In the face of newborn crying, should parents coax their children at the first time?

What happens when parents refuse to coax children when they cry? If parents refuse to coax their children when they are crying, or ignore their children's crying and treat them coldly, it is likely to have a very negative impact on their growth and mental health. When parents ignore their children no matter how long they cry, how loud they cry, and how wronged they cry, such indifference will bring some sense of loss to their children, which is likely to make them lose their sense of family security. When children grow up, they will feel that their parents at home are indifferent, and others will definitely be more indifferent. Perhaps at this time, their personalities will become more and more withdrawn, unwilling to get along with others, and it is easy to form restless psychology.

So how should parents deal with crying children?

1. Parents should first adjust their emotions. Psychologist Carola Schuster once said: "When a child cries, the first thing to deal with is the parents' own emotions." This sentence actually has some truth. For example, if your child suddenly cries in the street because he wants something, if parents can't control their emotions and shout with their children in the street, then others will see the parents' fault first. Therefore, in the face of children's negative emotions, parents should first adjust their emotions, and then educate their children in a reasonable way, and try not to show irritability and disgust when treating their children.

2. Dealing with children's negative emotions in a reasonable way When children are crying, the second thing for parents is to judge what state and situation they are crying in. If the child is crying, parents can hug the child gently and tell the child calmly, "I know you are a little sad now, but mom and dad hope you can control your emotions." At this time, when the child's crying is getting smaller and smaller, it is necessary to appropriately encourage the child to tell his parents what he really thinks. At this time, children can really open their hearts; If the child is really having a hard time, and doesn't want something or do something, you can choose to say to the child, "Mom and Dad can actually see that this thing (thing) is something you don't want to do, but when you face something you don't want to do, you can be sad or cry, but you have to learn to face it yourself and learn to do it yourself. We all believe. At this time, we can give children hugs and care according to their emotional changes, so that their words can help them become brave.

Therefore, when children cry and fool around, parents can't ignore them. Communicating with them in an appropriate way is the most beneficial way for their growth.