A classic and refreshing passage

A classic and refreshing passage (selected 40 sentences) 1. People who do not know how to say no will not get the true respect of others even if they exhaust themselves to death. Because in the eyes of those who are used to trouble you, you are helping everyone else, not just him. 2. The relationship between people is sometimes like a sweater. When weaving it, we must be careful and stitch by stitch. When we take it apart, we only need to pull it gently. Maybe it is just a joke, maybe it is an unintentional misunderstanding, all emotions Never again! 3. It is always difficult to see through the human heart. A friend who seems to be a good friend can always send you into a pit when you need him most. A relationship that seems to be very good will collapse instantly in the face of money. 4. Later I realized that whether you are scheming or not, heartless or cautious, the fate of life is generally like this: you will always be cheated, but there will always be noble people. 5. There is no need to let everyone know the real you, or there is no need for you to keep telling people what kind of person I am. Because this is ineffective, people will still only want to see what they want to see. 6. If you have too many thoughts, you will have fewer friends. If you are less careful, there will be more people playing tricks on you. If you have money, more people will follow you. If you have no money, more people will stay away from you. This is reality. Don’t test people’s hearts. It will disappoint you and make you despair. 7. Everyone has his own temper, and everyone has his own look. People who cannot control their own temper are easily hurt by other people's glances; people who cannot hide their own glances are easily hurt by other people's tempers. 8. Remember: I am hungry, you have a piece of bread, you share half of it with me, this is a friend; you give it all to me, this is love; you hide the bread and tell me that you are also hungry, this is society. 9. Real society and life tell men and women that loyal and honest people always suffer, and kind and honest people always suffer; people who can't let go always suffer, and people who can't look away always suffer. ——Ye Qianhua's "Collection of Feelings" 10. Ordinary people only get 1 point if they do something well, and beautiful girls get 10 points if they do something well; similarly, if a beautiful girl does something wrong, they lose 1 point, not so If a beautiful girl does something wrong, she will lose 10 points. Whether you agree with it or not, the world is so superficial most of the time. 11. If you help him ten times and fail to help once, you are a bad person. If you reject him ten times and help him once, you are a good person. So, learn to say no. Don’t act like a thankless good person. If you are embarrassed to say no, people who mean to embarrass you are not good people anyway. 12. People's hearts open slowly, based on enough companionship and trust, but they also close in an instant. If you are disappointed once, you will never trust as unconditionally as you did at the beginning. Classic copywriting that inspires life 1. When I grow up, I realize that sometimes when you tell the truth, you have to apologize to others because you exposed the truth. So if you want to live smoothly, please always bring your brain. When we were young, we all grew taller, so we were very innocent and happy. When you grow up, instead of growing up physically, you will become obsessed with thinking, and your life will be very tiring. 2. Many people live meaningless lives. Even when they are busy with things they think are important, they appear dull. Everything in the world is flowing, and everything that belongs to you will only stay for a moment. You must learn to take it up and let it go, in order to better embrace life. 3. If different people do the same thing for you, you will feel a huge difference. Because what you care about is often not what people do, but only the people who do it. Over the years, you will find that the first people to buy your goods are strangers; the first people to keep a distance from you are acquaintances; the first people to keep distance from you are the people you have helped. 4. If I could choose life, I would rather be simple one. A tea cup, a thatched hut, and an acre of fertile land, simplicity is good. Time is a one-way street, you can't go back after it has passed; life is simple, you make a choice and then don't look back. 5. When a person matures, it does not mean that he or she no longer has desires, nor does it mean that he suppresses desires, but that he knows how to channel desires rationally. Life is an out-of-print movie that cannot be played back. Some things, no matter how hard you try, you just can't go back. Even if you do go back, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing that can go back is the memory in my heart.

