Aunt Zhao: I was lucky enough to get it, and finally I returned it with interest.

Abstract: 1. A person, good luck comes one after another, and his status rises rapidly, which will produce diminishing marginal effects. The first is a surprise, the second is a matter of course, and then I feel wronged if I don't eat the pie that fell from the sky one day.

2. A child is like a dress. You can't expect it to be elegant and generous, and it can be worn at the annual meeting, and it can be worn comfortably without dry cleaning.

All luck in the world is charged, and those lucky ones who don't pay the money on time will be charged interest. Aunt Zhao, who achieved a social class jump by luck, why did she live so hard? Because this is the interest paid by luck at the beginning.

Baoyu said that his daughter was a pearl before marriage and became a fisheye after marriage. This is a bit biased. Women in the early days of Ye Nenhua are always good in every way. It takes some wind and rain, some experience and time to wash away the floating color on the surface to see the essence of the background color. Not to mention the frosty leaves and red leaves of grandmother Jia and granny Liu, Xifeng, You Shi and Li Wan also have their own styles. Only Aunt Zhao won't mix pearls with fish.

However, Aunt Zhao was also a dark horse with a professional title in the first half of her life. In the era of Miss Jia Min's "Golden Zun Yu Gui", Master Jia Zheng was bound to have such a first-class figure as honeymoon. However, people are not as good as heaven, clever efforts are in vain, and beautiful beauty is empty and lonely. In the last round of aunt competition, Zhao won.

Aunt Zhao, as one of the only two aunts around Jia Zheng, not only has both children and friends, but also has a very good popularity: Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang, the husband and wife get along more like leaders of a meeting, and when they enter Aunt Zhao's house, it seems that they have taken off their suits and changed their slippers when they come home from work, and they are relaxed and casual.

Judging from her upbringing and temperament, Aunt Zhao is far from the standard of a first-class girl. She wants to be in the same column as Xiaohong Si Er at most, and has never seen the world with Master. She is unique in the Jia family. No one has a backer, not Mrs. Wang's dowry, not Jia's big girl. According to her birth status, she is not qualified to be an aunt candidate. Perhaps by chance, I had an opportunity similar to "Little Red Pour Tea" and was attracted by Jia Zheng.

Aunt Zhao's fisheye was also about the luster of pearls. Looking at her young daughter, you can imagine that she was quite beautiful in her prime. Her stupidity was called innocence at that time; She was a little angry, and for a time she was called hot-tempered; She was mean, and at that time she was called unruly and willful; She was uneasy about her room, and at that time her heart was higher than the sky; At that time, she was called rubbing sand in her eyes-she was a cottage version of Qingwen.

Such a lively and cheerful woman with a big belly and pure charm must have fatal attraction to an adult man with depressed heart and dull marriage. Tired of Mrs. Wang's dullness, such liveliness can make Jia Zheng move more.

However, for Mrs. Wang, cheating on her husband's feelings and accepting concubinage at home are two different things. Look at how Mrs. Wang later defended the girl who was close to her son, and you will know how painful this incident once made her.

Mrs. Wang's maid Jinchuan has always had a good relationship between master and servant. Just because I played an ambiguous joke with Baoyu, I immediately fanned my mouth and was expelled from the house.

When Wang Shanbao told Mrs. Wang about Qingwen's dark appearance, she said, "That girl is more beautiful than others and gave birth to a Qiaozui Zhang. She dresses like a beautiful woman every day. She can say ordinary things in front of people and is better at pinching her fingers. She just cursed with two enchanting eyes ... "The key words" history ","eloquence ","glad eye "and" cursing "really aroused Mrs. Wang's new hatred.

Until the arraignment of four children, "although it is not half as good as Qingwen, it is somewhat beautiful, depending on its character and shrewdness, and its clothes are different." It's Shui Xiu again, because of his cleverness.

What kind of psychological trauma makes Mrs. Wang so abnormal and hates smart, beautiful and feminine little maids? Unless she has suffered losses and lost on such a girl, this girl is probably Aunt Zhao.

When Aunt Zhao was attracted by Jia Zheng, the president of Rong Guofu was Jia Mu. Jia Mu is a talented woman and her married life is very happy. (Zhang Daoshi said Baoyu, "I think this description of my brother's figure, his words and deeds, how can it be exactly the same as lord protector!" The profound reason why Baoyu was favored by Grandmother Jia was explained in one sentence. There is no deep friendship between Jia Mu and her late husband. How can she care so much about her grandchildren who look like him? ), it must be a tolerant mother and leader.

