▲When he shows some ability to control himself, you should praise him in a targeted manner. For example, if he originally wanted to throw something when he lost his temper, but this time he lost his t

▲When he shows some ability to control himself, you should praise him in a targeted manner. For example, if he originally wanted to throw something when he lost his temper, but this time he lost his temper but did not throw anything, you should praise him. 2. Ignore it ▲ Sometimes the child will cry deliberately to test you. At this time, as long as you stand firm, he will see that he has no hope of controlling you, he will calm down, and he will no longer cry arbitrarily. ▲If a child loses his temper because he can't get something, never give him something just to calm him down. If he gets what he wants by losing his temper, he will lose his temper more freely in the future. ▲If your child cries arbitrarily and you can't stand his screams, you can go somewhere else to do loud activities, such as sucking the floor or nailing things. Don't pay attention to what your child says or does when he cries. Let him understand that shouting is useless. Only by talking well will you listen. 3. Divert attention ▲Music has a calming effect. Playing some music can attract the child's attention and stop the crying. ▲You can suddenly propose a new thing and ask your child to do it with you, and he will forget about losing his temper. ▲Whisper something interesting in your child's ear, or start telling a story, and your child is likely to stop crying in order to listen to the story. ▲If you feel your child is getting more nervous, let him play a fun game, read a book, or just take him outside. 4. Isolation policy ▲ Calmly take the child to another quiet place and tell him that he can come back when he stops crying. When he comes back, talk to him about what happened and how to avoid this happening. If the child cries again, the isolation policy will still be adopted. ▲If your child starts crying and fussing in the store, just calmly take him out or take him to the car. Wait until he has cried before continuing to finish what he just did. Don't let your child think that a tantrum will stop you from making a purchase. ▲Don’t argue with him when he loses his temper. He will definitely not listen. When the incident is over and he is in a good mood, you can talk to him. This will have better results. Method A for foreign mothers to comfort their children who are throwing tantrums: Relax your feelings. If your child loses his temper, I will calmly tell him that I will not change my mind. I will leave the room and stay in a nearby place until the child calms down on his own. Come down. If the child is not calming on his own, I go in and try to talk through the child's feelings. If that doesn't work, I try telling the kid a joke again. Sometimes, I would just lie down on the floor and say, "I want a BMW! I want it now!" Usually my daughter would look at me in surprise and say, "Mom!" - and then the little guy would forget to say it. temper. B: Stand your ground I think it’s okay for your child to stay calm when they’re having a tantrum, but it’s important to stand your ground. You have to be persistent and willing to follow the discipline you set for yourself. Never say something you don't intend to do, such as "If you don't get up, I'll leave you here and go home."