The suffering of others

Recently, I watched the new and old realistic movies of Japan and South Korea, green-headed flies, oases and thieves' houses, which were very touching. They all told the survival stories of marginal people, paid attention to the dark corner that was easily overlooked by the public, and interpreted their inner world and their survival logic.

Among them, Oasis is particularly touching and shocking. The film tells the story of Hong Zhong, the "fool-like" hero, who was too young to adapt to society after being imprisoned for his brother, but happened to fall in love with Han Gongzhu, a severe cerebral palsy patient who could not take care of himself. Her face is twisted, her hands and feet twitch and she has difficulty speaking. However, Du Zhong was attracted by her, and under the impulse, she began to care about Gong Zhu. So they gradually developed into a beautiful love. However, when everything goes with the flow, Du Zhong is mistaken by two families who don't understand them for raping Gong Zhu and going to prison again ... Even if marginal people get a little humble love, it is extravagant. A happy life, like the desert oasis painting hung in Gong Zhu's house, is hazy and beautiful, but out of reach.

Perhaps suffering will always accompany human beings and cannot be eliminated, but this world will never make people despair. There is always a force that makes people feel warm, such as the winter sunshine hitting their faces, because people are born with a kind of sympathy and empathy, just like fierce beasts sometimes sprout pity and sympathy from their hearts when hunting animal cubs, which is the physical attribute of people and animals. Because of it, it has also created the civilization and progress of human beings to protect the relatively vulnerable groups and help everyone advance together.

Just like those excellent directors, they put the spotlight in that dark corner, paying attention to the hardships of the hard-working people and the suffering of the suffering people, so that the public can have emotional substitution and experience, and then arouse more people's concern and support.

Compassion and empathy may come from egoism, because in this society, almost no one can be immune, unless you understand that under the same sky, the suffering of others is also your suffering, and the suffering of others is also a difficulty that you or your descendants may face.

We seem to understand these remarks, but understanding the truth and whether you are aware of the sufferings of others scattered in all corners of this society, and whether you understand that these sufferings can be two parallel lines that do not intersect.

Especially in this entertainment-to-death sky, truth and suffering are often deliberately buried in the noisy crowd and dust, and ignored by people intentionally or unintentionally. You must always keep your eyes open and be alert, just like keeping a fire in a wild forest in winter, don't put it out and don't fall asleep.

Once, a group of friends in a WeChat group forwarded a video: a woman with long hair was soaked in the street in a rainstorm, gesturing like a fist, and I sang "Your Legend" commonly used in martial arts movies. I really don't like it, and I can't help saying, "Is this interesting? If this woman is sane, she may be experiencing great pain. If she is insane, then she is a life that needs public pity. Is it interesting to treat other people's pain as fun? "

Yes, under the influence of the supremacy of entertainment and the death of entertainment, people seem to pick up whatever they find interesting for entertainment, regardless of weight, without principles, and without knowing the suffering of others.

The blood of the girl killed by Didi is not cold, the tears of her family are not dry, the discussion and accountability have not yet settled, and various funny video clips with the girl's victimization as the background have come out. I wonder if they have considered that her family is still suffering.

When we read all kinds of jokes about cheating, have we ever considered that there is usually at least one injured person or family behind every real similar story? If you understand them, I believe the fun of joking will be greatly reduced.

It seems that we only care about our own situation. As long as we are all right, the years will be safe. As long as we are good with our friends around us, the society will be peaceful and peaceful. Once I discussed the macro-social problems of my motherland with a friend with higher education, and I complained a few words. After some discussion, I think this friend is illogical. He asked me: Are you having a bad time?

Yes, I'm fine. Don't look.

Anna karenine begins by saying, "Every happy family is similar, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way". This is true for every individual. Most of us live a plain, even mediocre life, a calm and plain life. The degree to which we can perceive and understand the suffering of others almost determines our behavior and value orientation.