"Daughter-in-law, don't say that your mother-in-law bought the house from now on. Where will I put my face?" What do you think of such a mother-in-law?

My mother-in-law is a very evil person. I only discovered this after I got married. My husband and I dated for three years before getting married. During this time, she had been pretending very well. Every time I go, they entertain me warmly, cook some of my favorite dishes, and then plan with me what kind of beautiful blueprint we will have after we get married. Not long after I got married, I discovered that my mother-in-law was a petty person and had double standards for my daughter-in-law and my own daughter. Fortunately, we didn’t live together, so we never had any head-on conflicts. The real conflict broke out when my mother-in-law came to serve me during my confinement period.

One time when I went back to my mother-in-law’s house, we went to the supermarket together. My aunt’s children were also there at the time, so we went together as a family. The little girl was over four years old, and her mother-in-law doted on her very much. She bought her many snacks at the supermarket. When she saw her favorite bread in the tasting box, she kept eating it without leaving any bread. The salesperson in the supermarket looked at them with disdain, which I thought was bad. My mother-in-law rolled her eyes at me and said, what do children know? If she likes to eat, just let her eat.

The loose sugar was clearly weighed and labeled, but my mother-in-law opened it and grabbed two big handfuls while the salesperson wasn't paying attention. When the child said he wanted to eat, he opened the snacks before paying for them and gave them to the child. After eating, he threw the bag away... He even said to the child with a smile, "Do you think grandma is awesome?" Saved several more bucks. My husband couldn't stand it anymore and said a few words to her, which made her mother-in-law unhappy all the way.

I was speechless after this trip to the supermarket. Being exposed to such things will teach bad things to children. I just don’t understand. My father-in-law and my husband are both honest and honest people who don’t take advantage of others. How come the mother-in-law who lives with them is like this? After that, I rarely went back. Except for necessary occasions, I resisted contact with my mother-in-law from the bottom of my heart.

I started to take maternity leave when I was more than eight months pregnant. My husband was worried that I would be alone at home, so he asked my mother-in-law to come over and stay with me. I felt quite unhappy, but my husband meant well. He said that he would feel relieved if someone was with me. The next day, my mother-in-law came with a lot of things. First, she changed the new sheets and pillows prepared for her, saying that she was not used to sleeping. I put on the old bedding from my hometown. When I saw it, there were several patches on it. There was no such thing in my hometown.

My mother-in-law has been here for two days, and I have a headache. Every day I complain about not taking a shower all the time, not using the washing machine to wash clothes, and not eating so much fruit. Then he picked up some bottles and cans from the garbage and stuffed them all over the house, quickly making the house messy. She has been here for four or five days, and she always looks displeased with me. The relationship is very tense, as if we are about to quarrel if we are not careful. I cannot tell my husband about this, for fear that he will worry.

I thought to myself, just be patient, it’s not a big deal anyway, just turn a blind eye, I’m going to give birth in a few days, this is my first child, it’s nothing From experience, I will still have to rely on her to take care of me when I am in confinement. I followed her in everything and avoided direct conflicts with her. Unexpectedly, a few days before I gave birth to the baby, the conflict broke out.

This afternoon, my mother-in-law went out for a walk, and when she came back she was very angry. She usually talks a lot when she comes back from outside, but she didn't say anything today. When she came back, she went into her own room and closed the door heavily. I was just wondering when the bedroom door opened with a bang. My mother-in-law suddenly came out and pointed at my nose and lectured me loudly, "Why did you tell the neighbors that this house was a dowry for your mother's family? You have made our family lose face. Is it possible that my son is a free-for-all? You bastard This woman is so vicious. Do you really want the neighbors to laugh at our family and make me unable to hold my head high here?

I was not happy when I heard this. This is the truth! The conditions were not good, and I didn’t force them to buy a house. Our family’s conditions were relatively better, so my parents paid for us to buy a wedding house. This is an undoubted fact. So what if others find out? ? Besides, I never mentioned this when I went out to chat with my neighbors!

I was quite angry, so I had a little quarrel with my mother-in-law, but it wasn’t really a quarrel.

I don't know how to quarrel, so I just retorted a few words at best. My mother-in-law immediately acted like a rogue and even sat on the floor and cried loudly. She said that I was unfilial and brought shame to their family. She was talking, my husband was off work. When she came back, her mother-in-law immediately changed her face, as if grasping at straws, she told her husband about the matter in a more aggravating manner. My husband was honest and honest, and gave me a wink, telling me to go back to the house to rest. I didn’t want my husband to be unable to get off the stage, so I obediently entered the house.

Through the bedroom door, I heard my husband say to my mother-in-law, "Mom, I told the neighbor aunt that this house was given to me as a dowry by my daughter-in-law's family. This is a fact. Our family's conditions are not good. You and I Dad is also in poor health and often has to take medicine and injections. Xiaohui’s family is not well off, but in order to make our lives easier in the future, they still scraped together to buy us a house. We must be grateful..."

Listening to such touching words, I really lamented that I did not marry the wrong person. At first, my parents, relatives and friends said that I could find someone with better conditions, but I still followed him without hesitation. Now it seems that this man I was not disappointed. After this incident, my mother-in-law restrained herself a lot and stopped dictating to me. As expected, her son's words were much more effective than mine.

I wish every woman who marries her husband’s family can live in harmony with her husband’s family in the future. The husband plays the biggest role in this. I hope that every husband can do his duty and coordinate the family relationship well.