Why do many boys delete their contacts directly after their confession fails?

I heard a joke: a boy in the computer department failed to show his love for a girl in the department many times and decided to pursue another one. The girl felt very angry and asked the boy why. The boy said, "What would you do if you tried to turn on a computer, but it didn't work?" The girl said, "Change another one."

After joking, I also understand the truth of this joke: that is, when boys pursue girls, they have a strong purpose. If the confession fails and is clearly told that there is no chance, many boys will choose to "change one", and because this is useless, many boys will choose to delete it directly.

Deleting the object of failure in confession is also a kind of protection for boys' self-esteem. Many boys have inexplicable self-esteem, just like many girls have inexplicable blx! Some boys like to show off their record of picking up girls and several girlfriends they have talked with, and regard the record of girls being dumped as a sign of failure. Therefore, it is not difficult to explain why many boys will delete the confession object after the confession fails, because he feels that such a girl, if she still stays in the contact information, will have a bad influence on herself.

Of course, it is also a hard-to-get strategy to delete the confession object after the confession fails. If a boy is still nice to that girl after failing to confess, he may be regarded as a spare tire by the girl, so the chance of becoming a frequent visitor is very small. Moreover, what you can't get is always the best. If you let that girl know that she doesn't have much importance to herself, it's also a retreat strategy, which may make the girl notice herself!