Ode to Joy: Fan's experience is very poor, but why do some people think that she is not worthy of sympathy?

Fan, 30 years old. Hr, a senior HR in a foreign company, is worldly and courageous. I want to marry a rich man, but I like that she has no money and rich people don't look down on her. Seeing a beautiful woman become a leftover woman, she can only be braver on a blind date.

This introduction is really incisive. In just a few words, Fan's personality and predicament were accurately expounded.

Fan's first scene was to dress herself up for a blind date. It's ironic to think about it. This should be called: "there is no princess's life, but there is a princess's illness." The role of Fan is still controversial. People who like her think she is very attractive and courageous, and her family is miserable and worthy of sympathy. People who don't like her think she is money-worshipping, hypocritical and duplicitous. Let's talk separately.

I like Fan Meisheng's little friends.

1 Mei Sheng, a fan, has a high face value and is mature and charming.

There is no doubt about it. In the scene where he appeared, Rulu handled it very well, proudly raised his head and said in a charming tone, "I have material, I have goods, and you deserve it." It is enough to see that Fan is confident in his appearance.

Moreover, Fan Neng's attention is naturally due to the fact that in men's eyes, she is a real beauty.

Everyone still remembers that after Fan jumped ship, Qu Xiaoyu said in the elevator, "I forgot to congratulate you, you should have gone to the city center long ago, otherwise Bai Chang looks so good", which proves that Fan's face value is really high.

Fan is a brave man.

When the little earthworm was deceived by Bai, Fan ran directly to smash Bai's home. The seemingly reckless behavior just reflects that she may be desperate for her friends.

When Andy was framed as a mistress, Mei Sheng, a fan, defended her online. When Andy collapsed, she kept silent all night and "abandoned" Wang Baichuan for her sister many times.

Even when Qu Xiaoyu, who she didn't like very much, collapsed because of her parents' divorce, she would patiently comfort and enlighten her.

When the sisters on the 22nd floor have conflicts, she can always play the role of a brave big sister, making everyone more and more harmonious.

Fan is sophisticated and has high emotional intelligence.

After all, he is a senior hr, and he has practiced in the workplace for so many years, and he has already developed a critical eye.

When the little earthworm excitedly showed off the white dating news, she accurately analyzed, "If a man really wants to ask you out, then advance, which will reserve time for girls." .

Her high emotional intelligence is still mentioned. Even if she saw through it, she never said anything. When she was in junior high school with her friends, she never crossed the line. She cares a lot, but she always has her own discretion. She did everything her friends could do, whether it was earthworm, Guan Yu's emotional problems or Andy's emotional breakdown, but she never asked more questions and gave her friends enough space.

Of course, for the friends who don't like Fan, the reason is naturally sufficient.

1 Fan Mei Sheng is vain and worships money.

This is quite obvious, so Qu Xiaoyu has been sarcastically calling her a "fishing girl". Dress up beautifully and go to various bar dances to "pinch the tip".

It was because of her vanity that Qu played with her.

A detail in the play is well represented. After work, she obviously wanted to go to the vegetable market to buy food and cook, but told her colleagues that she wanted to eat Japanese food with her boyfriend.

Fan Sheng is too vain about beauty. She can't accept a man who doesn't have a car or a house, so even if she has a crush on Wang Baichuan, she will subconsciously deny it. The most outrageous thing is that when she went to a private villa, she was exposed by Qu Xiaoyu and humiliated Wang Baichuan for her vanity.

Fan has no independent personality.

I always encourage myself to find a bachelor with a house and a car. In fact, I just want someone to lean on. I hope men are not as strong as Andy.

Later, when all kinds of changes happened at home, Fan became timid and left all the difficulties behind. Sister-in-law shamelessly left Fan Fu at Wang Baichuan's parents' house. She was not worried about the mood of the Wangs' parents, but forced Wang Baichuan to help her solve the problem.

In fact, during their time together, Fan has been pushing to become rich. For example, on New Year's Eve, Wang Baichuan was forced to call a customer on the New Year's Eve. It was also because of her various pressures that Wang Baichuan finally went bankrupt.

The real separation is also because of too much dependence, because the other party does not add a name to the real estate license and loses a sense of security.

Fan Meisheng is indecisive and timid.

Perhaps this character is inevitable. In such a patriarchal family, parents' brothers and sisters haunt her like vampires.

When her father needed 6.5438+10,000 yuan for surgery, she was helpless. When Qu Xiaoyu forced Fan's mother to sell the house, she still couldn't make up her mind. I have never fought back against my sister-in-law's unreasonable demands.

In the second part, when Fan's brother sued her and received a court summons, she was panicked, scared and timid. Frightened and even incoherent, I completely exposed my cowardly self to my sisters on the 22nd floor.

Fan Meisheng always makes people feel sympathy and anger. Sadness of family background, parents who prefer sons to daughters, brothers and sisters like vampires. But she compromised again without any resistance or hesitation. Trying to rely entirely on men to get out of trouble with vanity and hypocrisy.

Of course, everyone has different feelings when watching this drama, and their evaluation of Mei Sheng is also different. Would you like to talk about your own views?