How to change a too honest personality

Question 1: How to change the honest and introverted personality. How can we change defensiveness and shyness? Here are some suggestions for you:

1. Evaluate yourself correctly and build self-confidence

In daily study and life, you should think more about what you want to do; In situations, you should express yourself naturally and don't worry about whether others pay attention to you. When you talk to the other person, look at the other person and focus on the other person's eyes. This can increase your attention to the other person and reduce the other person's attention to you.

2. Look for opportunities and exercise yourself. Don't miss any opportunity to speak, such as saying hello to people you meet often but don't talk much, such as postmen, salesmen, etc.; when interacting with strangers, when you feel that there is a topic that interests you, express your opinions boldly and proactively, don't Consider what others think. Meet outsiders.

3. Chat with your friends often and pay attention to your conversation skills. In addition to work and life, you can also chat with her about interesting facts, jokes, and humor. If you persist for a long time, it will not only change your self-image and view of yourself, but of course it will also enhance your ability to interact with others.

4. Have a good attitude, love life, and cultivate various interests. If you want to sing, sing at the top of your lungs. If you want to laugh, laugh with your heart open. In your spare time, you can also participate in sports and entertainment activities with friends, such as playing ball, playing games, etc. This is an excellent way for you to exercise your energy and socialize. Don't worry about pauses during continuous speech, as pauses are a normal part of conversation. During a conversation, when you feel blushing, don't try to cover it up with any action. Doing so will make your face blush even more, further increasing your shyness. Thinking about shyness does not mean failure. It is simply due to mental stress, not an inability to cope with social activities.

5. Be good at relaxing tension. Using some calm and relaxing sentences and self-suggestion can often relieve tension and reduce psychological burden; you must have confidence in yourself at all times, and use inner words to encourage yourself from time to time: "I am great ”, “I behave well”, “People like me”.

6. Learn to control your worries. Try to think about the best in everything and look at the positive side. Pay attention to cultivating your own good emotions and emotions at ordinary times. I believe that most people treat themselves with trust and sincerity. Don't put yourself in an assumed environment of distrust and insincerity. In that way, you will always have a certain suspicion towards others. A kind of alertness. If you make mistakes occasionally or if you don't make mistakes, you are afraid that others will see through it. This will make you panic and make you even more shy. People can change many things in their personality through the power of will, and overcome negative psychology such as indecision, nervousness, timidity, etc. Some well-known actors, speakers, and teachers were timid and shy people in their youth, but later they were able to speak eloquently in public. This is because they realized that they had to overcome shyness to achieve results, rather than the unique advantages of the best. . If you prepare in advance, you will be able to answer questions with ease; if you memorize the content of the speech, you will be eloquent when giving a speech; if you start your speech with a loud voice, you will also end it with a bang. In addition to these "strategies" and "techniques", it is more important to cultivate your own abilities in all aspects. Because you have ability, you will have self-confidence, and you can overcome your inferiority complex and shyness.

7. Actively express your opinions and views at work, and speak out what you think is necessary without hesitation.

You said, "I have a sister across the door. I really want to get to know her. We have been neighbors for 10 years, but I have never talked to her. I feel nervous every time I see her. I I really want to get to know her, can you tell me what to do? What’s even weirder is, why am I nervous when I see her mother? "Since we are old neighbors, there are many very convenient conditions for you to get to know her. For example, find someone to borrow money and go to her house for a while. Once you get used to it, your nervousness and shyness will naturally calm down.

Question 2: How can we change our honest character? First of all, you must accept and recognize your personality, and you must know that introversion is not a bad personality, and introversion does not mean that you are not good at sociability.

