How many children have been ruined by "Stop doing it and go home"

Feifei resigned again, constantly changing jobs after graduation, and playing at home for a long time every time she resigned. The reason for quitting every time is too hard. Just enjoy it at home. Anyway, the family can afford it. She can feel at home and be a neet.

Every time Feifei complains that she works too hard, her parents always say, Stop it and go home. My daughter won't suffer like this. So Feifei can't do every job for a long time.

Watching variety shows and eating snacks at home every day, lacking planning for your life, is a walking corpse. Relatives at home told her parents that she could not be so indulgent, kept out of touch with society, and had no skills to make a living, and sooner or later she would lose everything.

Her parents didn't listen to advice, and they didn't wait for their daughter to get paid to eat. It doesn't matter if Feifei works so hard.

I married someone in a daze. After marriage, Feifei doesn't work or do housework. There are always many contradictions with in-laws, and her husband doesn't protect her.

Many times Feifei ran back to her mother's house and cried to her parents, who always said that my daughter was not married to suffer in the past, so go home if she can't live. After that, Feifei had several failed marriages.

Home is a safe haven, even if it is stormy outside, it is warm at home; No matter how much you suffer outside, as long as you go home, you can resurrect with blood and continue to work hard.

Feifei's parents distorted the meaning of home, turning it into a greenhouse, and her children became flowers in the greenhouse, unable to bear any setbacks.

I have read two sentences on the Internet before:

Feifei is a typical person who just studies hard. The connivance of her parents caused her to rely too much on her parents and could not stand the wind and rain. As long as she suffers a little, she will cry when she comes home.

How many children have been spoiled by "stop doing it and go home".

In the past, it was the poor who educated their children's parents not to let go of their children, while the rich educated their children not to suffer hardships and suffer losses.

It seems to be transferred now. The poor are always afraid of their children suffering, but the rich are always bent on making their children suffer.

Many years ago, I saw a news that a college student returned to his village after graduation because he was too lazy to starve to death. It sounds like a joke, but it really happened in a village in Shiyan, Hubei Province.

This college student has excellent grades and is a "three good" student every year. After graduation, I resigned at home because I was dissatisfied with my job.

Like Feifei, he studies well, but he does nothing but study well, because his parents can't bear to let him suffer a little.

If you don't suffer a little now, you may suffer all your life in the future.

Many parents are always unwilling to let their children suffer. Take the college entrance examination as an example. When my cousin took the college entrance examination, my aunt wouldn't let him do any housework. My cousin is like a reading machine. The final grade came out, but I couldn't go to school again. My cousin shut himself in his room and ignored anyone. Fortunately, I finally succeeded in cleaning my cousin, and menstruation also changed her way of education.

If children are overindulged, they may lead a muddled life like Feifei, starve to death like that unbearable college student, and even end up under pressure.

"Stop doing it and go home" is a moment of complete depression and relief from pain, but what happens next?

My parents are at home. What if one day after your parents retired for a hundred years, no one ever said to you, "Stop working and go home"?

Carved eagle Xue Fei is also facing the test of being thrown to death alive. The mother eagle broke most of the bones of the young eagle's wings and pushed them down from a height.

How many young eagles have become tragic sacrifices to fly, but the mother eagle will not stop this behavior. Although the eagle mother has painful tears in her eyes, at the same time, she is also building the blue sky of the young eagle's life.

Carved eagle's wings have very strong bone regeneration ability. After being broken, they can still endure severe pain and fly high. The wings will soon heal, and the healed wings will be stronger than the phoenix nirvana.

Don't let "stop doing it and go home" ruin your children. Go out and break in. Life is hard.

(Jane Baoyu's writing group punched in on the 26th)