6. The process and results are all borne by yourself. You must know that time is just a passer-by and you are the master. At some point, we need a crisis to stimulate our own potential and awaken the passion for life that has been hidden deep in our hearts for a long time. 7. No matter how bad your mood is, you can write it on your face, no matter how tiring your work is, you can complain, no matter how short your life is, you can practice it at will, no matter how hard your life is, you can lose your faith, and no matter how difficult it is to move forward, you can hesitate. All motivation comes from inner boiling. If you can't do something, whether it's building a good relationship, finding a lover, or losing weight, it's because you don't really want to do it yet. 8. You know so many people in this world, and so many people are related to you. No matter how you change, you can't make everyone like you, so you might as well be the person you want to be. Don't be too entangled in the present, and don't worry too much about the future. When you experience something, the scenery in front of you is no longer the same as before. 9. Every age has its own troubles, without exception. The troubles of every age will be waiting for you quietly at that age, never absent. Fulfilling unfulfilled wishes, repaying debts, repaying debts, and then leaving alone, is this what you want to do in your life? Is it a success or is it just a waste of time? 10. People live in hope. When one hope is shattered or realized, a new hope will arise. This is a book of life, whether you like it or not, you have to write it and read it, and you have to write it well and read it well. 11. In fact, sometimes, happiness is really simple, just drink your favorite drink, listen to your favorite song, be in the place you like, and see the person you like. An honest lifestyle is actually to act according to your body's wishes, eat when you are hungry, and don't lie when you love. A message to myself in the New Year: 1. Life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but often unable to control yourself. There are no ifs in life, only results. As long as you try your best and work hard, it will be fine. 2. There is no need to deliberately meet anyone, nor be eager to own anyone, nor forcefully keep anyone. Let everything take its course, and leave the best of yourself to the last person. 3. You must be impulsive once in your life, either for a person, for love, for travel, or for a dream. 4. Let those who come come, and those who go go. Let nature take its course, which is the greatest fulfillment in life. 5. There is no person in this world who is not hurt. No matter when, you must believe that the only one who can truly heal yourself is yourself. Don't complain, try to be tolerant; don't be afraid of being alone, try to settle down. ——Lu Xiaoman "As Days Go Forward" 6. You must work harder, live a good life, be a lovely person, be a shining person, not give in, not dependent, and have a deep affection for the sufferings of the past. , but never look back. 7. Choose a posture to live irreplaceably. I have two mes. One is indifferent, the other is passionate, I will treat you the same way you treat me. 8. Sooner or later you have to get used to being alone. No one will protect you as a treasure. No matter how difficult it is, you have to face it with a smile, even if it is just pretending. 9. You can ask yourself to be kind to others, but you cannot expect others to be kind to you. How you treat others does not mean how they will treat you. If you cannot see through this, you will only be licking unnecessary worries. 10. You are still young, romantic and passionate. You can worry about money, face and body, but don’t give in to feelings. 11. A person's life, walking around, eating and drinking, not getting sick, is a blessing. If you can meet someone you love and love you, and make a little fortune, it will be a great blessing. 12. While you are young, read more books and learn how to live a good life. While you are still young, be kind to yourself and have the ability not to panic at any time. I hope you can start a happy life as soon as possible and love whoever you want. ——Wang Xun 13. I wish you don’t have to rush to the sea, but you can also have spring flowers blooming; you don’t have to be homeless, you can still meet company; you don’t have to stay through the night, just wait until good night. 14. Nothing. No one needs you to keep thinking about it after 11 o'clock. Nothing can be exchanged for health. Remember, you can only live one life. 15. If you decide to do something, stop asking yourself and others whether it is worth it. Only when you are willing can it be taken for granted, and only when it is taken for granted can you never look back.

16. In life, there are always some intersections of light and shadow. There are some things that you don’t like, but you must do them. There are some things that you wholeheartedly agree on, but you have to give up. 17. If one day you meet your ex and your new love on the street, please don’t feel sad! Because our mothers have taught us since childhood that we should give old toys to people who are less fortunate than ourselves.