I will give you a bride price of 300 thousand. The girl who said this can't marry. Why?

I have always thought that the bride price is essential. Although many places have begun to stop the "sky-high bride price", many netizens think that the bride price should be banned. They think that the bride price is the biggest obstacle for young men and women to get married, and I have reservations about it. How much should I get for the bride price? I think it should be decided by the family situation of both parties. But in reality, the more ordinary the family, the more bride price. This kind of marriage is called "poverty alleviation marriage".

Before telling this story, I want to say a good word to you: "I will marry you with a bride price of 300 thousand." Don't believe that girls who say such things can't get married.

Reader Zhijian is an engineer of an Internet company. Because of his working environment and introverted personality, Zhijian never had a decent love in his thirties, and even had little chance to talk to the opposite sex.

Later, at the urging of his parents, Zhijian joined the blind date army. There, Zhijian met Xiao Ju and they chatted happily. Zhijian also feels that he has found true love. Because they met each other on blind dates, their goals were clear, and their relationship was confirmed in less than two months.

After falling in love, Zhijian doted on Xiao Ju and bought gifts for Xiao Ju from time to time. Zhijian doesn't know much about romance, but he is generous every time. Xiao Ju has been spending Zhijian's money since they established their relationship. Friends around Zhijian advised him not to be so stupid. If two people don't get married in the end, isn't that a waste of money? The friend's words made Zhijian angry. He thinks he will definitely marry Xiao Ju.

They talked about love for more than half a year, and Zhijian proposed to Xiao Ju. After the proposal, Zhijian followed Xiao Ju home. Xiao Ju's family is average, his parents are laid-off workers, and Xiao Ju has a younger brother who is at school. The house at home is also the kind of low-rent housing. They stayed in Xiao Ju's house for half a day, and Xiao Ju's parents didn't object to the marriage.

After they came back, Zhijian received a message from Xiao Ju: "I will give you a bride price of 300,000 yuan." Zhijian thinks this is a joke of Xiao Ju. After the phone call, Zhijian was shocked. Xiao Ju was firm when she said this, because she felt that her parents were working too hard and her younger brother was still at school, so it would cost a lot of money to get married and buy a house in the future. Therefore, filial Xiao Ju will let Zhijian take 300,000 yuan as a bride price for this family, because she thinks Zhijian loves her very much and will definitely agree to take the money.

Knowing the reason, Zhijian talked to Xiao Ju several times, saying that he couldn't afford so much money because he had already bought a wedding room. However, Xiao Ju doesn't care about this. She won't get married without a bride price of 300,000 yuan. The last two people chose to break up.

Xiao Ju was surprised at Zhijian's breakup. Because Zhijian loves her so much, how can he not even give 300 thousand? That's because Zhijian understands that he has 300,000 yuan now, and he will get more after marriage, because Xiao Ju will always help her family. If life can't go on at that time, it's better to break up now than divorce.

I will give you a bride price of 300 thousand. Girls who say such things are generally "helping their younger brothers" and morbidly filial. In order to help their parents, they don't care about their small family at all. In their subconscious, parents' talents are the most important. So such a girl can't marry, or she will regret it and her married life will be restless. Don't believe it.

At the end of the article, I still want to reiterate that the bride price should not always be used to measure the happiness of marriage, but should be measured according to one's own ability. I strongly oppose the marriage of "helping the younger brother" like Xiao Ju, and I also advise all men to stay away from this marriage and help their parents, but it is not impossible, just to prioritize. There is nothing wrong with filial piety, but you can't be stupid.