Lin Yilun talks about menstrual discomfort, and Charlie talks about female body discrimination, which is transgender warmth.

Lin Yilun, an "out-of-date" actor, went on a hot search.

But not because his handsome son went to the deformation meter to experience life,

Because of the following speech.

Express "rejecting menstrual shame" on the public platform and publicize the correct concept of physical health.

Generous and natural, it is really worth a hot search.

However, this is not a new topic.

Last week, Xu, a student of East China University of Political Science and Law (Shanghai), launched the "Sanitary napkin mutual aid box" action.

By sharing the emergency use of sanitary napkins,

Promote the consciousness of "rejecting menstrual shame" and convey goodwill.

Later, students from other universities and employees from some companies were also inspired.

Have followed suit.

In fact, there are also boys who support the "sanitary towel mutual aid box" action.

Buy sanitary napkins and attach a note:

"This is my first time to buy sanitary napkins. I am a male, female son, husband and father. Good wishes! Please feel free to use it! "

The move is really touching, and the starting point is also to care about the female classmates who have never met.

But in fact, I realized that "menstruation = normal physiological phenomenon" is not ashamed of it.

In fact, it should be very normal behavior.

This kind of behavior conveys respect for women, which should also be a common phenomenon.

It's like putting in a good word for Lin Yilun's speech, but I'm also a little sad about this hot search.

The praise of Lin Yilun's speech just shows that in the eyes of many people, menstruation is still in the "unspeakable" stage.

But this has nothing to do with people's emotional intelligence, and it is a normal and appropriate response.

But there are still many people who unconsciously retain the old mindset.

Even public figures, there is no lack of uncomfortable dad's remarks.

A few days ago, Zhang Shaogang participated in the variety show "Daughter in Love" and got a hot search because of a sentence.

Kym's father just introduced himself.

Zhang Shaogang later said that this self-introduction was "embarrassing".

# jingjing jingjing jingjing jingjing can't figure out where it is. Father and daughter sharing the same surname is only a common situation, not a golden rule.

The usual thinking offended the speaker and made the audience talk.

But sometimes "speaking rashly and disrespecting women" has nothing to do with experience and age.

There are also young people who "speak amazingly".

There is no so-called "friend circle joke" that is not angry.

# This person is a comedian of Deyun Society. He hasn't signed a contract for a long time, and he hasn't worked yet. Excessive remarks have made his reputation worse and worse.

This, sometimes, is really not inappropriate.

This is intense discomfort.

Disrespect, which is easily overlooked in speech acts,

Often there is no direct malice, but it will still have a bad social impact.

And perhaps these so-called "inattention" have happened to everyone, including women themselves.

No offense to Mr. Venus, but when the basic human right of reproductive freedom is bound by "birth", it can be called offense.

# There are no middle-aged married and childless actresses in her program who are not urged.

Therefore, some statements and behaviors that are actually normal are set off to be precious.

Especially male public figures.

In fact, not only the topic of "menstrual shame" just discussed is very hot,

The discussion about physical shame is no longer a day or two.

Everyone has heard the saying, "If you weigh less than 100, you must be flat-chested or short" (this is for underweight women).

So the classic question, "How much does a girl weigh?"

Charlie's answer was to immediately ask, "How many centimeters is a boy short?"

Of course, "shy" men are also very inappropriate.

It's just that in life,

More or less, women face too strict standards and too many "questions" and don't know how to respond.

Charlie has many such natural acts of kindness.

When replying to the fan comments, I also put myself in women's shoes.

# I wish the female fan sweet feelings, and I wish her to keep herself no matter what.

From female fans to the topic of women's love and marriage, there are also many male stars who export many appropriate "normal" concepts.

Speaking of older unmarried women,

He Jiong and He Laoshi also conveyed the hope to explore more happy lifestyles:

Regarding the stigma of the word "leftover women", Wang Kai also expressed "age anxiety" in refusing marriage.

This respect ranges from the attitude towards women's topics to caring for women around you.

In fact, every bit can be reflected.

When housework is "naturally" regarded as a wife's "obligation",

Ruoyun Zhang also answered the question about "Girls cook".

Sometimes even a title can tell a woman's position in her mind.

When discussing career, Ronghao Li's "positioning" for Rainie Yang is "singer" at first.

What happened before was that a player sang "Rain".

Speaking of appellation, if you want to interrupt, you can look at Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang, who are hot because they are too sweet.

# Although it's a joke, what's wrong with being fed dog food for no reason?

This respect for his wife's career is essentially his trust, love,

This is also an emphasis on women's professional identity.

Jason Wu, who just fell in love with the Happy Trio, talked about "the standard of a good husband"

People's "Wolf Warrior" Jason Wu has always agreed that Iola should have her own career, broaden her horizons and keep herself:

Respect, regardless of major issues.

When Kang Hui participated in Hello Life, there was a link that needed to call his wife to express his confession.

After the phone call, he said to ask his wife first to see if the recording could be played.

Xiao Ni joked that her opinion was no longer important.

But Kang Hui said firmly: "Her opinion is very important."

Whether it is a "consent" or the handling of family relations, the respect for subtle details is very warm.

As a "novice mother", Debby, who just gave birth, wrote in her new diary,

I am slightly sensitive to the discomfort of being "watched" to feed.

The cover is handled very thoughtfully. He told his family to leave, gave them a quiet space, and then explained it to his parents immediately.

While respecting Debby's opinions, she also skillfully made her parents understand her mood swings.

The significance of gender respect seems to be more deeply understood and manifested in the relationship between husband and wife.

Does Sa Beining tell the story of having children with his wife?

Or did Max Zhang call for attention to "mother's depression"?

They all care about their wives as an ordinary husband and think about the responsibility of men in the proposition of fertility.

This respect is not only recognition and admiration for his wife, but also comes from sincere love and protection.

When Chen Songling was not suitable for having children, she and her husband Zhang Duo chose Dink.

And in order to avoid unfriendly remarks from the outside world,

Zhang Duo attributed most of his choice to his immaturity.

His words reflected his support for "women's reproductive freedom".

However, this "normal" respect and concern does not mean that we must rely on intimate relationships to achieve it.

Unmarried William Chan participated in variety shows in her early years and listened to her colleagues show off her children for a long time.

I blurted out, "it's your wife. Great",

This is also a respect for women.

A few days ago, the final of rap new generation,

Songs sung by Sunda, Feezy and Chen Jinnan about sexual harassment in the workplace and victims' guilt,

Paying attention to women's plight with works is also a kind of dimensional respect.

In the # box are clips that were not fully displayed in the final stage.

These "* * * feelings" from the opposite sex have crossed the quagmire of gender identity and thinking.

Being magnified in the spotlight also conveys warmth to the greatest extent, which is really worthy of applause and hot search.

Understanding, goodwill and respect should not be limited by gender.

Praising the equal values conveyed by male public figures is to recognize and encourage this understanding.

I want to make a sound, not "talk".

This is respect, not pretending or boasting.

I hope these "normals" are no longer "scarce".

The last sentence,

Sincerely hope that the more obvious, the better the normal views and behaviors.