Marriage and family: I married the man I love most, but only 1 year later, I got divorced. what do you think?

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Just now, my best friend Xiaojie sent me a message telling me that she was divorced. I paused and immediately replied to her: Don't be sad, I'll be there soon.

So I stopped what I was doing and took a bus to Xiaojie's house. I thought all the way: "Didn't Xiaojie say she married love? Didn't you say you married his favorite? How did you get divorced after only one year? " I don't know why, but out of concern for my friends, I got there at the first time.

When I arrived at Xiaojie's house, I found that Xiaojie's house was quite clean and looked very comfortable. Xiaojie sat on the sofa with his hands crossed on his knees, staring at a photo of her and her ex-husband in front of him, looking a little pathetic.

Xiaojie seemed to know I was coming and whispered, "I'm still divorced, isn't it silly?" The romance before marriage turned into a joke after marriage. "

I didn't know how to say it, so I said, "Maybe you have different values."

Perhaps, this marriage is still too impulsive. I tried my best to marry him, but in the end, I found that it was really inappropriate, with different values, and the marriage naturally came to an end. I just didn't expect this day to come so soon.

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I poured two glasses of water, and Xiaojie picked up one and gulped it down. Then Xiaojie told me her courtship history, which I have heard more than a hundred times.

She said that she and her ex-husband were colleagues, and she liked him from the first day he joined the company. No matter what his family background is, she only trusts her first feelings.

The ex-husband is tall, with a Chinese face and a little shy, which fully meets Xiaojie's courtship standard, so she launched a crazy pursuit of her ex-husband.

Once she goes to the movies, she always buys two movie tickets. I thought it was for me, but Jacko said it was for her ex-husband. I said people don't know you bought a movie ticket, and besides, they may not go. Xiaojie said: A little girl of mine took the initiative to ask a boy to watch a movie. No boy will refuse. I didn't believe it at first, but I finally hit my face. Although her ex-husband refused, she couldn't resist Xiaojie's offensive and went to the movies together.

Xiaojie took the initiative when he met someone he liked, so in this relationship, Xiaojie paid more than boys. Even so, Xiaojie is willing. Xiaojie likes the feeling of being with her ex-husband, who seems to have started to move, and accepted Xiaojie over time. In the end, Xiaojie and her ex-husband got married in just one year.

However, after marriage, married life is more bitter than love life. In love, you can be free, but in marriage, it is daily necessities.

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In fact, most of the things that defeated their marriage were trivial matters in the family.

For example, today Xiaojie bought a movie ticket and planned to go to the movies, but her ex-husband said: You should learn to save money when you get married. You can watch these things at home in the future. Saving means living, you know? Xiaojie didn't care, thinking that a movie ticket was only a few dollars, but her ex-husband said that she wasted time and money.

For another example, if Jacko goes to a party or takes a taxi home, his ex-husband will say a word or two, but of course he can't do without money.

Jacko doesn't want to. Why not say something when you are in love? Now that you're married, you're targeting me everywhere. What can you save with such a little money?

Ex-husband doesn't want to argue with her. In his mind, when a woman gets married, she will save money. Xiaojie is used to spending money like water, but now he is naturally unhappy in charge.

Xiaojie always said: I love you so much, so I like you. Did you do the same to me when you got married? If the ex-husband doesn't talk, the two people's ideas can't get together at all. Xiaojie also found himself carried away by love.

However, Xiaojie forgot that she only likes her ex-husband's looks and the feeling of falling in love at first sight. She forgot that her ex-husband was a rural child. The concept of ex-husband is to save money and make money. JJ, it's the opposite.

Later, the relationship between them became more and more tense. Although Xiaojie tried to save this broken love, he didn't succeed. Two people divorced a year later.

Xiaojie later found out. The boy you like is not necessarily the best; If it is a boy who suits him, that is the best.