The parenting master tells jokes to his mother.

Motherly love is considered as the greatest emotion in the world. It is selfless and deep, and can resist all harm. But many times, when mothers get along with their children, there are often some small deviations, which leads to frequent conflicts between parents and children. Want to be a good mother, is not a simple thing, you need to constantly improve yourself and grow up with your children.

Liu Xuan is a famous Olympic gymnastics champion. She has a good face and the perseverance of a professional athlete, and is loved by the public. Her husband Wang Mi is an excellent musician. They got married in style, golden couple. It's a match made in heaven.

Recently, Liu Xuan and his wife participated in a parent-child variety show, and her performance in the show caused a heated discussion. Because of the arrangement of the program group, Wang Tao needed a person to take care of his son. Liu Xuan was afraid that her husband couldn't cope, so she found her own parenting book. The eight thick books record the changes of my son's weight, diet and state every day from birth to now, which makes people admire.

Liu Xuan's carefulness and carefulness are fully reflected in these eight manuals. Facing children, she is a strict mother. My son is lazy and doesn't want to practice writing. Wang Tao wanted to indulge his children, but Liu Xuan told him gently and seriously, "No matter how reluctant you are, you still have to finish the exercise. It is better to accept it happily from the beginning. "

Many families have the same division of labor as Liu Xuanjia. Mother takes most of the responsibility of caring for and educating children, while Bao Dad is often busy making money to support his family. How to communicate with children, how to take good care of children and how to persuade children to obey are all problems that treasure mothers often face in parenting education. Let's take a look at Liu Xuan's practice and learn some valuable parenting experiences from it.

Everything is based on the child's health.

Ma Bao should pay attention to children's health when taking care of them. Besides discovering the physical changes of children in time and reducing the possibility of illness, Ma Bao should also pay attention to their mental health. Respect children in education, but also protect their self-esteem, do not bring negative emotions to children, and protect their emotional stability and mental health.

3, do a good job in time planning

Ma Bao should also make a good time plan, understand the law of children's growth, and guide children to do the right things at the right time. Children lack self-control and can't tell right from wrong, so it's easy for them to concentrate on playing and avoid learning activities. On the other hand, parents should guide and plan their children according to their growth.

Liu Xuan grew up in a sports school and has been a professional athlete for many years. Dedicated, meticulous and persistent are the excellent qualities engraved in her bones. After becoming a mother, she brought these qualities to parenting education, studied hard to be a good mother, and set a good example for children's growth.

1, gentle but powerful

A good mother should be gentle and generous, never let her emotions get out of control in front of her children, and always face everything with a rational attitude. However, gentleness does not mean that children are allowed to do whatever they want. At the same time, Ma Bao should also have some strength. In the face of children's unreasonable demands, resolutely refuse, resolutely correct children's misconduct, and help children gradually standardize themselves and become an excellent person.

2. Careful and tolerant

A good mother is like an ocean, meticulous and tolerant, willing to accept everything from her children unconditionally. Even if it is a child's shortcomings and deficiencies, a competent mother will accept them first and then correct them. Understand the child's imperfections, accept that the child is an ordinary person, and be willing to help the child develop strengths and avoid weaknesses and strive to improve himself.

3. Respect and understand children

For children, the most trustworthy mother is a mother who can respect herself. Parents' respect is the foundation of children's healthy growth, respect their own personality, their own ideas and their independent wishes. When parents have disputes with their children, they are willing to understand their children and encourage them to try boldly, thus cultivating their excellent quality of independence.

Although young children are still young, their self-awareness and brain development have actually been basically completed. Ma Bao can't ignore children's feelings, but should respect children, understand children, and communicate with children with stable emotions, so as to truly educate children and become qualified good mothers.

1, communicate smoothly with children.

When treasure mothers get along with their children, they need to establish smooth communication methods, so that children can have a sense of trust and are willing to talk to their mothers. You can spend more time with your children in daily life, let them feel the care from their mothers, keep close interaction between parents and children, and establish a relationship of mutual trust.

2. Don't nag and yell.

In particular, treasure moms need to control their temper, get along with their children in a calm and rational mood, and don't nag or yell in front of them. Babbling will make children rebellious and deliberately confront their mothers; Howling will hurt children's self-esteem, affect their psychology, and make them feel inferior and sensitive.

3. Examples speak louder than words.

Ma Bao needs to know that no educational method has more direct effect than setting an example. In parenting education, simple reasoning and preaching may be said a hundred times, which is not as effective as the correct demonstration of parents. As a treasure mother who spends the most time with her children, she needs to standardize her words and deeds, set a good example for her children and make them better.

Liszt, a famous Hungarian musician, said: "When I was a child, my mother always said that I was a good boy. How can I not be a good child with such a model mother who sacrificed herself? "

An excellent and competent mother has a direct and far-reaching influence on her children. It is no exaggeration to say that whether a person can have a future often comes from what kind of mother he has. Therefore, treasure moms need to be aware of their responsibilities, learn to respect their children in parenting education, give them meticulous care, and influence their thinking logic with their words and deeds. Help your child grow full and eventually become an excellent person!