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Why do some women, with plain appearance and average figure, have fatal attraction to men?

I think the cases that can best answer this question are Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe.

Li Yinhe's appearance is the plain appearance and average figure described by the subject. But she has a fatal attraction to Wang Xiaobo.

In Wang Xiaobo's book Love You Like Life, Wang Xiaobo once strongly expressed his love for Li Yinhe.

"I give you my whole soul, along with its quirks, playing small temper, flickering, and 1,800 bad habits. Really annoying, only a little good, love you. "

After more than ten years of marriage with Li Yinhe, Li Yinhe went abroad to study, and Wang Xiaobo still wrote a warm love letter to Li Yinhe.

"Don't worry, I can't be with all the people in the world, especially after I love you. I don't like all the women in the world. Sometimes I think, if I want a beautiful woman to do it, will I do it? Seriously, I won't do it. Just talk nonsense. In short, the more serious I am, the less I want to do it. I just want to do it seriously. Hu gan is so boring. "

Li Yinhe and Wang Xiaobo met because of Wang Xiaobo's handwritten novel The Green Hair Monster. At that time, Li Yinhe was the editor of Guangming Daily. He thinks the author is particularly talented and wants to meet him.

But when Li Yinhe first saw Wang Xiaobo, he felt that this person was too ugly and a little disappointed. Later, because he was ugly, he broke up, which made Wang Xiaobo angry to death. Wang Xiaobo replied viciously: "You don't look so good." . . .

? From here, we can find that not only do we objectively think that Li Yinhe looks ordinary, but actually Wang Xiaobo does not have the beauty in the eyes of his lover. He knows Li Yinhe's appearance like the back of his hand. However, why is he still deeply attracted by Li Yinhe?

0 1 Interesting souls attract each other?

Li Yinhe is not only Wang Xiaobo's wife, but also the first sociologist who studies women in China. She is cheerful and avantgarde. What she and Wang Xiaobo have in common is their desire for freedom, liberation and return to the true nature.

* * * The same idea has created two interesting souls who appreciate each other and attract each other.

Even, Li Yinhe kept ahead of Wang Xiaobo in thought. Li Yinhe's research on homosexuality also inspired Wang Xiaobo, who helped Li Yinhe collect academic research materials, and later wrote the gay script "East Palace and West Palace".

? Ignite each other's passionate love Li Yinhe analyzed why Wang Xiaobo loved her so much. She felt that this ignited a passionate love for each other. Wang Xiaobo said that Li Yinhe had a "tsunami response" to him. How can I put it?

Li Yinhe said, "Passionate love has physical attraction to each other, but it is more spiritual and spiritual attraction." Li Yinhe not only responded to him physically, but also responded to him mentally and spiritually.

There is a saying that the most important thing in a relationship is to be seen. Only when you are seen, the energy you project will have life. It's called enthusiasm. If you are not seen, the energy you project will die.

This is especially true of the intimate relationship of love. Only your response can witness my existence. Li Yinhe gave Wang Xiaobo feedback with the response of the mountain call tsunami. Love you, it's good to be alive.

On the other hand, even if you love a beautiful fairy, she is as cold as ice to you, or she can't get on your G spot at all and can't understand your cold jokes. In short, if you send a signal of love and you don't get a proper response, this love will wither sooner or later.

In fact, Li Yinhe had a sensational love after Wang Xiaobo's death.

She was passionately pursued by a transgender lover, Xia Xia (female looks and male heart), and the latter two lasted for nearly 20 years, still as sweet as ever. This once again confirms two characteristics of Li Yinhe:

1、? Follow your inner love and be fearless.

2、? Good at igniting each other's passionate love.

? So back to answering the Lord's question, a person's appearance and figure are very good, of course, very attractive. But if a person has an interesting soul, is good at interacting in intimate relationships, and ignites each other's passionate love, the small flame of love will become stronger and stronger.