I am a high school student. I feel inferior. What should I do?

I feel that studying in a bad high school is a very painful experience, but the environment is not good, so I should study hard.

After eating the bitterness of life, I really began to think about life. Cherish time, strive to improve yourself and develop yourself, which is the last word. Only by constantly learning and making progress can I dare to face all kinds of difficulties in my life.

Do your own thing, endure your own pain, and never stop. If you want to change, you must maintain a strong thirst for knowledge, persist in learning, and strive to change, instead of being enthusiastic, you must work hard and live seriously.

No one's life is easy, nothing in life can be easily obtained, and you must pay the corresponding price. Applause and flowers are exchanged for countless hard days and nights and sweat. If you want to stand out in front of others, you will suffer afterwards. It is really difficult to improve without hard work.

Let us be more confident, believe that we can successfully pass the college entrance examination and make ourselves better.

There is an old saying that you have to pay first to get it. Remember this sentence, if you want to gain something in life, you have to pay first. For example, making friends, if you want to get help or advice from friends when you need it most, then help others more in peacetime.

When dealing with people, try to make people think that you are a confident and valuable person. Help others build confidence, and you will get the same thing. Call it karma or equivalent exchange. In a word, it works. Try it if you don't believe me!

Step 2 learn to forgive

Many people are very strict with themselves and don't know how to forgive their past behavior. If you indulge in past failures or mistakes, then your self-confidence will not be much left.

The correct way is to admit your mistakes or mistakes and then forget them all. Similarly, if there is someone in your life who needs your forgiveness, forgive him. Forgiving others is not for others, but for yourself.

3. The answer is yes

Always ask yourself some questions, and then your answer is "I am confident". Over time, it will be good for you to enhance your self-confidence. This is called positive psychological suggestion. If you don't believe me, you can find a book to explain psychological hints and do it according to the method introduced in the book to see if it works. However, if you ask the question "Why am I so confident", you may get better results.

Do you know what happened here? Subconscious. You know, although the subconscious mind is simple, it can play a role. When you ask yourself this question, the subconscious will immediately start to work and find the answer, and it will report to you in a quite confident way.

How to make yourself more confident?

Young, just do it.

Many times, everyone's lack of self-confidence means that they can't know themselves correctly, can't face their own situation, always doubt their own abilities, and always wonder, can I do this? Can I do it well? What will happen if you can't do it well? It's not good to always hesitate. After a long time, you will doubt your ability more and more, so as a young man, don't think too much, just do it!

Praise yourself

We can't always praise others and belittle ourselves, although sometimes it is to show our modesty, but after a long time, you will form a subconscious, that is, you feel that you can't do anything!

Praise yourself more. For example, we can look in the mirror every day and give ourselves a smile, thinking, "I am better today than yesterday, and I will be better tomorrow." This is also a hint to yourself to admit yourself.

When you sleep at night, you can recall what you did today, which made you learn something, which helped others, which made you feel happy and happy, and then say "I am the best" in your mind. Remember, meditation!

Do something you haven't done before.

If you want to live a life you have never lived, then you must try to do something you have never done. Don't be afraid that you can't do it. If you want to, how do you know you can't do it if you haven't done it? For example, try to go far away alone, walk at night alone, participate in some activities that you have never participated in, and so on. As long as you do it, you will gain something, grow up and have confidence!

Think independently and live independently.

Sometimes, we will see that many ordinary people with little money are still confident. In fact, most of their self-confidence comes from their independence. When you are self-reliant, accomplish things independently, and do one thing independently, you will have a sense of accomplishment in your heart. This is the source of your confidence, because you believe that you can do things well without the help of others, and a sense of accomplishment can make you confident!

Relax and keep smiling.

Many people worry about many things every day. They are busy every day, but they don't know what they have done. Over time, they will get bored and doubt their abilities. In fact, the earth will turn without people. We don't have to suppress ourselves so much!

Listen to positive music every day, watch the latest jokes, and always have a smile on your face. This can not only make you confident, but also intervene in other people's relationships and form a cycle of conscience. After all, who hates an optimistic person?

Don't always stay at home.

Nowadays, many young friends like to shut themselves up at home, don't go out to play, don't communicate with friends, and play games online every day, which will make a person become very strange and more and more unwilling to go out and do other things.