Why are some jokes true?

To some extent, jokes are usually based on real feelings. Many perceptual psychologists believe that we express our feelings in a humorous way in order to relieve tension or escape fear.

We express our deepest feelings in the most relaxed way, which often makes the other party accept them better. For those closest to us, we can express our true feelings through humor, but we also need to pay attention to appropriate occasions, opportunities and ways to avoid hurting each other.

For example, in an intimate relationship, when you feel worried or anxious, you may express it to each other in a joking way. For example, "I've been waiting here for you for hundreds of years." This joke expresses your thoughts and worries about him, but there is a hint of joke and ridicule in the tone, which can not only express feelings, but also relieve tension.

Of course, when joking, we must respect each other and don't hurt each other's feelings. For example, if your partner is learning a new skill, but it doesn't go well, you can say, "You didn't learn to run at first." This sentence has a certain irony, which may make the other party feel depressed and hurt, so avoid this situation.

When telling the truth to the people closest to you, you can use humor appropriately to relieve tension and express your inner feelings, but at the same time, you should also pay attention to respecting each other's feelings and avoid hurting each other's feelings.