Parents should try not to call the baby's birth name in front of others, which will affect the child's self-esteem development.

My best friend's 4-year-old baby has been in kindergarten for several months. I just sent it to school a few days ago, and the child is a little uncomfortable. Under the guidance of girlfriends and teachers, the children quickly adapted to the life in kindergarten and went to school happily every morning.

A few days ago, the baby began to feel emotional and didn't want to go to school. The best friend thinks that there are contradictions between children or other reasons. After taking the baby to wash at night, my girlfriend asked the baby when chatting with children, why don't you like going to kindergarten? The child looked particularly wronged and said with tears: The children call me smelly treasure and never call me by my name again.

It turns out that one day when my best friend went to pick up the child from school, she accidentally called the child's nickname: smelly treasure. So several naughty children began to call Eva's birth name and laughed at him as a smelly baby.

After listening to her daughter's words, my best friend realized the seriousness of the problem and didn't think she was unintentional. Call the baby's nickname so that the child doesn't fall in love with school. So I promised my child that my mother would never call her baby that way again, especially in front of others. The child's mood calmed down, and he smiled through tears and went to bed happily.

In real life, many parents will give their children nicknames, such as Xiaoshi, Xiaoshudian and Niu Niu. It is a sign of love for adults to give their children nicknames, because they are smooth and cute. But if, like the children of girlfriends, the birth name becomes the object of children's ridicule, that's not good.

After the age of 3, parents should not casually call their baby's birth name, especially when there are many people outside, which may cause psychological pressure to their children. Calling children by their birth names often will have bad consequences.

After the baby goes to kindergarten, everyone wants to mingle with friends and have fun. If parents always call their children by their birth names, babies will feel like adults. Other children will think that you are still a child with a nickname, and your baby's nickname is different or funny, which will make your friends follow suit.

Children in kindergartens will naturally be laughed at by children, and in serious cases they will be excluded, leaving a shadow in the baby's heart, which is not conducive to the development of the baby's mental health. After the baby is three years old, he has self-awareness and ideas. When playing with children, I care about their words and opinions. Because babies are basically in contact with their families before they are three years old.

It is a kind of affection for adults to call their babies' birth names, and children feel used to it. However, after I went to kindergarten at the age of three, my birth name was easily teased by naughty children in collective life.

The baby will feel disgusted and even feel inferior, and may be separated from the collective life. If you don't play with other children, your personality will become introverted. Parents should pay attention that after the child is three years old, try not to call the child's birth name outside.

A friend said that the neighbor's daughter's milk name is Ya Ya, but others always call her duck or pig duck. The girl was very angry after hearing this, and she was particularly sad. Whenever someone calls her real name, she will feel distressed and feel inferior. It is for this name that the girl chooses to marry far away, because no one knows her nickname in a strange place and no one can humiliate her.

For parents, calling their children by their birth names is a kind of intimate address. But always shouting like this makes children feel taken care of by their parents and family all day, and there is a feeling of not growing up. If teachers and classmates often call the baby's birth name, it will affect the development of the child's personality, and it is difficult for the child to have an independent consciousness.

And with the growth of age, children don't like others to call him by his birth name. The baby is older, has self-esteem and is very proud. If the baby goes to primary school, after junior high school, others are still calling his nickname, and the baby will naturally feel uncomfortable. As parents, it's time to put yourself in the child's shoes.

Imagine that children in other people's homes use scientific names, and only their own babies are still calling their own milk names, which will make children feel different from others. Although the name is just a business card, parents should educate their children to know their names from an early age. Especially when the baby goes to school and introduces himself to children. Babies should say their full names generously.

Parents may not be used to changing their mouth, so they should correct it slowly. Some outsiders or public places should try not to call their children by their birth names. After the baby is three years old, try to change her name to the child's scientific name, which will help the child form a sound personality.

A parent commented that since childhood, parents have always called themselves by their birth names. If parents call them by their first names, they may not be far from being trained and beaten. This actually makes sense. Parents will call their children by their first and last names when they are angry.

Conclusion:

The world of children is different from that of adults. To consider the child's thoughts and emotions, parents can also discuss with the baby whether they like their parents to call the child's full name or their birth name.