Children who like to chew their nails since childhood can't escape three endings. /kloc-what do you think after 0/0 years?

When children grow up, they will expose all kinds of minor problems, such as picking their nostrils, biting their fingers and fidgeting in class. In addition, the most common is biting nails.

When my child was 3 years old, it was easy to chew his nails. Every time you cut your nails, a "century war" breaks out. When asked why he bit his nails, he said:

"Because of boredom, biting your nails can kill time!"

However, this is an unsanitary behavior. After all, children don't care about washing their hands when chewing their nails. What if bacteria enter their bodies?

At the same time, this behavior is uncivilized. Imagine a child eating out with a friend, getting hungry while waiting for food, and then biting his nails to relieve his hunger. Isn't this a joke?

Children who like to chew their nails since childhood can't escape three endings.

So, what are the specific hazards of children who like to chew their nails?

1) affects health.

As we said before, all kinds of dirt will remain under nails, such as common black mud, and there are bacteria in it. Children often chew their nails, which easily sucks bacteria into their stomachs, leading to symptoms such as diarrhea and vomiting.

In addition, on the one hand, children biting their nails will affect the beauty of nails, which will easily cause damage to nails, on the other hand, it will also affect the health of teeth, and maybe they will leave their nails on the gums, which is embarrassing to think about.

2) Serious psychological problems.

In The Legend of Wulin, Bai Zhantang bites her nails when she is nervous. Sometimes, if one is not enough, he will chew two. This is the "historical problem" caused by his biting his nails since childhood.

If children can't get rid of this problem, when they grow up, they will chew their nails regardless of the occasion when they encounter stressful things. If the leader asks questions during the company meeting and the children chew their nails and think, the scene is self-evident.

Therefore, this kind of psychological problem will also bring potential harm to children.

3) "old children" who don't grow up

Children like to chew their nails, which may also be an immature performance. They think it's interesting.

Most of these children are inseparable from their parents when they grow up, with strong dependence and weak self-reliance ability. I don't believe 10 years later we will find out.

★ Children like to chew their nails for these four reasons:

1) age

According to Freud's theory of sex, children will enter the period of oral sex desire around 1 year old, and they like to get pleasure through oral sex activities very much.

At this time, they not only chew their nails, but also bite their fingers and swallow foreign bodies. When they talk too much, they will reduce this behavior. If there are no parents, you should pay attention.

2) The nails are too long

If the nail is too long, the child will unconsciously chew it. For them, this is a game.

3) The body lacks trace elements.

If children are calcium-deficient, zinc-deficient or anaemic, they may often chew their nails. At this time, parents should take their children to the hospital for specific examination.

4) Insecurity and stress.

When children are in a state of lack of love for a long time, they will feel insecure, anxious and stressed psychologically. At this time, in order to divert attention, they will bite their nails to relax.

This factor is related to parents, and it is absolutely impossible to treat the symptoms rather than the root cause.

★ How can parents help their children get rid of bad habits?

First of all, it is normal for children before the age of 3 to chew their nails. Parents should not make a fuss. This is a process of self-exploration.

However, the number of children over 3 years old has not decreased, so parents must not ignore it, and the method is not to stop it rudely. Children are too young to understand their parents' pains.

Parents can make an agreement with their children, such as licking their nails three times a day to licking them twice a day; Chew three fingers at a time instead of two fingers at a time.

In this way, children will gradually give up this problem.

Secondly, parents should always help their children cut their nails. If the nails are too long, it will not only hide evil and shelter evil people, but also provide children with an excuse to chew their nails.

Sometimes, children are under great pressure to bite their nails and feel nervous. Parents can divert their children's attention and find ways to eliminate tension.

Picture books are indispensable items for children to grow up. Although children can't understand their parents' teaching, they can learn about the disadvantages of biting their nails through picture books, and then they will know that their practice is not desirable.

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It is a bad habit for children to often bite their nails. Parents should stop it in time, otherwise 10 years later, children can't escape three outcomes!

For the sake of children's health, parents should go home and check for themselves!