Therefore, for his son's favorite aunt Zhao, Jia should have no preconceived prejudice and hostility, so Aunt Zhao rose several levels and became half the master of the Jia family. Who knows that he was lucky enough to come to Jia Zheng's side and gave birth to a pair of children one after another, so he opened his face and made him an aunt, respectable and honorable.

Mrs. Wang is a well-behaved woman, naturally virtuous, but the more depressed she is, the more ugly she is. Aunt Zhao is shallow and stupid, young and proud, and arrogant. Why can't Mrs. Wang do something about her? It soon made the whole family hate ghosts, and even Jia felt that such a woman could not raise Jia's daughter, so she gave her daughter to Mrs. Wang. The wall fell down and everyone pushed. Since the old lady didn't like it, everyone was jealous and resentful of Aunt Zhao's good luck for no reason, and naturally took the opportunity to attack. Aunt Zhao became what You Shi called a "bitter son".

A person's fate takes a turn for the worse, good luck comes one after another, and his status rises rapidly, which will produce diminishing marginal effects. At first, he was surprised and happy. At one moment, he felt that he should take it for granted. At the other moment, he felt that he had not eaten the pie that fell from the sky, and he was wronged. Therefore, the more unprovoked good luck, the more wisdom balance is needed. Aunt Zhang Zhao is a girl with shallow knowledge and simple mind, so the feeling of being owed will accompany her all her life.

If she adds comedy to the elegant life of the Grand View Garden, people from Mrs. Wang to Fang Guan and the Wu family will despise her, have a psychological balance and entertain themselves after dinner. There are still places worthy of sympathy, so they colluded with Ma Daopo and poisoned Baoyu and Xifeng with witchcraft, making her a poisonous woman completely. However, this farce is very similar to Aunt Zhao's psychosexuality, so if Ma Daopo really has this line, why not ask her for some cloth for shoes? ?

Furthermore, although Aunt Zhao was promoted to be an aunt, her pattern and demeanor always stayed at the level of a third-class girl, and she never went any further. I grew twenty years old in vain, my appearance did not stay in youth, but my knowledge stagnated.

So, in the eyes of readers, she is like this.

Every time I fly around like a dog, I end up in despair, and every time I make a decent living, I am humiliated. Her popularity is poor, and no one treats her like a serious master. In her eyes, the servant girl and the servant girl are all "powder heads I bought" and disdain to associate. I haven't seen any of her friends except Ma Daopo, a wicked female rascal.

The real tragedy of her sensitive aunt Zhao lies in her poor parent-child relationship. She has a son and a daughter, but she has never been happy.

My daughter was raised by Mrs. Wang from an early age and followed her grandmother when she grew up. Grandma Jia is an old man with vision. She knows that men can stand out by their own efforts. Even if you are unmarried, you can be the best if you are ambitious and willing to work hard. If the daughter's family is poor and she can't find a good husband, she can only be lonely for a lifetime. At present, the Jia family is all the black sheep, or rely on their daughter to support the portal.

Education and growth environment are very important for personal growth. Compared with Jia Huan, the son raised by Aunt Zhao, she became an elegant, talented and intelligent lady. ?

Having such a phoenix-like daughter should have been Aunt Zhao's pride and happiness, but it was actually Aunt Zhao's pain. For Aunt Zhao, who is socially isolated and self-abased, she needs not only excellent and accomplished children to satisfy her vanity and pursuit of power and wealth, but also a caring child to satisfy her needs of love and being loved. Understanding, support and affirmation of children are equally important.

However, this matter is old and difficult. Just like a dress, you can't expect it to be elegant and refined, and it can be worn at the annual meeting, and it is comfortable and can be worn and kicked without dry cleaning.

Because there is no dependence, there is no mother-daughter affinity between her and Tanchun. The education Tanchun received from childhood made her grow into two people with completely different values from Aunt Zhao. When such a mother and daughter come together because of blood, conflict is inevitable.

Tanchun's values make it difficult for her to identify with Aunt Zhao. Like Bao Dai, she despises Aunt Zhao's levity, stupidity and levity, but she can't treat it as a joke as easily as they do. She can't support Aunt Zhao emotionally, but her efforts have brought better living space for Aunt Zhao and Jia Huan. Lian Ping also said that she refused to make jade bottles for mice. From top to bottom at home, I am still willing to give Aunt Zhao enough respect for the sake of the three girls.

