Why is EQ low, Zhihu?

All the behaviors with low EQ are due to poor control, bad temperature or indecision. Low emotional intelligence means low emotional intelligence, that is, a person's ability to feel, understand, control, use and express his own and others' feelings declines. Emotional intelligence usually refers to emotional intelligence, which mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, will and frustration tolerance. There is no obvious innate difference in EQ between people, but it is more related to the cultivation of the day after tomorrow. From a simple level, improving emotional intelligence is to change the part that can't control emotions into the part that can control emotions, thus strengthening the ability to understand others and get along with others.

Low emotional intelligence has these manifestations. When you are in a good mood, you will do things when you are in a good mood. Speak without thinking, without considering the feelings of others;

Stop if you don't understand what others want to say;

I don't understand the euphemistic refusal of others, and I can't hear the meaning of others' words;

Motivation to stifle others;

Excessive dependence on others, no self;

Always backward, do not know how to reflect on themselves.