The teacher posted photos of children sleeping in a group chat and criticized them by name. Parents were angry: You are not worthy of being a teacher.

Text/Xiaoxue’s mother

When going to school, the thing that many children fear most is that the teacher calls their parents. In addition to feeling embarrassed in front of their classmates, they will inevitably be "bambooed" by their parents when they return home. Fried pork" was beaten violently.

In fact, children will inevitably make mistakes. If they are not very serious and do not make mistakes often, the teacher can use a gentler method to deal with them, which not only gives the children a lesson but also gives them self-esteem. This is the original intention of education. .

Primary school students will make mistakes more or less in class, such as zoning out, spinning pens, playing with erasers, and of course dozing off. However, most children also have their heads down and are drowsy, and rarely Some children dare to sleep on the table openly.

What will happen when a student boldly sleeps on the table and meets a teacher with a hot temper?

Isn’t there a teacher who found a student in his class sleeping on the table during class? This made the teacher very angry. He took a photo of the scene with his mobile phone and then kept a straight face. Wake up the student and ask him outside the classroom alone.

Faced with the teacher’s questioning, the child who made the mistake lowered his head and remained silent. This attitude made the teacher even more annoyed, as he felt that the child was questioning the authority of his teacher, and this kind of thing did not happen twice at once. I disciplined him many times, but the child refused to change and fell asleep in the class.

The angry teacher simply posted a photo of the child sleeping in the parent group, and then named the child's parents: "Your child is sleeping in class. Do you think this is ridiculous? I hope the parents will cooperate!" "

I thought that the problem could be solved by asking the parents. Unexpectedly, the parents of the children did not accept the criticism humbly. Instead, they angrily asked in the group: "Teacher, what are your intentions in front of so many parents? Are you deliberately trying to embarrass me? "Where is your teacher's morality?" Even at the end, he scolded "You are not worthy of being a teacher"!

This wave of mutual hostility between parents and teachers suddenly brought the atmosphere in the group to a climax. Many parents stood up to watch the fun. Everyone held different opinions. Some felt that teachers should consider the needs of children and parents. In terms of face, some people think that parents are irresponsible. They have obviously made many mistakes and should take the blame if they refuse to change despite repeated admonitions.

For teachers, managing children’s mistakes is a “partial responsibility”, but children’s growth and education are not the teacher’s business alone. Parents also have a great responsibility, and it is impossible to do everything. It's the teacher who does it.

Especially this child does not fall asleep once or twice in class, and the teacher reminds the parents many times, so the parents have more responsibilities. But the teacher's approach was also somewhat inappropriate and his behavior was a bit reckless.

From a child's point of view, children also have self-esteem. If they are criticized by teachers in the parent group and their photos are taken, other parents and children will inevitably discuss and joke about it. , which makes it difficult for children to hold their heads up in the class in the future. The teacher's methods of educating children are a bit excessive. The original purpose was to better correct mistakes, but now it has caused greater harm to the children.

What makes parents angry is that they "lose face" and the first thing they think about is not the child's mistakes. There is also something wrong with the parents' approach. Both teachers and parents think "too little" about their children. ".

First, study more in school and less after school.

Many parents report that their children spend hours doing homework after school. It is not that they don’t want their children to go to bed early, but that they do not want their children to go to bed early. Because the homework cannot be completed, and the child has to get up early in the morning and does not have enough sleep time, the child naturally falls asleep in class.

The same child falls asleep in class, his listening efficiency becomes poor, and he needs to spend more time making up for it after class. Instead, he learns in the wrong way, so it is recommended that teachers allow children to complete their studies at school. , try not to delay it until after school.

Second, parents should supervise their children more

Part of the reason why children fall asleep in class is due to parents' neglect of management. It is more common for children to play with mobile phones now, and parents are tired from work during the day. Nowadays, I am used to staying up late and playing with my mobile phone at night, and even go to bed late with my children.

In this case, children play with mobile phones and fall asleep late at night, wake up so early during the day, and need to concentrate fully in class, so they are naturally prone to dozing off. Therefore, parents also need to supervise their children more and develop good habits in their children. Sleeping habits.