Feeling suspicious, a pack of jasmine powder, even Jia Huan said, this is not bad, she can rise to the height of "watching people eat vegetables", extremely excited and manic, and roll around with girls like flying.

Tanchun's shoes for Baoyu are not life care, but socialization. Handmade products are expensive, not for one person. At the beginning of tanchun, it is time to establish prestige. The first thing is about my biological mother, Aunt Zhao. Maids are waiting for jokes and don't give directions. But with Tanchun's sensitivity, how can you step on this mine? This is really not to look down on Aunt Zhao, but to change Aunt Zhou. It is estimated that Tanchun is also disposed of as usual.

But for Aunt Zhao, she can't understand Tanchun. Her daughter is not close to her, but to Mrs. Wang. If you have time to make shoes for Baoyu, there will be no brother Jia Huan. She was looked down upon by everyone in Jiafu, but her daughter became a phoenix that everyone can't underestimate. She comes from the same root. How can you live such a beautiful life? Since you can have this kind of scenery, you should pull us forward together. You are in power, and I deserve to be taken care of and benefited. If I don't get any benefits and follow your daughter and mother, I will drag you into my mire to share life and death.

Li Wan urged, "How can you say that, girl?" That's true, but you can't say it in front of many maids in the conference room, you can only say it behind closed doors. So TanChun busy distinguish, "who am I pulling? Whose girl is pulling slaves? " This is another thorn in Aunt Zhao's heart.

Aunt Zhao always emphasizes the blood relationship and the hardship of pregnancy in October, which means that she is entitled to ask her daughter to return. Tan Chun often denies the relationship between mother and daughter in the social sense by social norms, in order to get rid of the control and demands of Aunt Zhao. The more advantageous the daughter is, the more she wants to take it into her own hands. The more capable a daughter is, the less easily she is controlled.

Broken by the blood relatives of the family, Tanchun chose to marry far away-with Tanchun's character, she always felt that it was her style to invite and kiss herself like Zhaojun. Being born in a family disappointed her, so she reluctantly drew a line with them. In that era when there were no internet, mobile phones, telephones and other means of communication, and there were no planes, high-speed trains and other means of transportation, she lost contact with her family like a kite. In fact, we don't have to worry about tanchun. Wherever she goes, she will live a good life. Aunt Zhao, who really lost this daughter, may find that this daughter, who has never been close, has been giving her the greatest care in her way.

Besides, Jia Huan, my son grew up beside Aunt Zhao, and there should be a closer relationship than Tanchun! The relationship between Jia Huan and Aunt Zhao is indeed closer than Tanchun, but there is no warmth at all. The key is that Jia Huan is a copy of Aunt Zhao. "The characters are wretched and desolate." Except his mother, he can't find the same kind in Jiafu.

Jia Huan refused to pay, saying that Yinger had set him up, and Baoyu drove him back. Aunt Zhao spat, "Who told you to come to the stage?" Dirty and shameless thing! Where is stubbornness? Who let you get away? You're bored! "We look at the relationship between Aunt Zhao and her mother from this small incident: First, the child was wronged outside, and the mother did not comfort and care, only cursed. Second, blindly instill hatred education in children without asking clear facts.

So Jia Huan grew up into a cruel and vicious child without any accident. You see, he scalded Baoyu with hot oil and blinded his eyes. Sue Baoyu black in front of Jia Zheng and seize the opportunity; Jia's maid loves Jia Huan so much that she only has a crush on Jia Huan, and she is a confidante, if not a lover. Cai Xia was persecuted by Lai Wang, and Cai Xia turned to Jia Huan for help. Even Aunt Zhao advised Jia Huan to fight for it, but Jia Huan thought it was just a girl. Naturally, something good happened after that. Not many people are fickle to this extent, which is really disgusting. Especially at that time, Jia Huan was only a child, but his heart was so vicious. It's absolutely impossible for Aunt Zhao to count on such a person to decline in Jiafu. With such a son around, Aunt Zhao's life will only get more and more sad.

There is a good saying that all lucky people in the world have to charge, and those lucky people who don't pay on time will be charged interest. Aunt Zhao, who achieved a social class jump by luck, why did she live so hard? Because this is the interest paid by luck at the beginning.