Why can't I get into the white tent on the roadside in Tibet?

Nowadays, with the development of science and technology, people's quality of life has improved significantly, and everyone has begun to pay attention to spiritual enjoyment. In order to relax, many people will choose to travel. It is refreshing to see the beautiful scenery along the way. On holidays, we often see the ocean of tourists on the Internet. If we are given a chance to work and travel, I believe everyone will be happy to walk around.

People often say that Tibet is a place to heal the soul. When there are many troubles, the trip to Tibet is bound to be suddenly enlightened and has been welcomed by tourists for many years. Speaking of Tibet, I believe everyone is familiar with it. It is a beautiful and sacred place with beautiful scenery and tents full of cattle and sheep, which is the kind of freedom that modern people yearn for. Of course, in addition to these, people are also full of interest because of the unique cultural customs of Tibetans.

Over the years, many tourists from go on road trip have signed up for tour groups to come to Tibet. I wonder if you have noticed that sometimes there are scattered white tents on the roadside. Maybe everyone has heard the local people say: when you see such a tent, you can't just go in, let alone come out. We don't know the specific reasons, so what are the cultural customs? Let's take a look today.

A white tent by the roadside

Ask local people to know that these white tents on the roadside in Tibet are actually a kind of customs and culture. As a nomadic people, there are still many herders living in the vast grasslands of Tibet. They have no fixed place all their lives and can only migrate with the seasons. Because of this, everyone's circle is relatively small and interpersonal relationship is not very good. Coupled with poor living conditions, many newborns cannot survive after birth, especially baby girls. Considering that children will get married in the future, this is a custom.

The interpersonal circle is small, which leads to the fact that there are not many children, and it is bound to be difficult for children to find marriage partners when they grow up. In addition, it is difficult for baby girls to survive, and it will become more and more difficult to reproduce. Therefore, once a girl reaches the age of 14, her parents will ask her if she wants to get married. If her daughter has this intention, she will set up a white tent nearby and let her daughter live with a Tibetan mastiff.

Temporary blind date place

After putting up the white tent, the girls waited for the arrival of the man who was destined to be. It can be said that this place is equivalent to a blind date place in history, and it also implies that there are girls to be married at the home of passing men. Of course, not everyone can enter the tent. Only men who like girls can go in and date girls. Men also need to be prepared before entering the tent to prevent Tibetan mastiffs from being outside the tent.

Before going in, * * * has three necessary items, namely beef consumption, sharp knife and brave heart. Although the man is interested in the woman, the initiative is still in her hand. If a girl doesn't like a man who comes in, she will ask him out politely. If she likes this man, she will keep him. It is worth mentioning that after the man stays, he will wrestle with the girls, and only brave boys can win the hearts of the girls.

It is said that the girl's belt is made of cow hair and can only be untied with a sharp knife. If both sides are interesting, then arrange for both parents to meet, that is, talk about marriage. That's why the locals say: don't go in casually when you see such a tent. If you go in, you can't get out. If you are attracted to girls after going in, you will inevitably get into unnecessary trouble. So if you don't understand Tibetan customs, don't go into other people's tents, which is also a very disrespectful behavior.

Some people may say that you are ugly and will not be taken fancy to, so you will be punished for breaking into other people's tents without authorization, even if you are not taken fancy to. Some people will ask you to work in your own home for three years for free as a punishment for their girls' contempt and offense. If you get yourself into unnecessary trouble because you are curious when traveling, it is really not worth the candle.

Do your homework before you travel.

Nowadays, tourism is an indispensable part of people. Not to mention foreign countries, there are many tourist attractions in China, and there are beautiful scenery everywhere, which is unforgettable. Many careful people will do their homework before traveling. After all, we are facing a strange place. If we don't know some customs, it's easy to make jokes. In order to prevent embarrassing situations, we must make full preparations before traveling.

Many people have always wanted to travel to Tibet. Maybe this is a unique feeling. Looking at everyone's yearning, I believe some people are wondering why everyone yearns for Tibet so much. After seeing the beautiful scenery of Tibet, perhaps it is because Tibet can wash the soul and feel the freedom from the soul. Put aside everything, once you set foot on that land, you will forget all your troubles and find it difficult to calm down. This is why many people are fascinated.

Respect the customs and habits of other places.

Respect has always been a traditional virtue of China people. Roland once said: "Respect for others is not tactfulness, but the courtesy and modesty of a person." At any time, we should learn to respect others, learn to put ourselves in the other's shoes, and don't fall into an irreparable predicament. Maybe many people can't understand the custom of Tibet, but we should also respect it. After all, every place has its own customs. Maybe people in their area know our customs very well.

For these, we must learn to be tolerant, so as to contribute to the development of the country and society. In daily life, we also need to learn to regulate our behavior and not put ourselves in danger because of curiosity. Even if we can't make much contribution to our country, we can use our meager strength to show the achievements of the sons and daughters of Greater China. I don't know the comparison what do you think?