A girl in college found out that her boyfriend had another girlfriend, so I joked that she was a spare tire, and then the boy I secretly loved said that I had no quality?

Why don't you think about why? To be honest, I think the quality of the boy you secretly love is really good.

He doesn't agree that "keeping a spare tire" or "being a spare tire" is right, but he can't agree with the disadvantaged who hurt their feelings with the word "spare tire". The word "spare tire" was not meant to be a joke for the victim. I don't know what's wrong with the world now, so there will be such a phenomenon

1. If one party has a crush on ta, then this person who secretly loves others is a spare tire.

2. If you like someone and that person chats with you, you are a spare tire.

Don't you think that many people's basic qualities are gone? "Spare tire" is a mockery of people who are full of feelings, and "spare tire" should not be synonymous with the injured party. Even some people will get satisfaction by belittling the injured party in this way.

Don't talk nonsense when the other person is sad and you don't know the facts. This is our most basic accomplishment as a highly intelligent creature.

By way of digression, some people are so confident that they think they are a spare tire. I want to say, first of all, don't belittle yourself so much. No one should be a substitute for feelings. Secondly, don't look up to yourself so much. Others just want to make a simple friend. If you are his object, you may not get into the eyes of ta. Just like the relationship between you and the boy you secretly love, do you think you are his spare tire? No matter what you think, he must despise you. People with high literacy will make friends with you but will not get close to you. Social friends are inevitable, but true friends can choose by themselves.

Finally, I want to say that since you are a boy who has a crush on you, you should improve your self-cultivation if you want to get more attention from him. Obviously, his family environment and educational environment determine that he is a high-quality person. If you want to be with him, you can be different in knowledge, but your literacy must be at the same level.

and obviously, that lovelorn girl has a good relationship with the boy you secretly love. Don't be so abusive.