Why did 43-year-old Ruby Lin build a middle-aged comfort wall?

It is said that the years are quiet, but it secretly began to compete for posts ... breaking the quiet and slow-paced inn life, and every housekeeper is trying to earn income for the position of "ultimate partner".

I must remind Ruby Lin here. She is really not a competitive person! It's not easy to be eliminated until the second one.

When Tamia Liu announced the elimination of personnel, he was also straightforward: "You (Ruby Lin) should feel that we are too sympathetic."

Liu Tao is too familiar with her easy-going and hard-working personality.

When you need her, she will travel with you and talk about mountains and water together like an old friend you have known for a long time; When you don't need her, give you enough space and keep a sense of distance just right.

It is these comforts that wrap Ruby Lin, so she doesn't want to compete with her brothers and sisters at all.

She also said that she was past the age of hard work, and it was difficult for her to be as passionate about anything as Randy and Lei Lei. "Just do what I can, and if I can't, there's nothing I can do."

Ruby Lin-a typical "middle-aged" worker.

Although Ruby Lin's debut as a housekeeper in the third season surprised many people, with the opening of the inn and the reception of guests, Ruby Lin's "muddling along" state in the whole process really doomed her to temporarily lose the qualification of ultimate partner.

On the first day of the inn's opening, everyone was expecting their first guest, but Ruby Lin was lying in bed brushing his mobile phone, feeling no sense of crisis, and muttering, "You can have a rest ~"

When Adi and Lee's PPT scheme was selected by the guests and she was left alone in the room, she was also worried. On the contrary, Leo, who was left to the end like her, kept asking, "When will it be me?" Why is there no candidate for my PPT? "

Ruby Lin was at a loss when he finally welcomed their guests.

After staying in his comfort zone for a long time, suddenly someone broke in. Ruby Lin was shocked and asked the guest the same question three times. The most ridiculous thing is that after Tamia Liu mentioned it, she said she didn't remember it!

(Sure enough, baby brain for three years? )

She seems to be a typical middle-aged person in the workplace. Her position is neither high nor low, she goes to work on time and won't compete with young people for opportunities. She will survive 6 pm and leave with her bag.

This was also reflected when she and Ray Ma went out to inspect the Zhou Bianyou Hotel. After arriving at the ancient village, Ray Ma took photos to see the surrounding environment, preparing for the PPT presentation. On the other hand, Ruby Lin is chatting with the villagers and laughing happily.

After returning to the inn, Leo and Hans Zhang, who also visited the desert project together, prepared a PPT according to their own styles and ideas, while Ruby Lin was very rational and confident: "You are all excellent, I can't do it." "No means no, I can't learn now."

I wouldn't say it's honest, but it's too ambitious for my sister, isn't it? !

Every time I see her super calm, I really hate iron not to produce! )

In fact, Ruby Lin really didn't take the competition of the ultimate partner seriously, and she didn't care whether she wanted to be the first. Ruby Lin, 43, has built a "middle-aged comfort fence" for himself by enjoying life, providing help to his guests as much as he can and interacting with them in his comfort zone.

When he became famous at the age of 22, Ruby Lin created a classic image in many people's minds. Since then, producers and studios have dabbled in it and made great achievements in the entertainment circle.

Among the actresses who became popular with her at the same time, Ruby Lin was not a big hit, and she successfully passed her career as an actress. On 20 16, she suddenly announced her love affair with her long-time friend Wallace Huo. After giving birth to her daughter in the second year of marriage, her role changed from an actress in front of the screen to a good wife and mother who returned to life in a low-key manner.

Perhaps it is also for this reason that Ruby Lin has been "lax" for a long time. Being content with the status quo, it is really difficult for her to find new motivation and passion like Leo and others. In other words, her life has made her very satisfied and depressed, and there is no need to look for a new direction.

Some people say that in the "comfortable period of middle age", everyone will inevitably become a vast existence.

But Hans Zhang won't.

Hans Zhang-moistens things silently.

Zhang Hans hid himself too well.

I believe many people, like Miss Entertainment, pay more attention to Hans Zhang's TV series than Hans Zhang himself. The main reason is that he is so low-key that he hardly appears in variety shows.

Now when I see him in the third season of Dear Inn, I can't find any other words to describe him except surprise!

35 years old, just 10 years after his famous work was broadcast. At the beginning, that teenager had already grown into a mature man who could be independent. With entering the ranks of middle-aged actors, Zhang Hans knows more and more how to calm down and do things well.

After watching the third season of Dear Inn, the audience must remember that Hans Zhang was late for the meeting and went his own way, and Tamia Liu was dissatisfied with him many times because of this problem.

Under normal circumstances, under the instructions of the boss, employees will definitely admit their mistakes or make improvements, but Hans Zhang will not do so. For example, in the third phase, Hans Zhang prepared breakfast for the guests and left them for dinner, which led to the unsatisfied follow-up needs of the guests. Zhang Hans doesn't feel that he has done anything wrong.

According to his logic, the housekeeper can't help individuals 24 hours a day, and he also needs to have breakfast at that time to ensure his energy in the morning.

Regardless of whether Zhang Hans' ideas are right or not, he does have his own ideas there. He knows exactly what he wants and what he wants to do, instead of being in a trance and muddling along.

So many times, Zhang Hans seems to have made no effort. In fact, all the questions and obstacles have been thought clearly in his mind, and things have been successfully completed unconsciously.

"Bargaining is fast and accurate, and the network is wide and stable." It is a perfect description of Hans Zhang. Even you can only get a 15% discount on camel experience, and Hans Zhang directly gives you a 30% discount.

600 yuan, a candlelight dinner project by the Yellow River, sold two tables directly. He will not only haggle hard, but also dare to make some suggestions at the right time, so that many guests are willing to pay for this high-priced project.

This is also inseparable from the huge interpersonal network established by John after he came to the inn. The opposite boss, Haisheng, is like a brother. Whether it's local businessmen or tourists, Hans Zhang will talk to them and establish good relations. To this end, he specially built a group, saying "love you" to the group friends every day, and naturally developed potential business opportunities in emotional interaction.

Other housekeepers and even bosses don't have the same business mind as Zhang Hans.

When Ruby Lin saw Zhang Hans set up a group to manage interpersonal relationships, he kept saying, "He cheated! Without this. " Although it's a joke, it's really a comfortable crowd where most people live a mediocre life and see a person have a life he envies.