Will your parents' love affect your mate selection criteria?

Personally, I think my parents' love still has a great influence on my concept of mate choice.

Like my parents, their relationship is not very good, they often quarrel and have a long cold war over some trivial matters. Therefore, it has also had a very negative impact on my mate selection criteria, but I think since this matter has its disadvantages, it will also have its advantages.

First of all, I think the biggest influence on my mate selection criteria is that I hope my boyfriend is a generous boy, and she doesn't care about some small things between two people and doesn't have so much masculinity. I think if a boy has a strong masculinity, then to a certain extent, he will strongly ask his girlfriend to do something he doesn't like, which will hurt him to some extent.

I think a boy must have some patience. On my father, he is not very patient with my mother. He will be impatient when he meets something, and he has no patience to coax my mother. So personally, I still hate being together like this. Besides, he is a male chauvinist like my father. He has to think about everything by himself and make his own decisions, so he won't listen to my mother's opinions or take care of her feelings, so there will always be something in their lives that will make them quarrel. After their quarrel, they will choose the cold war to solve this problem. Their cold war can last for half a year or a year, so their feelings will get bigger and bigger, and there will be more and more quarrels in their lives, so I think my parents' love has a great influence on me.