Both introverts and extroverts have their own strengths and weaknesses. Secondly, learn to be good at giving full play to the advantages of your own character and be good at reducing the shortcomings of your character. Take a look at the following narrative, it will give you some hints: Introversion = bad personality, this is the view of many people, and it seems to have become a "final conclusion". Indeed, introverts are not good at talking and communicating, and are often in a lonely state. However, people's social attributes also make them want to be accepted, affirmed, respected, and appreciated by others, and they long for communication and integration between people. Therefore, introverts appear to be very reserved and closed-minded on the surface, but their psychological desires are very open. So introverts are often in the pain of a kind of contradiction. Many books introducing psychological adjustment and social skills talk about how introverts can overcome introversion. Although these books differ in specific content, they have one thing in common: they both deny introversion and must overcome it. In fact, as far as the introversion personality itself is concerned, it should be regarded as having both advantages and disadvantages. It should be classified as neutral and should not be crowned as "hateful" or "bad". However, many introverts hate their introversion. They hate that they are solitary and unsocial, they dare not show up in public, and they are timid and afraid of getting into trouble. It seems that all their troubles are due to their introverted personality. As everyone knows, introversion is just an appearance. The underlying reality is that they lack self-confidence, have no courage, are not good at communication, are too thin-skinned, etc. Introversion is just the external form of these problems, and its core is low self-esteem. Therefore, only introverts due to lack of self-confidence will have a negative attitude towards their introversion. In other words, their denial of their introverted personality is essentially a denial of themselves. It is precisely because of the confusion about the above-mentioned causal relationship that many introverts with a sense of self-denial blame all their problems on their introversion and try to fight with it. They force themselves to express themselves frequently in public places, interact with all kinds of people, and make themselves appear particularly eloquent. However, all of this actually still follows the same "line" of self-denial as before. Do you think this will have any good results? There was a young man who was introverted. He was afraid that others would think he was introverted and look down on him, so he deliberately appeared to be extroverted. When others talk together, he actually doesn't understand many topics at all, but he pretends to be very knowledgeable and talks with others. However, the result of this, apart from making him feel extremely tired and still not integrated into the group, did not make him feel any sense of gain or pride. It can be seen that many of the problems of introverts come from their denial of introversion and self, which makes them more introverted and inferior in self-esteem the more they try to overcome introversion. The reason is that they have made the mistake of "route and direction". On the contrary, if introverts can first accept their own personality, clarify their own advantages in life, actively work hard with a stable and down-to-earth mentality, find their own direction in life, constantly improve their life strength, and enrich their lives, then you Gradually, you will no longer care about whether you are introverted or not, because you have real confidence in yourself, including your own personality. At that time, you will interact with others naturally and affectionately, and express yourself freely and freely. Why should you still worry about being "introverted"? As soon as their thinking changes, introverts can discover many advantages of introversion. For example, introverts can observe and think more calmly, and are good at understanding other people's thoughts. Not having too many social activities gives them more time to study, and they are less influenced by popular ideas. Being more creative due to influence, having fewer but more solid friends, etc. Although the tortoise is slow, it can tell more about the situation on the road than the hare. And many things that seem to be shortcomings can often become advantages if viewed from a different angle and on another occasion. Before the invention of the stethoscope, doctors had to put their ears to the patient's chest to auscultate internal sounds. A young male doctor in France, Eric La, was shy and introverted by nature, and was particularly embarrassed to bury his face in the chest of a female patient for auscultation, so he invented the use of a bamboo tube for auscultation. After continuous improvement, it became what it is today. Widely used stethoscope. Therefore, introversion cannot prevent us from being successful-if we don't think of it as an obstacle. In fact, many successful people and many celebrities are introverts, but they are by no means self-denying introverts.

Of course, for the character weaknesses of many introverts, especially... >>

Question 3: How to change the character of an honest person 128 ways to change yourself

1. Don’t be aggressive or lethal when speaking. Don’t boast about your own abilities and don’t criticize others. You will naturally turn your enemies into friends.

2. A person who often looks at the shortcomings of others is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.

3. Right and wrong happen every day. If you don’t listen, there will be no right and wrong. Right and wrong will happen every day. If you don’t listen, you will still have right and wrong.

4. If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

5. To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the concept that everyone in the world will die.

6. Although you hate a person, you can still find his advantages and benefits. There are too few cultivated people like this in the world.

7. Face your inner conflicts and stains honestly, and don’t deceive yourself.

8. Karma has never owed us anything, so please don’t complain.

9. We do have such advantages, but we must also hide some of them. This is called self-cultivation.

10. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

11. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that the pain is not eternal.

12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

13. Don’t waste your life on something you will definitely regret.

14. When you let go, there will be no worries.

15. Every trauma is a kind of maturity.

16. When you know the confusion, you are not pitiful. When you don’t know the confusion, you are the most pitiful.

17. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with low self-esteem cannot be saved.

18. Don’t be dissatisfied with others all the time. You should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.

19. You have to be tolerant of those who have different opinions from you, so that life will be easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. You have to learn how to tolerate him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.

