How to encourage children's self-confidence

The ways to encourage children's self-confidence include encouraging children to develop self-confident action methods, getting along with confident people more, and accumulating small victories into great victories.

1, encourage children to develop confident action methods.

Speak first in class, walk with your head held high, shake hands firmly, take the initiative, and be the first in everything. These behaviors will make people look confident, and over time they will internalize into a confident temperament.

2. Get along with confident people.

Let children have as little contact with negative and depressed people as possible, and spend more time with sunny and energetic people in their lives. Children will also be infected by a positive and cheerful atmosphere and become optimistic, cheerful and confident.

A small victory is an eternal victory.

Parents can teach their children some tips in life and encourage them to overcome some minor setbacks. You can also give your child some tasks, encourage him to complete them, congratulate him on his success and make him feel happy after completion. This kind of successful experience is not necessarily how many points you got in the exam, how many books you read, and what school you went to, but also from the bits and pieces of successful experience accumulated in your life.

Protect children's self-esteem

Don't ignore any advantages of children, even if you get a cup and pour you water today, don't forget it. You can find an eye-catching place at home, hang a small blackboard, and record the advantages of children and some small things that children do. Never say that children are bad in front of others, especially in front of everyone, even if there are bad places.

Because this will make the child lose face, even praise some small advantages of the child, protect the child's self-esteem, and prevent others from watching his jokes. When a child makes a mistake, it is difficult to treat it rationally and calmly, but it is still necessary to control his emotions and communicate with the child. If adults keep pushing her or yelling at her, they won't solve the problem in the end, and they will only make the children against you.