Talk about "strong thinking" and "weak thinking"

A very classic TV series "The Way of Heaven", the original work is "The Distant Savior", there is a discussion about cultural attributes. There are three levels of society in perspective: technology, system, and culture. As small as a person, as large as a country or a nation, any kind of destiny is the product of that cultural attribute. A strong culture creates strong people, and a weak culture creates weak people. This is a law, which can also be understood as the way of heaven. It does not depend on human will.

Recently, I have gained a deeper understanding of the thinking of the strong and the thinking of the weak. I found that people with a strong mind are all pioneering personalities, have strong problem-solving abilities, can analyze problems objectively and rationally when encountering problems, and truly take responsibility like an adult, do not blame others at will, let alone put their hopes aside. Place your trust in others. Such people, whether they are boys or girls, will never have a bad life, relationship, or career. There may be some setbacks and challenges, but they can face anything calmly when it comes. Yes, that mentality is particularly important.

On the other hand, people with weak thinking may have never been the master of their own lives since they were young. They listen to their parents at home, rely on others when they go out, and drift with the flow of their own lives. Even major life choices about oneself will obey others and be pushed forward by life. There are no long-term friends in life, because no one really likes people with a demanding personality, and they do not have any initiative in relationships. They become a screw at the mercy of others at work but will never be reused. In the final analysis, it is actually your own weak thinking that dominates. When something goes wrong, I blame the world and my parents, but don't look for the problem within myself. When I see a slightly better person, I want to pounce on them, hoping to gain a sense of dependence and sustenance. You are always looking for a savior for yourself, but you never think about the problem that no one can be your savior except yourself.

He who saves himself will be saved by God. If you never believe in yourself, no one will be willing to believe in you.

I was shocked. The ugly duckling who had been ridiculed by the mainstream media and the public for many years, the first-generation Internet celebrity who made a name for himself with his ugly and shocking remarks, gradually went to the United States with his firm belief. He started as a pedicure worker and relied on his own She worked hard with both hands, applied for college, and counterattacked to become the inspirational queen. On the other hand, you and I, who are always watching jokes and watching the excitement in front of the screen, ask ourselves, do we have the courage, determination, action and fighting spirit to break the boat? So, who is the real joke?

There is one kind of person I particularly dislike in life, that is, the kind of person who keeps talking about "our family is poor". As soon as this sentence comes out, I feel that the other person's whole person The aura suddenly becomes much weaker, especially for many parents. They may not realize how much psychological impact their mantra will have on their children. So why do we look at a person’s family of origin? Because this kind of subtle influence every day since childhood, the words, deeds, status, and spirit of the parents will have a great and long-term impact on the child. Many times, when you are Without even realizing it, you may have become your parents' copy machine.

Deliberate awareness and reshaping of beliefs in adulthood require considerable time and keen awareness. Therefore, we are not blaming the family of origin, but the impact is really profound. Many people just repeat the old ways of their parents in a state of ignorance, and then we will eventually become the kind of people we hate the most.

However, those who are not living well and use their family of origin as a reason and excuse for any problem they encounter are also typical people with a weak mentality. This kind of people are not uncommon in life. The kind of young people who complain that their parents cannot provide them with any resources or help, and cannot buy a house or a car for themselves when they are not living a satisfactory life in a big city, also have a real weak mentality.

There is another type of people who complain about the general environment. They always feel that they were born at the wrong time and did not catch up with the dividends of reform and opening up after the 1960s and 1970s, nor the dividends of buying a house after the 80s. I always feel that my poor performance is due to the bad environment. I also close my eyes and don’t watch the various short video bonuses, live broadcast bonuses, etc. that really belong to today’s young people. Therefore, we have an old saying that we should stay away from people who complain when they open their mouths. This is actually true.

A person with a strong mentality, no matter what trump card he has, he can do his best to create new opportunities and situations for himself one after another. He never pays attention to what he lacks. Instead, he is grateful that he already has a lot. He pays attention to various new opportunities and constantly creates new situations for life. Even if you haven't seen this person for a few days, you will always have the feeling of being treated with admiration after seeing him for three days. Because the cells in his body are always being renewed and replaced. He is always positive, optimistic, and has a high energy level, not because his life is smooth sailing, but because he uses his wisdom to deal with crises and emergencies one after another.

Therefore, when we carefully observe the people around us who have strong thinking and weak thinking, we will find that even if their current situations look similar, they will eventually take completely different paths in life. In the final analysis, everything is created by the mind, and destiny is your own choice. Therefore, from now on, we might as well be more aware of the attributes of strong thinking and weak thinking in ourselves. Only by becoming aware can change be possible. The most terrifying state for a human being is not knowing oneself, that is, spending one's life in a state of ignorance.