A profound understanding of life

1. Destiny return 1, loss return1; 1 party chooses, 1 party gives up. Life, everything goes well, life, everything goes well. So, don't be serious with others, because it's not worth it, don't be serious with yourself, don't be serious with the past because it's not worth it, don't be serious with reality, because you have to continue!

The world doesn't care so much. If you are kind, he will push his luck; If you are weak, he will cheat mercilessly; If you are honest, he will be squeezed morally. If you give your affection to the wrong person, don't blame this society for not being warm. Because it's all your stupidity that hurts, you just need to be smart, not wishful thinking to change the world.

No matter how sincere you are, anyone who doubts you is a lie. No matter how simple people are, when they meet complicated people, they are all calculating. No matter how naive, it is a joke to meet a real person. No matter how professional a person is, it is a blank when he meets someone who doesn't understand. So, don't care too much about what others say about you. All you need is to be your best and unique self.

Please cherish everything about yourself. It is a blessing to live for a day. When you cry that you have no shoes to wear, you should think of a person without feet; When you sigh that the world is too boring, you should think that some people have never seen the world; When you hate your parents' nagging, think of an orphan. In a world without complaining, you find yourself very happy.

5. KFC never scolds McDonald's, and McDonald's never talks about KFC, so both of them have become the world's top 500; Mercedes-Benz never denigrated BMW, and BMW never denigrated Mercedes-Benz. Both of them became famous cars. Therefore, we don't need to slander others or defend ourselves. When people are alive, shine their own light, and don't blow out others' light!

6. You don't know who will give you an umbrella until it rains, and you don't know who is sincere to you until something happens. Some people will only add icing on the cake, not giving charcoal in the snow, and some people will only add fuel to the fire and will not be honest.

7. One day you will understand that people can't be too kind. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will intensify. People should have a little temper. Being too kind will make you lose value and dignity. Being too kind is also stupid. Remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Everything is enough, and if you are too kind, you will lack your mind; Excessive humility will make you weak.

8. No one can drag you to heaven with one hand, and no one can trample you to hell with one foot. The so-called bitterness and joy in fate are just inner feelings. When you transcend your own narrowness and selfishness, you will feel that heaven is everywhere; When you are entangled in troubles, there is hell everywhere. Therefore, everything is idealistic, and life is made by ourselves. Fate depends on how hard you work and how you look at it. Destiny is in your hands, in your heart.

9. When people are most powerful, it is not the time to persist, but the time to let go. When you choose to be empty-handed, who else can take anything from you! How many people lament the hopeless hope of fate, but forget the three most powerful words in the world: don't care!

10. Take out the garbage in your heart regularly, delete unpleasant people and things from your memory, and format yourself, so that you have room to store happiness. People who think too much are often unhappy because they care too much. There is nothing that can't pass, only the mood that can't pass. With a clear heart, there will be no rainy days in life. You are the author of life, why do you write the script badly?

1 1. See clearly why a person should be exposed; If you hate someone, why do you turn against them? Living, there are always people who don't like us, just like others don't like us. Living, speaking simply is actually very simple, and laughing at gains and losses will broaden your horizons; Only when the heart is transparent will spring bloom. Life is like this.

12. Although your savings may not make you rich, it can give you the strongest support when you want to turn around and leave someone or an environment, instead of holding you back. What you save is not money, but your confidence!

13. If you know someone, you must have cared. To see a person clearly, you must have been down and out; He who sees through a person must have fought with you; See through a person, you must have paid; Seeing through a person must be cheated; Look down on a person, you must have cherished it; Seeing a person clearly must be giving up.

14. The proper place in life is not near money or power, but near the soul; True happiness is neither wealth nor all the best, but a clear conscience.

15. The older a person grows up, the more he feels that many things need not be taken too seriously, such as external expectations, such as whether unimportant people like you or not. Paying too much attention will make you lose yourself. In order to please others, I tiptoed around and was kidnapped by others. Along the way, I realized that the real charm is not what you should be, but what you are. What is a person's first duty? The answer is simple: be yourself.

16. Being angry is to punish yourself with what others have done wrong. When there are problems in your life, don't be dissatisfied. You don't have to be so miserable. If you are depressed, you have to face it. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, good or bad will pass. Let go of the burden and enjoy life, it is better to bury your head in suffering with the burden; Instead of complaining anxiously about the unfairness of life, it is better to face life with a calm smile.

17. The two most important things in life: First, health. If life is a tree, health is the root, and the root will flourish. Without a healthy body, there is prosperity everywhere. The second is the mentality, and the success or failure of life is only between one thought. Different mentality, the situation of life will be very different. Only by cultivating an indifferent and quiet heart can life be clear and clear. Health needs exercise, mentality needs to be cultivated, and fate is only in yourself.

18. Life is like a marathon. The key to victory is not sudden outbreak, but persistence on the way. Even if you have a thousand reasons to give up, find yourself a reason to stick to it. Many times, success means sticking to it for one more minute. If you don't give up for one minute, there will be hope for the next. We just don't know when this minute will appear. No matter how hard and tired you are, as long as you keep walking, your scenery will eventually appear.

19. There is no hurdle in life. You can't sit next to an obstacle and wait for it to disappear. You can only try to cross it. Life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal; Life, without eternal love and endless feelings, always ends; People who can't get it will always forget it. Slowly, you won't cry anymore; Slowly, everything has passed ... giving up properly is an elegant turn of life.

20. The best state of life is peace. The key to elegance is to control one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city.

2 1. Take out your temper, it's instinct. Control your temper, that's skill. Do simple things repeatedly, and you are an expert. Do it with your heart and you will win.

22. Others can drive for you, but they can't walk for you. They can do things for you, but they can't think of you. The road to life depends on yourself, and success depends on yourself. God helps those who help themselves, and winners help themselves.

23. If you don't like others, you are not cultivated enough! In this world, it is not easy to be successful and rebellious all your life. Don't always have a hard time with others, let alone yourself.

24. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. If you give, someone will criticize you; When you harvest, someone will criticize you; Some people will criticize you when you watch. No one is not criticized. Do what you have to do and let others talk. Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be safe; Since the ears are not clean, it is better to be clean from the heart; Since you can't get what you want, let go with a smile.