20. To admit one's own greatness is to admit one's own stupidity.

21. If a person cannot forgive others from his heart, he will never feel at ease.

22. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

23. It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more lenient with your words.

24. When you persuade others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no matter how good your words are, they will be useless.

25. Don’t mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

26. You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?

27. Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others cannot diminish other people's achievements.

28. Never waste a minute of your time thinking about anyone you don’t like.

29. How many people will say the same sentence when they are about to leave this world. This world is really helpless and desolate!

30. Love is not charity and cannot be given casually. There is no formula, no principle, and no reason to follow in feelings. But people are still persisting and pursuing until death.

31. Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievances with compassion and a gentle attitude, so that others can easily accept it.

32. Those who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for opportunity is a fool.

33. Being able to say but not do is not true wisdom.

34. Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don’t rush to express your own opinions.

35. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? With the same mentality, why are you full of troubles?

36. We will always think that something is wonderful if we can’t get it. That’s because you know too little about him and don’t have time to spend time with him. One day, when you understand deeply, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

37. There is only smoothness in this world, not perfection.

38. If you are alive for one day, you are blessed and you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.

39. The more attention you have to pay attention to others, the less time you have to reflect on yourself. Do you understand?

40. If you want to know about the catastrophe of swords and weapons in the world, you can only listen to the sound of slaughter in the middle of the night. Don't just complain about your illness and disasters, but look at how many sentient beings have died under your sword?

41. Hatring others is a great loss to oneself.

42. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life or even cherishes it. For those who do not understand life, life is a punishment to them.

43. People who think they have wealth are actually possessed by wealth.

44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only when you let go of emotional attachment can you feel free. ......>>

Question 4: How can you change your weak character of being too introverted, too honest, too inferior, or you are aware of your own problems

Also I feel like there should be a change

Then adjust yourself and set a new direction for yourself

Make a few friends

Actively exercise to improve your physical fitness and then improve your psychology Quality

Start cultivating your own abilities so that you have strength. Because you have strength, you will have confidence.

Question 5: What is honesty? What is the concept of honesty? What to do if a person is too honest? How to change your honest personality? Thanks! The so-called "honest" refers to people; it should refer to those who are not tactful, unsophisticated, unassuming, and not snobbish; who are always consistent in appearance, consistent in words and deeds, consciously abide by, and promote human principles; who are both real people and People who work conscientiously; do not deliberately offend the dignity of others, and do not wait for opportunities to usurp other people's interests.

According to your point of view, you think honest people suffer. I also advocate being somewhere in the middle between honesty and cunning, leaning towards tact.

This kind of personality is not easy to change, because the root of honesty is kindness, which has penetrated into your heart, and of course it can be changed.

Just be less obedient and not too kind. You can't be too honest, and you can't be too cunning. Be a little more honest, or a little more cunning, believe me, China's thousands of years of traditional culture is the mean, the middle is in the middle, never straying from both sides, never going to extremes.

Question 6: I am too honest, what should I do, how can I change my personality? Hello, I suggest you not to limit yourself to the Internet, but make more friends.

You can find your own character or change your character in the process of interacting with others, because the formation of character depends on the influence of the environment. Communicate more with others.

Question 7: How to change a person’s personality if he is too honest?

Being with humorous and extroverted people often can change it a little bit

Question 8: How can I change my personality and become cruel? I'm too honest and I can't stand it. You haven't experienced enough painful things~

The more you experience, you will find your maturity

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Just like now that you have discovered this weakness of yours, the pain you feel

is actually because you still have too few contacts with people, and you don’t go out to play often

< p> Make more friends, there are some extroverted classmates and their usual style of doing things~ You can learn from some of them

Sometimes when people call you, don’t always agree to them immediately. You can also look into people’s eyes when you talk. Some small ways to prevent you from being too honest...

This cannot be changed in a day or two

When I first entered college, I also felt that I was too honest. Maturity

Now after a few years, I have improved a lot~ I am also satisfied with it, but my experience is limited and I cannot be too mature

It is easy to solve problems if I know them, but I will not pay attention to you in normal times. It is very helpful to be reminded of your actions from time to time

Question 9: How to change your honest and cowardly character? A 5-point personality is often innate, and it is really difficult to change. Sometimes you know that being too honest is not good, but you just can't do it. I think you can practice it slowly and don't be anxious. If you really can't change, don't be miserable and don't force it. Just be yourself and be yourself.