My relatives and friends advised me to get a divorce. What should I do?

Tell a story to the landlord. I have an uncle. He once had a girlfriend who talked for five years in college. She is generous and clever, but a little headstrong. When they graduated, my aunt did well in school, and the school wanted to give her a postgraduate degree. She gave up for her uncle. They were not together when they were assigned. Then her aunt said that if she couldn't be together, she would like to follow her uncle and eat radish and cabbage. Later, through the efforts of their families, they finally worked in a city. Then I got married, and then I was happy. But when my uncle was ill, my uncle's mother, sister and aunt took care of my uncle together, and the friction came out. Finally, my uncle's mother and sister both said that they wanted a divorce, and they also included the charge that my aunt bullied my uncle. My uncle's original grievance against my aunt broke out, and then they quarreled and divorced. My uncle is married again. This wife has no education, no job and is not as smart and generous as my aunt. Everyone secretly regretted the divorce. But the days are not over. My aunt also left the city where we live, took the postgraduate entrance examination again, and took their daughter with her. Now she is in a good hospital in Shanghai with a good level. My uncle's family has added another daughter, which is not as beautiful and lovely as before. My uncle wants to pay alimony to his original daughter, and now my wife has no job. He is under great pressure and living conditions are difficult.

In fact, in marriage, if the wife is a little coquettish and willful, the husband-in-law will discuss divorce. Mom and dad just got married and quarreled. My parents' relatives once said that she thought she was willful because she was beautiful and went to divorce her. Anyway, she is not a yellow flower girl. Divorced. Find another good one! Mom hasn't forgotten it yet, and she often mentions it. Dad always said I couldn't be so mindless. I live with you, not them. I have witnessed my mother's efforts at home for so many years. If it weren't for her strength and kindness, dad's life and career would not be good. To tell the truth, my husband's parents also said I was too headstrong, but after my husband told them how good I was to him, they said nothing now. The point is. If you love her, you should stand firm. After all, you will spend your life with her. My father and husband both said this: every family member will have his own family, but my wife and I are the closest relatives for life. Mom can't help it, and neither can my wife. I am a man and can only mediate contradictions. In addition, people who love you want you to be happy, so you should let them see that you are happy with your wife, so they can't.