

After marriage, for the needs of family, women tend to shrink their lives, focus on love, and are skeptical about their husbands' behind-the-scenes activities.

For example, you heard that the woman in your husband's office is a bit like him. One day, you finally see them walking home from work together, looking very affectionate.

What will you do at this time?

There are three possible options:

1) spread gossip about them to ease my hatred.

2) It is ugly for them to go over and criticize in public.

3) Don't doubt your beloved easily, pay more attention to your husband in life and strengthen him ... >>

Question 6: How can a married woman be a good wife? She should care about her family, her husband and her parents. Don't let a man make mistakes at work because of family matters. Men love their careers very much. He needs a stable and harmonious marriage and family to develop his career.

Question 7: How to be a good wife? Women should not be spoiled all the time, men will get bored. In fact, men also need gentleness. Your husband is so kind to you. You should know how to take care of your husband, care more about him, support his career and tolerate him. He respects your in-laws. I believe you will love him all your life.

Question 8: How to be a qualified good wife Hello, I don't know why you ask this question, but I have such a wife. Please see if this is qualified or not.

I come from Guangdong. My wife and I had known each other for four years before we got married. We are all only 30 years old.

He is crazy about me, because I was so good when I was hitting on her, and she was still thinking about those beautiful things. .

Things got complicated when we were going to get married. I fell in love with a woman. She was willing to part with me, but she was crying. Finally, after inner struggle, I returned to our home. After that, I had no other thoughts, so we got married. She forgave me.

. . . .

After marriage, she is hardworking and takes care of all the housework, but I will also take the initiative to help, wash the floor, dress, cook and be proficient in everything. To sum up, to be a good wife, you should not be lazy or careless. .

So every time I come home, I feel so comfortable. He cleans the house every week. Although the house is not big,

When I come home from work, I am usually late. She bought vegetables and cooked until I came back for dinner. Occasionally, she will call me and ask me if I am busy. Do I have to wait for dinner? These, these details are very thoughtful.

I never care about money, and I don't have much money on me. She also cares about her family. Some women only spend money and buy things from east to west. Every time she spends more money, she will inform me and ask me for 300 yuan to buy a soymilk machine. Therefore, I am very relieved that although there is not much money, she will take the initiative to open a passbook and save it, saying that she will raise children and buy a car in the future. Can you do it?

Every morning, she will get up at 7:30 and cook breakfast for me. When breakfast is ready, he will come into the house to help me get my clothes. . Really a full-time nanny, a full-time wife, and a job, no complaints. . .

During the Chinese New Year holiday, she would tell me to give my parents and his parents some money and everything, and then ask me how much to give and how to give me advice. Is this a good daughter-in-law in the seriousness of the elders? . .

My wife is so kind to me that I don't even know where my underwear is. She prepares it for me every day.

So I gave her everything, everything. . She is the most precious.

In fact, it is not difficult to be a good wife, in a word, diligent. . . .

It took two people a thousand years to get together, and it took a thousand years to get a pillow to sleep with. . . Thoughtful and hardworking. Pay more attention to your family and elders, and you will be a good and qualified wife.

Question 9: What can I do to become a good woman and wife after marriage? As long as you can get out of the hall and into the kitchen. Take care of your husband, be filial to your elders, care about your family, and try to experience your family. And can handle all kinds of contradictions between neighbors and family members. Although it is not a simple matter, as long as you are willing to pay for your family, I believe you will become a good woman who will make your family proud. Come on, friends.

Question 10: How can a woman be a good wife? 1. Don't be suspicious: women should be confident and believe that their husbands love you. No matter how many girlfriends her husband has outside, he loves you the most. Now, as long as he grasps it well, he should try to turn a blind eye even if there is "half a leaf in the flowers".

2. Encourage husbands to keep forging ahead: Isn't there an extraordinary woman behind every successful man? Therefore, the wife should bear the responsibility of supporting and encouraging her husband. Of course, she has to stand on her own feet. At least she can support herself and love the man who loves you the most. If you linger for a long time, he will also dislike you.

3. Try not to nag: Women should not impose their opinions on each other and try not to quarrel. If they hurt a man's self-esteem, they won't say it. Even if you quarrel, you will quarrel: some people will quarrel deeper, so they will not quarrel, and they will hurt their feelings once!

4. Don't overload your husband: In fact, it is not easy for men in this world, and the pressure is very great. The world's face problems have crushed them to death. A woman should understand and cherish her husband. If they want their husbands to drink less, smoke less and gamble less, they should also pay attention to methods, not too hasty or too reluctant;

5. Give your husband a comfortable home: do as much housework as possible. Even if you are tired, you will give your husband a smiling face. You should take good care of the elderly and children. Men will make money and women will spend money.

6. Learn to communicate with your husband: communication based on mutual respect/equality can be said to be the secret to ensure a perfect marriage. Women should pay attention to that no matter how strong you are outside, no matter what you want to show in front of your husband, he is stronger than you, and you should learn to be spoiled together;

7. Women should learn to listen: it is not a bad thing for men to have a temper, and it is normal. A man with a temper is also a sign of his confidence from a certain angle. What can a man do without temper? Therefore, men go home and lose their temper, while women make tea and pour good wine, and sit there and listen. Obedience is a kind of respect, and many times men just need to talk about it and feel comfortable;

8. Be more tolerant: men are mountains, he is the backbone, he is the pillar, and men are explosive; Women are the sea, and women are bigger than men. Men and women can't talk about divorce easily, and don't expect the next partner to be better.

9. Always praise your husband: women live for "love" all their lives, men live for "face" all their lives, women rely on coaxing, and men rely on praise. A man's face is earned by himself, and his position in the family is dominated by women. If you want him to do more things and hurt you more, you should learn to hold him and praise your husband behind his back.

Pay attention to the husband's diet/hobbies/self-image and quality, and keep his popularity.